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 persephoneuk

Joined: 8/19/2006
Msg: 26
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Using Children As Pawns....
Posted: 8/24/2006 10:51:01 AM
When I told my partner that I was pregnant, I didn't see him for dust.... No way does anyone treat me that way, I do not want him in my life anymore, but the door is always open for him to see his daughter, he has chosen not to... I would never use her as a pawn, it only destroys your own relationship with your children, they will come to resent you for it eventually.
 Angelfacelo

Joined: 3/1/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 8/24/2006 3:41:36 PM
thank u downtoearthchick
i think maybe spooked needs lessons on how to really know how to handle this situation
 iamtheone39

Joined: 2/11/2006
Msg: 28
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Posted: 8/24/2006 7:10:25 PM
Hmmm....I guess you "prefer not to say"anything,judging by your profile,brat777...this was supposed to be an encouraging thread not a bashing one,get a life and be good parents...I am improving and that is the most important point of this thread,don't fight over your kids cause the courts don't encourage it!
 write guy

Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 29
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Posted: 8/24/2006 8:48:11 PM
they should make people work out there divorce before they can get married, would save a ton of time and money,
 get REEL

Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 30
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Posted: 8/24/2006 8:50:08 PM
^^^^^ Frickn Awesome Idea WG ^^^^^

lets write it up now so we can get hitched babe
love your mind.............................................got b0lls
 write guy

Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 31
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Posted: 8/24/2006 8:56:22 PM
Reel and I are already married,

we would get a divorce but niether one of us want the kids

 get REEL

Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 32
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Posted: 8/24/2006 9:24:26 PM
^^^^REVERSE.SPAWNING ^^^^^^

......................................................GET A NANNY
 iamtheone39

Joined: 2/11/2006
Msg: 33
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Posted: 8/25/2006 8:11:08 PM
Hey..I don't candy coat my threads...life is real and so is "pawning". I would be an idiot to say that I have never done anything wrong in my marriage or my divorce...would be scared to date anyone who said otherwise...
 ladyvain

Joined: 3/30/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 8/31/2006 4:51:24 AM
I knew his daughter before we were dating, because we were friends for two years before we got together and we actually dated for a year. I agree that you can't expose a child to a new relationship too quickly, especially if you aren't sure that it'll work. We had planned to marry and then suddenly it was over. I was never the commitment type, never thought that I'd have kids, but I was really dedicated to the relationship. Wish I could say the same for him. He ended it to date a younger woman. He is now repeating the process all over again.
 Witty Fool

Joined: 7/2/2006
Msg: 35
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Posted: 8/31/2006 7:10:23 AM

they should make people work out there divorce before they can get married, would save a ton of time and money,

It's called a pre-nup
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