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 Orange Juice Blues

Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 26
bored or lonely
Posted: 8/21/2006 8:58:54 AM

edit: ^^^^I think your missing what people are saying.


Nope, not at all. If you can't entertain yourself and be happy with what you have, you're pretty much screwed. A relationship won't fix being bored or lonely if you can't figure out how to overcome these things yourself. There's nothing worse than being bored and lonely while in a relationship, and if a person is easily bored and lonely, then no one can fix it for him.

Being bored=I can't entertain myself; being lonely=someone please entertain me and stop me from just thinking about myself

There is no reason why anyone should be bored--ever. This is a huge world with a ton of things to do in it. And with all these options, do you think the addition of one person in a man's life will solve it? Nope. He's already got problems.

9 times out of 10, when a man says he's lonely, what he's really saying is "I miss sex." The one guy who's actually lonely is the widower who was married for 40 years.
 bikebowman

Joined: 3/28/2005
Msg: 27
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bored or lonely
Posted: 8/21/2006 9:05:38 AM

9 times out of 10, when a man says he's lonely, what he's really saying is "I miss sex

Hmmm...I gota call B.S on this...its actually 10 out of 10!
Geez I am so lonely..err..I mean horny!
 Maninbedford

Joined: 9/23/2005
Msg: 28
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bored or lonely
Posted: 8/21/2006 9:47:03 AM
Heck, there's plenty of sex out there if that's what you need.

But I would like a lot more than just that.

But I know, I'm probably just in the minority. Or is it that I'm comparing myself to the under 30s?

 father_heart

Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 29
bored or lonely
Posted: 8/21/2006 9:51:33 AM
just bored OF being lonely
 YouRFireD131

Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 30
bored or lonely
Posted: 8/21/2006 9:53:37 AM
the only way I will get bord is by the conversation. nothing else.
 t-bag

Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 31
bored or lonely
Posted: 8/21/2006 9:46:31 PM
it's a combination of the two which explains why i'm here.
 goldielocks101

Joined: 9/7/2005
Msg: 32
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bored or lonely
Posted: 9/26/2006 7:41:34 PM
Ya, I hear ya, once your kid(s) are "grown up" there time with u becomes limited and you feel alone all of a sudden. At least guys can feel comfortable walking into a bar or party alone (to meet friends) when they're single. I find that really uncomfortable. The rest of your list doesn't sound too bad if I really wanted to do those things, I wouldn't care what other people thought! I'd find other hobbies to do with those things with like walking my dog, playing with my romote hummer truck, riding a bike, etc. Theirs alot you could do! Haven't been single long?
 Ravager

Joined: 2/1/2004
Msg: 33
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Posted: 9/26/2006 11:05:26 PM
Well, with me...I can have lots to do, can be doing lots of things, with a group of people, and I will still be bored or lonely.

I dont really look to other people for fixing things like that. I have no problem keeping myself busy, but I will still be bored. Can be something new, or even something I am interested in.

Lonely, well...I enjoy my own company to a point, sometimes you just want to do things with other people, and of course, that depends on if they are the "right" people. My good friends are gone, and I have yet to meet any in this town that I feel comfortable hanging out with.
 julietjuliet

Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 34
bored or lonely
Posted: 9/27/2006 12:35:38 AM
Well, I just happened to get a missed call from someone who cheated on me a few months ago today........wonder if he's bored or lonely? Hope it's both, cause i'm neither!
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