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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 8/20/2006 10:06:25 PM | I see some of the guys here are complaining about the 'head games' women play -- maybe I'm just whacked but I LOVE that. They're being a challenge, and find me interesting.
As for turn offs:
1. Lack of elegance -- I'm so tired of meeting women who have no table manners and no poise. They're pushing 30 and talk, behave, cuss and walk like they're still 17...
2. Nothing attracts a masculine, confident man more than a feminine woman. But when she apologizes for being 'high maintenance' that attraction goes out the window. Don't let other women's jealousy over your beauty steal your joy. Rub those girls' noses with it, and men will love you for it. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 8/20/2006 10:15:22 PM | 1) Man-bashing. It can range from "the look" -you guys know what i'm talking about- to full-fledged manhating ("men are pigs...", etc.) It doesn't need to be directed at me, either. If I see her treating badly or badmouthing another guy, she will be immediately discarded.
2) Entitlement sense. She thinks she deserves everything, or that she's always right, only because she has a vagina. Every time a woman says "I deserve..." I always ask "why?".
3) Whining. No explanation needed. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 8/21/2006 3:26:42 AM | You mean "certain women"? Ones I have sense enough to avoid?
Oh boy. I'm gonna tweak someone here, I know it.
1> Disregard for hygene. Dare I elaborate?
2> Excessive foul language. Pepper it in a little, but I find lack of vocabulary kind of droll.
3> Drama. Especially public. Don't make a scene for attention. Lambasting strangers is rude.
That's a few.
Ok. Fire away! | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 8/21/2006 4:00:01 AM | I tend to agree with greeneyedgirl on this one...sorry!! ;-)
From my experience only, most women only say 'i don't know' to questions about any plans to
to allow the man to take the lead, especially in the early stages of dating, if the guy doesn't grab it with both hands its a bit of a turn off for them!!
Think most women will agree deep down they want a manly man!! lol
Things tend to put me off whether men or women.....
Bad breathe
BO
Talking whilke spitting foor in my face!! ;-) | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 8/21/2006 9:30:04 AM | Aside from all the obvious things that separate the ladies from the girls, there's only one thing that completely bugs the hell out of me.
If a woman has something to say to her partner, it needs to be done in private and left between the two of them. If it's something she is going to tell her friends about, she needs to do it when she is completely sure that he, nor anyone else, is going to be hearing about it. And finally, if she is going to have a conversation about her partner while on the phone with a friend, don't walk around and make little comments that lead him to believe that you're talking about something that he cannot prove.
This game is played so often that I have gotten rude about it. A couples' problems are their own. I know that we tell friends sometimes, but our friends will keep these things in confidence and they're really only told because we think they can help. It's when you need to do any of the things I just mentioned that it becomes obvious that you aren't looking for a solution. You're looking for drama.
Fortunately, the exposure I've had to this was with only a few women. The relationships didn't last long, ubt it wasn't until it was over with them that I decided that I wouldn't deal with that kind of garbage again. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 8/21/2006 2:32:33 PM | | The item that would disqualify a woman from a relationship with me would oddly enough happen to be the same qualities that would botch up a friendship. With folks of either gender. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 8/22/2006 2:27:36 PM | 1. Liars (white lies are okay but I still prefer the cold hearted truth)
2. Cheaters (if you like another guy just break up with the current one)
3. Girls with tattoos (sorry total turnoff to me although many men will disagree)
4. Hypocrisy (saying something that makes themselves sound good and then doing the opposite, example: I don't believe in sex before marriage, one week later gets laid by a guy she just met)
5. Girls who go to clubs to pick up guys
6. Indecissiveness (it's okay to want to do something or not, make up your minds, and if you like 4 different guys but can't choose either pick one or pick none don't lead all of them on)
7. Materialistic girls who think money is the most important thing. (the girls who ask what kind of car do you drive? Why should it matter as long as it runs and gets you from point A to point B. Or, Do you make alot of money?, or Will you buy me this or what about that?)
8. Valley girls (like totally for sure, and she was like yeah, and I was like well you know, and then she like said..)
9. Manipulative girls (Just because you may be attractive and know how to shake your *** to get what you want doesn't mean I AM going to give you what you want)
10. Girls who play headgames (Headgames do not get you what you want unless the guy is whipped, it just pisses most decent men off)
11. Violent girls (Sorry but violence is not intimidating or sexy it's just rude and annoying)
12. Girls who use lines like "If you love me you'll do it, or I'll break up with you if you do or don't do this"
13. Girls who can't take an honest answer.
I understand no one is perfect and I could accept one or two of the above stated if they were barely noticeably but any more than that is a deal-breaker. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 9/23/2006 11:05:05 PM | Turn-offs:
1. Porcelain doll or mannequin appearence. This includes WAAAY too much makeup, eyeliner, etc. You look like a Kabuki dancer. Geez. I work with a lady who wears so much makeup she has to wipe her telephone off everytime she uses it.
2. This is related to #1, but more specific - Removing your real eyebrows & painting fake ones up on your forehead. Looking good Ms. Spock.
3. Perfect hair & obsessing over it. Geez youre not a model, & if you are, youre not a model 24/7. Stop fussing so much.
4 Very short hair. Your hair should be at least as long as mine, or longer. Girls are supposed to have long hair LOL
All in all I spose I find overly prissy gals a turnoff. I prefer that raped peasant girl look, or I'll take a freckly redhead anyday over Jennifer Anniston. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 9/23/2006 11:34:08 PM | "So men, what kind of things turn you off about a woman?"
I have sat here thinking seriously about this, and I have come to the healthy conclusion that my answer is NOTHING turns me off about a woman!
There are things a woman might do or say that would turn me off, but that is the individual not the gender.
There is alot of generalizing on here, by both Men & Women. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 9/24/2006 12:11:45 AM | The selfishness. I think it's the root of all the other major problems ( contradictions, erratic behavior, lack of accountability, failure to use logic, nagging, insecurity, etc)
I've found that in every woman, no matter what age, no matter what background, that everything always comes back to them being upset that they just can't have it all. It's always about what they want, what makes them happy, what they feel and on and on and on. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 9/24/2006 12:16:10 AM | | Pansatyros, your answer cracked me up.....I've known a few girls like that! Fortunately my parents raised me to: A) show my intelligence, and B) earn my keep, so that if I want to shop, I can. I guess it's ironic that I dislike shopping, but if I want to, I can! | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 9/24/2006 3:34:48 AM | easy
the proliferation of double standards between females and males
brought upon by femanazis and the spinless legislators that allow it to happen in a legal sense
and the ****fied males that go along with it just to get laid in a social sense
you wanted equality and you have it -- but not " i am more equal then you " | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 9/24/2006 8:09:23 AM | pansatryos, I almost spewed my coffee on my keyboard! I just cleaned it, too.
Lucky my reflexes are good, or I might whine.
Wait... that would be a turn off.
Carry on!
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 9/24/2006 9:24:28 AM | 1 Misrepresentation...She looks really different than her picture and lied about having an average body-
2 Materialistic- ie. three rings, two sets of earrings, four neclaces and two bracelets- so gaudy Buy me this..Buy me that..yuck, omfg yuck
3 Tests- What is up with all of the subtle tests. When she starts them I let her know about the tests and that I will not play into them. Ewwww.
4 Lazy Lazy Lazy Thank god I know how to read palms because this stuff shows up on the thumb. Very aparent at first glance.
5 When she is nasty smelling during sex in the wrong areas- aughhhhhh
6 the constant whining...I just tell them in the most adult way possible that her last boyfriend didn't spank her often enough;)....if she does it again...spank her...kinda funny at times.
7. flakiness....I let them know ahead of time that if she flakes it is done. Next.
Why do some guys put up with this crap.
Also for every beautiful woman out there, some dude is sick of her crap.
It works the same way for cute guys too so don't get the wrong impression.
D Rock
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 9/24/2006 12:35:43 PM | Things that make me instantly go from likey to no-likey and that start to turn my "OMG THIS IS THE WOMAN OF MY DREAMS!!!" way of thinking to, "WHY HAVE I BEEN CURSED WITH THIS UNGODLY DEVIL-SPAWN":
Cheating..I don't care what kind of reason you have, it isn't valid. Lying...mind games of any sort....Materialistic, and comes with unnessary baggage(sometimes some cant be helped)
Gold-diggers, drama queens, thinking you deserve everything you want, when you want it, trying to change me, and any sort of, "Better than you" attitude.
Being indecisive in THIS manner...."Want to eat here?....I don't know....Here??? I don't know....Well, I am going to eat here then.....But I don't like that place." 
Expecting me to know what you are thinking, without telling me. Just because you think I should know, doesn't mean I do. What's wrong with telling me?
Constantly talking about past relationships, what they did to you, etc, etc, etc.....let it go, let it go.
Never satisfied...ya complain about something you want, you get it, and still whine. | |
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lira
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 9/24/2006 12:55:55 PM | | Ok, I have read the post. I have done most of them, but I will explain some. As far when ask what I want to do the weekend, I usually tell my date to decide being he is paying. I dont want to tell him a place that is out of his budget. As far as being mad and not telling him why is I cant hide my emotions. I may try but he knows something is wrong. If I come out and tell him, he will say I am whining or nagging. As far as telling him how to do something, I am only trying to give advice or be helpful. As far as material things, I dont need them. If a man chooses to buy things for me, I will accept the gift. But I also like to give.These are not meant to be smart azz answers. They are why I really do some of these things. No one mentioned womens driving habits. The guy I am dating complained about my driving. He did not like the fact I slowed down behind a slower driver as I came up behind them instead of keeping the same speed and just going around them. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women
Posted: 9/24/2006 1:25:10 PM | Not reading the signs I give off, even when I explain what they mean...
Me telling her something I could do before/during/after sex, her being interested, then just not caring when it happens.
Me telling her something extremely deep, practically in tears, and she decides now's the time to leave me hanging for a few hours before talking again...
Girls who want to get a chance to talk about themselves, but can't be upfront about it when I ask them what they wanted to say.
Women who say "you sound really nice... let's talk, etc." online to a message then when you talk to them they're drunk and cranky... wtf?
-Me | |
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