| bored or lonely Posted: 8/21/2006 8:58:54 AM |
edit: ^^^^I think your missing what people are saying.
Nope, not at all. If you can't entertain yourself and be happy with what you have, you're pretty much screwed. A relationship won't fix being bored or lonely if you can't figure out how to overcome these things yourself. There's nothing worse than being bored and lonely while in a relationship, and if a person is easily bored and lonely, then no one can fix it for him.
Being bored=I can't entertain myself; being lonely=someone please entertain me and stop me from just thinking about myself
There is no reason why anyone should be bored--ever. This is a huge world with a ton of things to do in it. And with all these options, do you think the addition of one person in a man's life will solve it? Nope. He's already got problems.
9 times out of 10, when a man says he's lonely, what he's really saying is "I miss sex." The one guy who's actually lonely is the widower who was married for 40 years. | |
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| bored or lonely Posted: 8/21/2006 9:05:38 AM |
9 times out of 10, when a man says he's lonely, what he's really saying is "I miss sex Hmmm...I gota call B.S on this...its actually 10 out of 10! Geez I am so lonely..err..I mean horny! | |
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| bored or lonely Posted: 8/21/2006 9:47:03 AM | Heck, there's plenty of sex out there if that's what you need.
But I would like a lot more than just that.
But I know, I'm probably just in the minority. Or is it that I'm comparing myself to the under 30s?
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| bored or lonely Posted: 8/21/2006 9:53:37 AM | | the only way I will get bord is by the conversation. nothing else. | |
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| bored or lonely Posted: 8/21/2006 9:46:31 PM | | it's a combination of the two which explains why i'm here. | |
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| bored or lonely Posted: 9/26/2006 7:41:34 PM | | Ya, I hear ya, once your kid(s) are "grown up" there time with u becomes limited and you feel alone all of a sudden. At least guys can feel comfortable walking into a bar or party alone (to meet friends) when they're single. I find that really uncomfortable. The rest of your list doesn't sound too bad if I really wanted to do those things, I wouldn't care what other people thought! I'd find other hobbies to do with those things with like walking my dog, playing with my romote hummer truck, riding a bike, etc. Theirs alot you could do! Haven't been single long? | |
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| bored or lonely Posted: 9/26/2006 11:05:26 PM | Well, with me...I can have lots to do, can be doing lots of things, with a group of people, and I will still be bored or lonely.
I dont really look to other people for fixing things like that. I have no problem keeping myself busy, but I will still be bored. Can be something new, or even something I am interested in.
Lonely, well...I enjoy my own company to a point, sometimes you just want to do things with other people, and of course, that depends on if they are the "right" people. My good friends are gone, and I have yet to meet any in this town that I feel comfortable hanging out with. | |
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| bored or lonely Posted: 9/27/2006 12:35:38 AM | Well, I just happened to get a missed call from someone who cheated on me a few months ago today........wonder if he's bored or lonely? Hope it's both, cause i'm neither!  | |
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