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Posted: 6/8/2006 9:33:39 PM | | I like both older and younger woman. Depends on the person. I've had a secret crush on an older lady for years. Where have all the belly dancers gone? sigh | |
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Posted: 6/8/2006 9:45:59 PM | Ok, for starters: My ex is 16 years older then I. I was 20 she was 36. We lasted 11 years. It was tuff goin sometimes, but no regrets, whatsoever. Who The Fox, You gotta stop puttin up pics like the current one. In my opinion, Head to toe, its all good little lady. Specailly if you get the humor that you give constantly on the threads. The couple times we met, like at the last brunch. I found your personality to be very pleasant and funny.
But datin someone closer to my age would be somthing I haven't tried since I was a teen. Either way, its all good.           | |
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Posted: 6/8/2006 11:43:52 PM | i prefer to date older women as they typically have themselves together
they don't get hung up on things
and are past all the bullshit
they know what they want and expect, and tell you
and dont get pissy if you do the same | |
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Posted: 6/9/2006 1:43:50 AM | | How about dead lady corpses on the road and younger men. There is a huge surplus of attractive males and the instinct to reproduce is stronger than any impulse so nothing should surprise you. Try to find a disabled female who does not have at least one boyfriend. | |
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Posted: 8/12/2006 1:01:49 AM | | I'd date older women without a second thought... but I do have my standards. I started this with an age criteria of 3 years my junior and senior... why? because I would like someone relatively close to my age. Now I'm thinking 5 years either way... Dating is one thing, long-term is another... | |
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Posted: 8/12/2006 9:04:22 AM | for some reason, my tendency has been to date younger men...sometimes a year or two younger, sometimes a decade. i have on occasion dated a guy my age, but rarely someone older...really dunno why.
i find that the younger the guy the more his motives tend to be for a purely physical relationship...seems that older women are okay for play, but not for something more emotional or long-term. it seems that young men in their early 20s often perceive older women as a fetish or a short-term thrill. *lol* at least most of them are honest about it.
whereas i've found that guys within 5-6 years of my age tend to have more of their sh*t figured out, know what they want, have a sense of direction, and tend to be more willing to build something on both physical and emotional levels. i'm tending to stick to men in this age range more and more lately...it just seems to work better for me. | |
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Posted: 8/12/2006 9:39:32 AM | Well, I haven't read all the posts here, but thought I'd jump in the waters and give my thoughts! I was married to a man 14 years older than me...it worked fine, except for some other very serious issues, but, we had lots in common. My 2nd husband (yup, I'm one of THOSE ladies! LOL) was a year older...it was okay, but most of the time, he acted his age and couldn't keep up with me! I have also dated a man 5 years younger...seems again, not enough energy for me! So....the moral to my story is, it's not the age, it's the person that determines the age! So the way I look at it, is this...I try not to look at the number on the birth certificate, but rather the man himself! Maturity is a must, seriousness is a must, responsibility is crucial, fun is a must, but some of the best times come when we all let out the "little kid in ourselves"! It's all about balance!
O/T....older women...younger men.....older men....younger women....keep an open mind and find the fun and the balance! Love has no boundaries! | |
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Posted: 8/12/2006 2:22:04 PM | Ageism...me thinks older women go for younger men for stamina and endurance. Frankly younger men are nice to look @, have some brains but 'cuz of their age don't have the life experience I can relate too. I am not into teaching them moves nor am I Mrs. Robinson....
I want to enjoy myself etc, not the other way around. I still prefer men older than me because of their life experiences, and know how to treat a lady. Not just a rough and tumble ride......... and there is more to me than meets the eye.
There are ways and means of ramping up.....  | |
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Posted: 8/12/2006 2:50:21 PM |
Most single women fill their time with activities to try and prevent loneliness and fool themselves into thinking that everything's alright, but deep down they're not satisfied with being all alone. It's just a cover-up. There's no substitute for a male-female loving relationship.
Oh Paleezzzze!!!..... what century are you from?  | |
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Posted: 8/12/2006 11:55:59 PM | I have found a very high proportion of messages to me come from younger men and although I am flattered - confidence does not equate to compatibility. But not all men act their age either. We each have our own criteria to base a relationship on but I still find ten years either way gives me more to connect with.
The type of messages from a lot of younger men lack intelligence and insight from lack of experience and imagination. I don't pre-judge based on age but I do need more than a picture of a beer and a question mark after it to stimulate me and make me want to know that person a little more.
I'd like to believe we have moved away from the caveman era. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2006 12:59:52 AM | Ok spaz if that doesn't work how about>>
Hey I'm no caveman..
but I can make your Bedrock""
OH I'm sorry every one>>>>>>>>>> | |
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Posted: 9/23/2006 8:27:22 PM | Before I met my girlfriend I was dating this older woman that was a cleaning lady...but it was cool...We had alot in common...dancing, watching kung foo movies...etc...
She broke up with me quick like when I woke her up with a hand puppet I made out of my old sock and her dentures... | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 3:39:57 AM | Had to share this with all of you... to funny... gotta thank ScorpioSweetiepie too.... read following correspondence between me and a much younger fish...  have to admit...certainly way more original then hey... I like older woman....wanna date!!
From: Nameless Younger Guy (View Profile)
Subject: hi Sent Date: 9/25/2006 3:00:26 AM
I just have to say...you look hot in that jacket...
From: andiedandie (View Profile)
Subject: RE:hi Sent Date: 9/25/2006 3:02:06 AM
Lmao ...thanks
From: Nameless Younger Guy (View Profile)
Subject: RE:RE:hi Sent Date: 9/25/2006 3:03:17 AM
ohhh, you thank yourself...thank you...
From: andiedandie (View Profile)
Subject: RE:RE:RE:hi Sent Date: 9/25/2006 3:08:10 AM
Thanks for the good giggle...off to sleep I go now...without the coat! lol
Nite!
Andie
From: Nameless Younger Guy (View Profile) Subject: RE:RE:RE:RE:hi Sent Date: 9/25/2006 3  02 AM nite, you sould wear the coat though, Liam
Who would have known that sexy mink coat slut would show off so well!!
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Posted: 8/18/2007 12:01:48 AM | UR funny
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Posted: 8/18/2007 12:51:21 AM | I have no issues dating younger men if they are mature and act responsible. I won't date the ones still in the party stage of their life who has no goals though.
My last bf was 28 last year so was 9 years younger but way more mature mentally than a lot of 40 year old men.
I am not into the ones looking for a 'mommy' or who needs to be 'taught'; OR the best one the ones that TALK like they are 18 with their 'yo baby' comments.
I am finding that all the men that are my age right now are in the process of being seperated, divorced or just plain all screwed in the head from bad relationships that the options have to go one way or another and I am getting a lot of over 50 men contacting me that are into 'play' mode and are just as bad. | |
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Posted: 8/18/2007 9:53:56 AM | ^^^^ What a BS comment. Talk about Generalizing. Men in their 40's can run from being immature to being overly mature... just like women. Age is a number that only has relevance when it comes to seniors discounts! We are the age we act but that too would be generalizing as each person of any age can be more mature/wise than their years or vise-versa.
Where a good match comes from is not based on age, but common interests and chemistry. IMHO
Oink | |
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Posted: 8/18/2007 10:08:12 AM | Talk about Generalizing
<<< Has found exactly the same thing. If it is generalizing, so be it. The human race is fairly generic, we grow up, get married, have babies, get divorced, the women grow up and the men dumb down, looking for whatever they have 'missed out on' during the years of staying home and raising kids. During the time frame between 40 and 50, the men sort out the fact that while although they still crave the closeness that they miss in their marriage and get into relationships to get that, they don't want the same bonds(read:ball and chain) as marriage...by 50 they have either decided to settle down and that it's worth it to find someone to change their future depends, or they are fairly set in having their cake and eating it too...
Thankfully we, as women, reach our independent state at 40 and can choose or not whether we want to raise the second set of 'children,' or just play the field...
Edit: and quite frankly, I'm getting to the point where the field is looking pretty good...at least you can step over the piles of caca, rather than getting one stuck to your shoe that it takes forever to get rid of the smell... | |
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Posted: 8/18/2007 10:45:15 AM | ^^^ oh boy, here we go. Let's be fair and do some generalizing on the female side then shall we.
<<< has found that women in their late 30's - early to mid fourties have become stale and watered down. Their main complaint being that they have given birth to children (who I guess, suck all the fun and vibrancy from them in the womb) and want the "security" of knowing they can endure the repeatedness of what they call "marriage".
They tend to want their lives to consist of redecorating and trying new recipes out on their "dumbed down" mates. They are brainwashed by Oprah that there is a "Secret" and if they join a yoga class and start having lunch with their Stepford buddies, that all will be well in the world.
(GENERALIZING CAN BE DANGEROUS) | |
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Posted: 8/18/2007 10:52:25 AM |
^^^has found that women in their late 30's - early to mid fourties have become stale and watered down.^^^
<<< Agrees wholeheartedly...BORING!! | |
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Posted: 8/18/2007 10:56:22 AM | Woman live longer than men on average anyway. What the heck GET er done! | |
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Posted: 8/19/2007 4:22:32 PM | | I agree that age is not an issue unless one wants kids and the other is past that. I do not specifically want a man younger than me but I post it that way because when I am out in public...men my age....well they have started to let themselves go and I have not. Why should I take less? I simply have to have someone younger. What can I say lol. | |
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Posted: 8/19/2007 4:45:14 PM |
the women grow up and the men dumb down
Ahhhh, that's what IT is then. Wheeeeew, thanks for that Cereal. I guess that's why the women decide to run with the young ones,,,,,,cause those young ones are waaayyyyyy smarter than us older gents. Here I was assuming after some men have been thru the grinder a time or two, they have decided that just "playing" around is more cost effective,,,,,,in the long run. Silly me.
Reminds of the new country song...."Would of been cheaper". Damn generalizations!!!! | |
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