| OLDER WOMEN YOUNGER MEN Posted: 9/25/2005 10:02:47 PM | well ALL I quit looking as of right now... time for myself to be my own person and STOP lookin .. friends are cool. but I'm so flipping tired of the SEARCH!!!! If it is ment to happen.. fantastic.. In the mean time.. I'm happy to live in a great country, be healthy and Happy, have frineds I truely care for ,and a family that loves me..
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| OLDER WOMEN YOUNGER MEN Posted: 9/26/2005 10:56:33 PM | It's bound to happen sooner or later whether he's be older or younger.........for me it would be younger, but since i've been posting seems some hot older guys>>> so u never know waht way it's going to happen............ | |
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Missy
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| OLDER WOMEN YOUNGER MEN Posted: 9/27/2005 8:24:44 AM | | Younger men are definitely hot and sexy but I think it is more a "for the moment' attraction than anything worth pursuing for a future...awesome for the ego to find out that you are attractive and sexy to these hot bodied souls....but think I am looking for more than just the moment... | |
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| OLDER WOMEN YOUNGER MEN Posted: 9/27/2005 9:23:52 AM | Cheers to that SS! My ex is 12 years older than me. We met when I was 20. I grew up, and he stayed the same. I agree it's just a #, but I also believe lifes experiences make who you are, regardless of how old a person is. I've dated younger men as well.... they are like engergizer bunnies, and are eager to learn, but I am to the point where I'd rather be with someone who's already been trained, and doesn't require guidance. There's definately something to be said about maturity. In way more than one way  | |
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nrk
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| OLDER WOMEN YOUNGER MEN Posted: 9/27/2005 9:45:20 AM | | Ahhhh...but maturity does not automatically come with age (as all you wise women already know). Last guy I went out with was only 4 years younger than me but might as well have been 12 (as in years old!) And I've met (tho not dated) guys 16+ years my junior who have their lives a lot more together than some of the men my own age. | |
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| OLDER WOMEN YOUNGER MEN Posted: 9/27/2005 9:51:10 AM | | I agree with the maturity thing..comes in all ages (or not at all!), guess if there are some of the things I am looking for in the younger package then the options are open...just don't want to start my whole life over, waiting for him to finish high school.....ha ha | |
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nrk
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| OLDER WOMEN YOUNGER MEN Posted: 9/27/2005 10:16:08 AM | | yeah...I would definitely draw the line at my having to make his lunch and drive him to school so he wouldn't miss his first class...LOL | |
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| OLDER WOMEN YOUNGER MEN Posted: 9/27/2005 11:06:05 AM | | NRK - I so have to agree....have dated guys within 2 or 3 years of my age and they were FAR more messed up than teenagers! | |
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Missy
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| OLDER WOMEN YOUNGER MEN Posted: 9/27/2005 1:35:46 PM | | My last bf was 8.5 years younger...I'm thinkin' I prefer them older - at least closer to me in age than that anyway. | |
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| OLDER WOMEN YOUNGER MEN Posted: 9/27/2005 3:05:20 PM | Well as we all grow older I think we all want the same thing.... to have what Ashton and Demi have.... Fun filled relationship.... Okay marriage now !!!!
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| OLDER WOMEN YOUNGER MEN Posted: 9/27/2005 3:22:19 PM | | I tend to have a thing for younger men- especially if they are wanting to learn...,not sure what it is about them.... | |
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| OLDER WOMEN YOUNGER MEN Posted: 9/27/2005 6:55:54 PM | I used to think the training part was fun, but realized it's a novelty, that quickly wore off. I can't stand the stupid little wrestling crap most younger guys do with their buddies. If they could just contain their testosterone and energy for things that actually matter, then I might stay interested. That'll never happen, so I'll pass thanks. I like em within 5 years of me now. Any older, and they seem to want to change me. Been there, no frackin thanks man. Next....! | |
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| OLDER WOMEN YOUNGER MEN Posted: 9/27/2005 9:39:10 PM | | always an interesting subject... I know for myself I am looking for a man to be my partner and by that I mean a man that is comfortable enough with himself to be himself and let me be myself... so far that has been the + / - 5 year rule (but rules are made to be broken!) | |
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| OLDER WOMEN YOUNGER MEN Posted: 9/27/2005 10:19:29 PM | Cheers to that sista! Trained and young....now there's a rare treat.....oh baby  | |
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| OLDER WOMEN YOUNGER MEN Posted: 9/27/2005 10:20:46 PM | | Trained and young...that is an option? God I am going to have to walk around with my eyes closed to those options... | |
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