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Posted: 8/20/2007 12:41:41 AM | Okay age dont matter.. so I have been reading.. fine and wonderful..
What happens when you are 60 and he is oh lets say 45.. you are old and he still looks awsome.. does he stay cause he loves you .. does he stay cause he is blind?
or does he stay?? ... can I get some feed back from the gents on this one?? plss?? Right now .. all is good cause we all LOOK GOOD NOW.. what happens when we loose good looks? I know gramma said find someone you can talk to for hours.. cause once the looks and sex are gone its all you are going to have LOL have a great night every one | |
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Posted: 8/20/2007 2:06:17 PM | | OP i was just wondering ????were you raised by a single mother ? | |
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Posted: 8/22/2007 9:02:49 PM | | I like women who are older than me (5-10 years) the problem is they arent interested in me! | |
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Posted: 8/23/2007 1:14:34 PM | date who ever you want to date ,,if the feeling is mutual who cares what anyone else thinks ,,all that matters is how you feel about it ,,if it isn't against the law its ok ,,law of the land.
live in the present ..deal with when your old when you get there.,,partners aren't as predictable as a pension plan .no matter how perfect you look together doesn't make it a sure thing you will stay together.
when people only look at the inner beauty ,age doesn't matter ,nor weight ,colour ,sex,etc. you feel your going to get a nice package .stop asking why .another might think he is a chump.
any against are getting selective about there requirements for inner beauty to be acceptable ..dont listen ,they are talking about how it would look ,,or how they feel about it ,,when all that matters is how the two of you feel about it .
when some say inner beauty isn't all its made out to be ,,you can disagree with them ..and we will understand why.
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Posted: 8/26/2007 4:38:57 PM | Never had a younger man.......sounds like something I should try. Would finally find someone interested in the same music. Who needs age to be a factor in chemistry between two people. Although I am creeped out by men who are the same age as my parents wanting to hook up. Otherwise power to LOVE........if you both are on the same page......why not. After all you only live once......and this is not a rehersal. Have no instances where you say " I wish I had" | |
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Posted: 9/21/2007 1:34:03 PM | I have read the whole forum and the above comment I agree with whole heartedly! Culture plays a huge role in this topic. Presently in the west,female pop culture icons have make it fashionable to marry or date a younger man and Oprah condones it "you go girl!" and if she says its ok...its ok!..right? 30 years ago it was very acceptable for an older man to be with a younger women. God help you now if you are my age and you date a women under the age of 30. All the people that would judge me could care less about how she or I feel about each other, as long as they can sit on their high horse and impose judgment on me then its all good in their world...for them that is...people have to be more concerned with THEIR OWN LIVES!...not so much the lives of others...and ya, throw out your Oprah mags please!
BTW...I normally date my own age group or older- however, I'll date whatever age women I want thanks! | |
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Posted: 9/21/2007 2:06:36 PM | | I am a 52 year old British woman who has been chatting to a 37 year old British man on POF and on the phone. He says he likes older (maturer) women and wants to meet me on Sunday. I am curious and would like to meet him, in a safe public place of course. If the chemistry isn't there then surely we could just be friends despite the age difference. But if the chemisty is there ..... Am I being a silly "old" fool? Does the age difference seem disgusting? | |
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Posted: 9/22/2007 7:56:11 AM | | no !! you are entitled to date whoever you like and likes you, that's all that matters | |
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Posted: 9/22/2007 11:02:17 AM | demi-ashton 15 year difference still strong
tina turner and husband of 5 years shes 20 years older
madonna is 18 years older than Guy ritchie
its who the person is that counts | |
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Posted: 9/22/2007 5:40:01 PM | wouldn't mind a younger man. But not some of the ones on this site, that want someone to have sex with or they are abusive in some way, or drug users.. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2008 1:59:18 PM | I have been on this site for a while now....and seem to have been stalked by lookie loo's /married men/sex addicts/serial monogamists...the list goes on....I have always politely steered away from form the younger men wanting to date.... since the above selection of men...(not all men)...only the ones I ran across...seem less than desirable I have reconsidered and will give it a shot!...any one else????????,,,your thoughts.... | |
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Posted: 7/10/2008 3:35:21 PM | I prefer to date women older than me as I find that girls my age tend to be immature and not have their priorities and responsibilities sorted out.
I dated a woman who was 13 years older than me for about 3 years. Things didn't work out because of maturity and priority issues...I wanted to get a house and settle down and she still wanted to go out and have fun all the time but we are still great friends.
It also depends on the type of relationship you are truly looking for.
being honest with yourself for what you want from the relationship will help you decide if it is going to work for you in the long run. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2008 7:36:27 PM | Why women in their 50's date men 35 - 40
Men at 35..40
- Handsome
- Charming
- Financially successful
- A caring listener
- Witty
- In good shape
- Dresses with style
- Appreciates finer things
- Full of thoughtful surprises
- An imaginative, romantic lover
- Opens car doors, holds chairs
- Has enough money for a nice dinner
- Listens more than talks
- Laughs at my jokes
- Carries bags of groceries with ease
- Owns at least one tie
- Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
- Remembers birthdays and anniversaries
- Seeks romance at least once a week
Men nearing 45...
- Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
- Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally
- Nods head when I'm talking
- Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
- Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
- Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
- Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
- Remembers to put the toilet seat down
- Shaves most weekends
Men at 50...
- Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
- Doesn't belch or scratch in public
- Doesn't borrow money too often
- Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting
- Doesn't re-tell the same joke too many times
- Is in good enough shape to get off couch on weekends
- Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
- Appreciates a good TV dinner
- Remembers my name on occasion
- Shaves some weekends
Men at 60...
- Doesn't scare small children
- Remembers where bathroom is
- Doesn't require much money for upkeep
- Only snores lightly when asleep
- Remembers why he's laughing
- Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself
- Usually wears some clothes
- Likes soft foods
- Remembers where he left his teeth
- Remembers that it's the weekend
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Posted: 7/10/2008 7:39:18 PM | | Women could use the above as a kind of guide to what age of man to date. It is important to me, for example, to date a man who does not belch in public. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2008 8:21:36 PM | 
Good God!............talk about slim pickings.........lmao....hmmmmmmmmm | |
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