| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 9/24/2006 1:34:44 PM | | Wow - who knew this would turn into a feel good thread for me? I do nothing on the "turn off" list so far, so I am feeling pretty good about my chances here! Great lists guys, I for one appreciate the honesty and will keep these in the back of my mind. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 9/25/2006 4:35:15 AM | Hey Mate Not to be rude or outspoken, but no wonder your single, there are hardly any shielas out there, that dont fit into one of your turn offs, this is the new age, all females relate to one of the above for different reasons.... I fall into at least two of those reasons, but most guys dont care, they take you as you are and not be superficial.... Sorry to say that mate, but out of all the posts on this topic yours just hit the rock bottom of disgust | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 9/25/2006 4:35:42 AM | Hey Mate Not to be rude or outspoken, but no wonder your single, there are hardly any shielas out there, that dont fit into one of your turn offs, this is the new age, all females relate to one of the above for different reasons.... I fall into at least two of those reasons, but most guys dont care, they take you as you are and not be superficial.... Sorry to say that mate, but out of all the posts on this topic yours just hit the rock bottom of disgust | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 9/25/2006 5:54:18 AM | In no order what so ever.
Liars; especially the stupid ones, if your gonna lie it better be to avoid something majour Crying is blackmail. If your not hurt out or inside dont even START crying. high maintenance girls snotty girls who pick each other apart indecisiveness No opinion girls (wanna go see pirates 2? .... i dunno or i dont care) I'm busy but now, im 'ignoreing her' because she cant find something to do.... GRRR Simpering. Codependance. Every person IS and island and can be an island. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/24/2007 4:01:26 PM | 1. Neediness 2. Anger 3. Bossiness 4. Defensive 5. Drags her feet 6. Poor posture 7. Nail biting 8. Chewing with her mouth open 9. Boring 10. Introverted 11. Self Insecurity 12. B.i.c.h.i.n.e.s.s 13. Home body 14. Sloppy appearance 15. INDECICIVENESS!!!! Drive me crazy…omg 16. CLOSED MINDED!!!!!! Drive me crazy…omg
But that’s only a few…haha
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/24/2007 4:06:39 PM | I like this thread, Uhm, let me see Vanity, huge number one for me. It can manifest itself in so many way. Just be yourself and quit going to the bodyshop to have your make-up applied.
If your wearing so much perfume that I can smell you before I see you, I am going to turn and run
Mostly vanity I guess, I can't deal with women that wear so much jewlery that it makes the metal detectors go off at the airport.
If your going to dress like a slut then expect to be treated like a slut. Don't get mad when guys comment on you and your, Uhm, things your showing off. If you don't like it, put some more clothes on.
Thats about it really, everything else I could mention is well, something that is common to everyone. Just be yourself and quit trying to be something your not, especcially when you copy it off of TV or some womens magazine...
OH, edit, one more thing, Women who use the phrase, "ALL MEN!" That one really pisses me off...
OH, edit, one more thing, Fake Boobs, fake nails, wigs, eyelashes, cologen lips, colored contacts, tounge rings, fake anything really. Just another vanity thing.... | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/24/2007 4:12:26 PM | 1. A total lack of self respect. This covers hygene and behavior. 2. Smoking is a turn off, but if they do something that takes away the smell on the clothing and their breath, it's ok I suppose. 3. Possessiveness. I like knowing I'm wanted but to be overly protective when another woman is around gets to be annoying. 4. Foul Language. 5. Promptness. I know most women can't seem to be on time when it's not dealing with work, but I hate having to wait and wait and wait while a woman "Get's Ready" to go someplace. 6. Doesn't share the same interests I have but expects me to like everything she likes. 7. Being asked "Does this make my butt look big?" and then getting mad if told the truth. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/24/2007 7:05:13 PM | I concur with this list so I won't be redundant, but I will list my pet peeves.
1. Indecisiveness - By this I mean a woman indicates that she wants something and won't take the initiative. I think an excellent example would be the woman who intensively flirts and doesn't want to do more than flirt (and, no, I am not talking about an instant path to the bedroom). By the same token, it really annoys me when women come up with ideas (small dorky things) but do not want to take the responsibility for executing them (even though I am ready to assist).
2. Promptness - Yeah, I really hate waiting around.
3. Man-bashing - I actually enjoy tongue-and-cheek man-bashing as long as it lacks the edge commonplace to the complaints of Russians griping on the street. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/24/2007 7:31:07 PM | | So other than the cosmetic stuff, it's pretty much the same as what turns women off about men. Seems like we're all just human. Some good, some not so good. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/24/2007 8:10:40 PM | top turnoffs are: having a house full of cats Smoking swearing too much make up and too much attention of stupifying daytime television. and finally Slavishly following fashion / consumerism. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/24/2007 10:17:38 PM | 1. asking really personal questions on the first date 2. too much perfume *peeewwwwww* 3. smelling like she's not had a shower in a few days 4. acting like a fricking princess | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/25/2007 12:07:21 AM | Hey brother...you should try another thread entitled what I love most about women. Look on the positive side. We're all different. Every single post on this thread could largely be applied to anyone. It's all relative mang! example:
1. Neediness 2. Anger 3. Bossiness 4. Defensive 5. Drags her feet 6. Poor posture 7. Nail biting 8. Chewing with her mouth open 9. Boring 10. Introverted 11. Self Insecurity 12. B.i.c.h.i.n.e.s.s 13. Home body 14. Sloppy appearance 15. INDECICIVENESS!!!! Drive me crazy…omg 16. CLOSED MINDED!!!!!! Drive me crazy…omg
Imagine what an equivalent post on the ask a woman thread would yield. Much the same I'm sure; just add the fart game! If I had ONE...it would be those small minded one's that think man bashing is feminism.
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/25/2007 3:58:11 AM | | Women that post pics of their kids on the net... There is way to many sickos out there looking at porn now and to offer the small chance that one will be looking at your child and thinking what ever drives me crazy.........if you say you have kids that should be enough pictures will be fine after meeting and dating and besides would you bring your child on the first date with a stranger? drives me crazy | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/25/2007 5:19:58 AM | 1. Star in her own mind
2.Stars on the Calendar that I never get to see until it's too late
3. Starfish in bed
Stars in my eyes turn to ashes pretty quick when the games come out. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/25/2007 2:12:07 PM | 1. Whining 2. Concerned about how much money I make 3. Nagging 4. Overly judgemental 5. Too needy 6. Always having to be with you 7. Not adventurous in bed 8. Comes into my place and uses the phone to pick up messages. (Yes, this has happened.)
There are a few more, but we won't go there right now. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/25/2007 3:00:00 PM | 1: Constantly borrowing my underwear.
2: Watching football while I'm trying to rock the baby to sleep.
3: Hangin' out with the guys till 3am, and then coming home drunk.
4: Continuous phone calls while I'm at the mall shopping with my mother-in-law.
5: Having tickets to the ball game, and inviting her bestfriend first. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/25/2007 3:43:52 PM | Top few things that turn you off about women Message: Saw a corresponding thread about men and did not find one about women. So I figured it will be interesting to see what reasonable men's opinions are about the turn-offs with respect to women. I deliberately omitted specifying a number for things because of it being so subjective in nature.
So men, what kind of things turn you off about a woman?
For me: 1. Indecisiveness 2. Lack of proper personal hygiene 3. Whining 4. Hypocracy - actions not matching words
There are more but enough to get this going for now.. :)
being male lol
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/25/2007 8:03:51 PM | Women who wear revealing clothing, then look at you as if you were dirt when they catch you looking. What's up with that?
Women who curse.
Women who are fundamentally very attractive, but choose to molest their faces with studs and piercings. Particularly nasty on mature ladies. Ditch the scrapmetal!
Women who chew gum without closing their mouth.
Women who can't bear to be wrong, and must win all arguments in typical feminine stealth-bomber fashion, eg.
Her: "Why are you late home?" Me: "I told you, I was out for a drink with my friends, I told you last week, I left a note and I sent a message to your phone telling you I would be late, and I apologise and I won't do it again, I told you." Her: "Ok, so why's the fridge door open?" | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/25/2007 8:23:10 PM |
who the hell is this bushpig ^^^ refering too ?
I think my biggest turnoff for both genders is when people knock other people to make themselves look better.
Most of the things on the lists that I have read apply to both genders. It is a two way street. I am sure that I have some qualities that people find extremely annoying, because I know that they annoy the hell out of me as well. I am anal when it comes to having a job done correctly, and get impatient when it isnt done properly the first time.
Betrayal, be it your partner or your friend never sits well with me.
People who are rude in general.
Poor manners. How hard is it to say please and thankyou? Also, how about chewing with your mouth closed. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/25/2007 11:13:44 PM | Not sure where this is going, some of you guys sound like women haters and others are just posting parts of emails that go around endlessly. There are traits listed that go both ways, we men are not perfect either nor are we the “dominate” sex as we tend to believe we are. When we approach the relationship with the mindset that she is my equal in this; perhaps there is a possibility of success.
I can only cite the things that have been turn-offs with past dates/relationships: 1. The Chameleon – The women who want to blend in with our lifestyles so that they feel like they belong and are safe there. The slippery slope with this type of gal is when she becomes more secure, she’ll demand changes from you. Often she changes back to her normal personality immediately and you are left wondering “what the heck happened?”
2. The Dispatcher – if you have listened to communication between police dispatchers or even air traffic controllers, you will notice the constant back-and-forth acknowledgement that goes on. Well the thing that really turns me off is a women who needs me to sign-on and off every sentence with her with “I (love, need, like, adore, can’t live without, appreciate, etc) you.”
3. The Flashing Light – The coup de gras of all show-stoppers. Simply, it has been said that: True Friendship is when Silence Between Friends is Comfortable. I have been in a relationship where my g/f sat on the couch watching TV and suddenly accused me of not loving her anymore because I was engrossed reading a book. This is the flashing light; the I won’t be ignored person. | |
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| Top few things that turn you off about women Posted: 3/25/2007 11:22:19 PM | 1. Using PMS as an excuse to blow up at us 2. Never concerning themselves with OUR feelings. 3. Feeling that WE must entertain THEM, and that their presence is supposed to be enough to entertain us 4. Chivalry over equality 5. Getting pissed off when we don't completely nag at them to tell us what's wrong. If we ask more than twice, we've asked too many times. | |
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