| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 3/23/2009 5:32:55 AM |
I asked him to get an STD check, as I have done, just to be sure, before I would have sex with him, and he broke up with me. I couldn't quite believe this and asked him to talk to me about it, thinking there must be some underlying problem I hadn't realized. He said no, this really was the issue; that while he respected my position, and agreed that it was responsible, there were some things he just couldn't bring himself to do.
That's just strange, Helen. I mean, if I cared about *her* I'd want to (for her safety), and heck, for my own peace-of-mind I'd want to know too.
My last one ended... well, we were just total opposites in so many ways. Different politics (not that that's a big deal), different financial viewpoints/personalities among other things... she's a good person, just couldn't see it ever working out between us. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 3/23/2009 5:49:13 AM |
That's just strange, Helen.
You're telling me... we're both very low-risk, but it isn't like this is some sort of extraordinary measure. Maybe one day it'll be funny...
My last one ended... well, we were just total opposites in so many ways. Different politics (not that that's a big deal), different financial viewpoints/personalities among other things... she's a good person, just couldn't see it ever working out between us.
Aw, how sad. It's a pity when you like each other but it's still a mismatch. It sort of seems like a waste. Hope you find a better fit! | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 3/23/2009 1:20:31 PM | My x fionce was living a double life we new each other 4 years. Engaged for 2 years strange enough everything seemed so perfect not...... Till "we" found out about each other.We met up spoke woman to woman. Then confronted him she went balistic and gave him a few smacks. I stood back trying to take it all in I was in shock.That was over a year ago. He is still trying to ask forgiveness,and called so regular (i never answered)Havent spoke to him since and never will.
I changed all my numbers.He knows full well it will be a cold day in hell when that happens. It has made me weary...But I do believe not all men are like this.There are some gooduns about
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 3/23/2009 1:40:40 PM | | We Were tRYING HAVE CHILDREN AND WERE HAVING PROBLEMS AND WE SOUGHT HELP BUT THE FAILURES PUT A STRAIN ON THE RELATIONSHIP AND SHE FOUND HAPPINESS WITH SOMONE ELSE WIVCH DESTROYED ME PERSONALL FOR A LONG TIME ONLY GETTING BACK TO MY FEET NOW . | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 3/23/2009 2:32:53 PM | We were not sexually compatible.
He prefed to get off by smoking dope 24/7 and I prefer to get off by actually having sex! | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 3/23/2009 3:54:46 PM | | Interesting thought...I just don't think things ever really end (that's so final). Moving on doesn't mean an end, it means a change in direction. Things just ARE...no beginning, no end - just a constant movement from one thing or person to the next. If we end up being with one person for a very long time, cool - but things are still transforming all the time. That's just life. But to put things on simpler terms, the reason things "end" for me (if we must use the word "end") is because I am not being fulfilled in one way or another (socially, spiritually, emotionally, physically, or intellectually) or I was not fulfilling the other person in some way. One thing I learned is NEVER judge it, just go with it. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 3/23/2009 6:00:53 PM | She had a job opportunity as well as family in another country. Goal for her was to be closer to her family. Also never felt at home in Montreal.
Sad really, we loved each other but other than me, there was nothing for her here.... | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 3/23/2009 6:53:54 PM | Nothing spectacular. No lying or cheating or major problems.
We had different opinions about what a relationship was. I wanted closeness and partnership, he was content with a roommate-like arrangement and was happy for us to have our own divided interests and lives and very very rarely participate in things together.
I couldn't ignore what I needed, he couldn't change what he felt was right for him, I didn't want to have to constantly badger him into paying minimal attention to me forever.
We're getting along much better now that we're not married. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 3/23/2009 7:02:18 PM | Sorry Mi11ie, I think I've got even you whipped...
We were married for 10 years, two kids. He cheated,beat me, was mentally and emotionally abusive, took our kids on dates with him to "interview" their new mommy, took $90,000 out of our savings (essentially stealing it). Then filed for divorce and after HE filed for it he told all of our neighbors that I was crazy and if I came up dead it was self defense! Heck, even convinced the chief of police that I was poisoning him...that was of course right before he stabbed himself twice in the abdomen (with our daughter present) and called 911 to report that it was ME that had stabbed him........CRAZY!!!!!!!!
And yes after that he claimed he had cancer too. I felt sorry for my kids so I be-friended him again only for him to swindle me out of more money, and guess what?? no cancer! Yeah thats how it ended........ | |
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Posted: 3/23/2009 7:55:26 PM | | I wouldn't exactly call this a "relationship." He and I had been platonic friends for 6 years and I thought (along with everyone else who knew him) that he was the nicest guy in the world. But after we got "involved," he turned out to be a wildly destructive, amoral, narcissistic sleazbebag who loved playing wacko headgames, and had a history of fooling around with married women. Even his closest friends didn't know about this side to him. I found out near the end that he had met the most recent one, who he'd been seeing for four and a half years, when he initially dated her teenage daughter! (He was 53 at the time.) He apparently went for the mom because she was married to an extremely wealthy man. He thought she would leave her husband and get a big, fat divorce settlement. When that didn't happen, he used me as a pawn in his sick little game, as a way to make her jealous so that she would finally leave. Yeah, I sure can pick 'em! | |
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Posted: 3/23/2009 8:16:49 PM | My last relationship the thing that was missing was him freely admiting he love me. He never said it the whole time we were together. He blurted it out one time totally unexpectatly yet he tried to cover it up. Let me tell you nothing hurt more than being denied love by the person at the time you love. He finally admit it when we broke everything off but at the time we were just friends and nothing would come of it. Now, if I guy can't even admit he even likes me then I am moving on. I would never hurt that badly again. | |
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Posted: 3/23/2009 8:56:47 PM | He lied to me. We were together only 6 months, but after catching him in the 4th lie, about him drinking and driving, when he already had a breathalyzer on one of his vehicles, I told him, "We've had this conversation before" to which he drunkenly replied "so???" I said, "I dont intend to have it again, goodbye"
He was always apologetic the next day, going on about how I was right, it was a stupid thing for him to do, risk getting arrested, jail, losing his license.
He emailed me saying I was so used to being with losers, I didnt know how to actually be with a nice guy. Him being the "nice guy". | |
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Posted: 3/24/2009 10:34:32 AM | | My last realtionship ended simply because we dated for the wrong reasons to begin with. I was 30, she was 22 and a bomb shell. 4 months later she was pregnant and after having our beautiful daughter we realized that we were not sole mates. We tried for 2 years to make it work but it was just never going to be. We are now the greatest of friends and have moved on in our lives with our sole mates | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 3/24/2009 11:01:43 AM | | My last one ended because he thought that he 'owned me' and could do what he wanted to me. He refused to take no for an answer. I wasn't willing to fight him off so I sent him packing. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 3/24/2009 9:10:23 PM |
He died. Oh, wait, that was my imagination...it's good to dream.
Hey! I've had that dream! lol jk... my last (serious) one ended because he had worsening bi-polar disorder, didn't believe he had a problem, and couldn't hold down a job or maintain any other manner of stability. I got tired of telling him to get his sh*t together and he got tired of hearing it. I tried for a loonng time before that though. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 3/24/2009 9:28:44 PM | | I was in a relationship with a man for 2 years, and honestly I think it ended because he's looking for unrealistic things. In the end, really, I'm not sure anyone will make him happy. He's proven this with 3 relationships. Some men should just not date! | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 3/25/2009 12:29:40 AM | I forgot to write in the vows that my (now ex) wife couldn't have any boyfriends...darn knew I forgot something | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 3/25/2009 7:02:50 AM | | Because he loved me....but not enough and I'm worth more than not enough. When he ran off the last time just far enough, hoping I'd follow.....I let him go even though it broke my heart into a million pieces...was 6 years of my life and my love. | |
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Posted: 3/25/2009 7:54:33 AM | Was Dumped in a text message. Its amazing how far we have come in terms of technology and it seems people are turning into robots much like their balckberrys or computers . It wasent even a relationship we were seeing each other than we werent lol. I really need to get out of this bad luck slump theres only so much you can laugh at and brush off before you snap lol. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 3/26/2009 7:19:26 PM | We just did not go the right way. We are so much better as friends. And we are enjoying the friendship as never before | |
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