| Using Children As Pawns.... Posted: 8/24/2006 10:51:01 AM | | When I told my partner that I was pregnant, I didn't see him for dust.... No way does anyone treat me that way, I do not want him in my life anymore, but the door is always open for him to see his daughter, he has chosen not to... I would never use her as a pawn, it only destroys your own relationship with your children, they will come to resent you for it eventually. | |
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| Using Children As Pawns.... Posted: 8/24/2006 3:41:36 PM | thank u downtoearthchick i think maybe spooked needs lessons on how to really know how to handle this situation | |
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| Using Children As Pawns.... Posted: 8/24/2006 7:10:25 PM | | Hmmm....I guess you "prefer not to say"anything,judging by your profile,brat777...this was supposed to be an encouraging thread not a bashing one,get a life and be good parents...I am improving and that is the most important point of this thread,don't fight over your kids cause the courts don't encourage it! | |
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| Using Children As Pawns.... Posted: 8/24/2006 8:48:11 PM | | they should make people work out there divorce before they can get married, would save a ton of time and money, | |
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| Using Children As Pawns.... Posted: 8/24/2006 8:50:08 PM | ^^^^^ Frickn Awesome Idea WG ^^^^^
lets write it up now so we can get hitched babe love your mind.............................................got b0lls
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| Using Children As Pawns.... Posted: 8/24/2006 8:56:22 PM | Reel and I are already married,
we would get a divorce but niether one of us want the kids
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| Using Children As Pawns.... Posted: 8/24/2006 9:24:26 PM | ^^^^REVERSE.SPAWNING ^^^^^^
......................................................GET A NANNY
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| Using Children As Pawns.... Posted: 8/25/2006 8:11:08 PM | Hey..I don't candy coat my threads...life is real and so is "pawning". I would be an idiot to say that I have never done anything wrong in my marriage or my divorce...would be scared to date anyone who said otherwise... | |
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| Using Children As Pawns.... Posted: 8/31/2006 4:51:24 AM | | I knew his daughter before we were dating, because we were friends for two years before we got together and we actually dated for a year. I agree that you can't expose a child to a new relationship too quickly, especially if you aren't sure that it'll work. We had planned to marry and then suddenly it was over. I was never the commitment type, never thought that I'd have kids, but I was really dedicated to the relationship. Wish I could say the same for him. He ended it to date a younger woman. He is now repeating the process all over again. | |
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| Using Children As Pawns.... Posted: 8/31/2006 7:10:23 AM |
they should make people work out there divorce before they can get married, would save a ton of time and money, It's called a pre-nup | |
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