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| Guys! Older women are for real relationships or a notch on your belt?
Posted: 10/29/2007 7:09:30 AM | cheers lugnut362005!
thanks god am all covered in all of my pixels on here! 
but will seriousness, i do agree with what you've theorised..."why do so many woman show off their goodies in their pics and post their looking for fun but want a ltr. ?"
...so why are there so many woman do that?  | |
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| Guys! Older women are for real relationships or a notch on your belt?
Posted: 10/29/2007 2:05:29 PM | | probably because they are desperate or don't know the rules of the real game here. ....I put a few things up that I eventually took off of this site because I thought it was artsy.....whoops, I didn't realize that it would get the reveiws that it did...so, niativity or desperation would be what I would think that they show them off for...and by the way, that isn't the subject here. | |
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| Guys! Older women are for real relationships or a notch on your belt?
Posted: 10/29/2007 2:23:18 PM |
tell you what....these OLDER MOMMIES....can rock your world.
And don't ever forget it.
You go, girl!  Until I hit my 40s, I was never really approached by younger guys. I'm still not sure if I find it flattering or strange. I had a "thing" going a while ago with a 28 year old.. he was good looking, sexy, had his act together... but there was no spark and I decided that it just wasn't worth the effort. The other night I was approached by a 23 year old that I know... I was very flattered because he is adorable and sexy.... but that's a line I just can't cross.... (sigh). | |
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| Guys! Older women are for real relationships or a notch on your belt?
Posted: 10/29/2007 3:21:32 PM | | I get plenty of attention of younger men. Some of them are only looking for sex. ( To be fair, there are also some older women that are only looking for sex with younger men and there are some men around my age that are only looking for sex ). There are some younger men who are interested in having a serious relationship with an older women for whatever reason. There are some men who go after any attractive women regardless of age. | |
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| Guys! Older women are for real relationships or a notch on your belt?
Posted: 11/9/2007 10:05:50 AM | I don´t believe age is important where love and attraction is conecerned however I have always been attracted to older women and I belive the bet realtionships are the ones where the woman is at about 10 years older than the guy .
I have dated some younger women, some my own age but mostly older thatn me and found those relationships to be the best ones for both of us.
They ended for various reasons but those were the ones that had the best chance of succeeding.
Older women are more attractive physically as well as mentally and I seem to have more things in common, however that may be because I ahve always been more mature for my age, I guess many guys are more immature and like yournger women because it´s easier to get into their pants.
 
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| Guys! Older women are for real relationships or a notch on your belt?
Posted: 7/10/2008 9:43:09 AM | *Need more Specifics....*
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'Older' : In General . . ?
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Older .. than Me..??
I'm available to women between 30 and 60....[I have children in their late 20's..]
I'd Like to find someone Close to my age...for an LTR....
but it's more about Her acceptance of Me, that would attach me to a 'younger' Lady.....
... it's all in the Maturity, Chemistry and Activity level we can share, too...
I'm not ready to be fitted to a Rocking Chair....
There's still plenty of spring in my step... | |
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Posted: 7/10/2008 10:11:48 AM | The only time I've dated an 'older' woman was in my mid-20s (she was mid-30s), so I'll answer from that experience. Keep in mind this was my shortest relationship, by far...ever. I prefer LTRs that are measured in decades.
While she was a friend (still is) & I like her very much......& we had a great time for the 6 months we dated, I NEVER saw her as long term 'rest of your life type' potential. Even then, without thinking about it, I knew that we would both grow & change over the years.....& the chance of our doing that successfully together was much less than if we had been of similar ages.
She wasn't a 'real' relationship OR a notch in my belt......she was a good friend who I enjoyed being with until it was time for the next phase of life's many levels.
Chance are, if he is more than 12 years younger (or under 30)....he's not looking at it like it could end in marriage/kids/etc.
Now, a couple months w/ a cutie who actually likes giving BJs, is comfortable enough sexually to orgasm easily, displays no crazy jealous tendencies AND doesn't mind paying her own way?
A guy would have to be crazy at ANY age to turn that down. That doesn't equate to an automatic LTR, tho.
I could see how having the hot youngsters clamoring for a shot would make one search for any reason why it COULD be true to your dreams......but its probably pretty rare for these to work out 'happily ever after'. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2008 10:56:49 AM | | i want an older wooman myself. they are more mature and are over all the "he he" fun and games. i'm personally sick of that bullshit. i want an older woman to settle down with and have a lasting time with. i am only or already (whichever way you look at it) 31 years old. i want a woman 36 or older. it's not a lot of difference but hell, i'm sick of games | |
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| Guys! Older women are for real relationships or a notch on your belt?
Posted: 7/10/2008 11:10:09 AM | | According to some of male friends, when a man is looking for casual sex, the age of the woman isn't that important. They will go after almost any woman who is 1) at least somewhat attractive and / or 2) available. As for serious relationships, some younger men do prefer older women within reason. IMO most serious relationships between a younger man and a much older woman ( such as 15-20 yr age difference ) wouldn't work out. But there are some exceptions to that. For example, Demi Moore, Katie Couric, and Kim Cattrall are married to or are dating much younger men. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2008 11:39:30 AM | C'mon...ML. You know that the rules change when you introduce fame, ambition & big $$$.
Of course, any woman who keeps herself in the same physical & financial shape as those three will have a much larger pool of legitimate suitors from which to choose. | |
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| Guys! Older women are for real relationships or a notch on your belt?
Posted: 7/10/2008 12:05:20 PM | C'mon...ML. You know that the rules change when you introduce fame, ambition & big $$$. Of course, any woman who keeps herself in the same physical & financial shape as those three will have a much larger pool of legitimate suitors from which to choose.
Money might play a role in their relationships. But I mentioned these women because they are well known examples. There are a few ordinary women who are dating much younger men. It's probably not that common. But it does happen. I personally know a 42 yr old woman who is currently dating a 26 yr man. She isn't rich or famous. | |
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| Guys! Older women are for real relationships or a notch on your belt?
Posted: 7/11/2008 8:44:02 AM | Ahhh, dating sure.........but is it a 'real' relationship, as the title to the thread asks?
Yes it is a real relationship. I think most relationships between a younger man and a much older woman are a FWB or casual sexual relationship. But there are a few exceptions. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2008 5:05:20 PM | | There was a woman who was 16 years older than me that I had history with off and on. And while we were very compatible in a lot of ways,there's no way I would have settled down with her. Then again, she wasn't exactly the settling down type either. She had an Elizabeth Taylor complex. | |
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