MNaja
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Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 450 | |
| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 5/21/2009 8:09:15 AM | My relationship ended because he was selfish. Didn't want to take responsibility for anything - nor make grown up decisions. I had to make them all. And, not to be mean or anything - but in the end he showed himself as weak. And I love a strong man. He can put his foot down - he knows what he wants - he doesn't have a cape flying out of his butt or anything - but I'm looking for someone damned near amazing! LOL! | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 5/21/2009 12:26:05 PM | When he took money out of my account without asking or telling me. My trust is gone and so is he. I bought him a bike for his birthday and 3 months after that, he wrecked it. So, he takes the money without me knowing. I probably would have loaned it to him but to take it is wrong, Way Wrong. The fact is I have lost all trust for him.
We were together almost 2yrs. and now my heart is broken. I have definitely have learned a hard lesson. But life goes on and so I do I........ | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 5/21/2009 1:33:50 PM | Turned out we weren't quite as right for each other as we initially thought. Unfortunately it took a bit over a year to finally dawn on us. I'm a very affectionate person while she often just acted way too casual and cold, rejecting any affection. It's not like we got to see each other more than twice a week due to our busy schedules anyways, and even then affection was often not welcome.
We still cared about each other, but it was not going to work out in the long term. So I ended it. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 5/21/2009 2:56:12 PM | It ended because it sucked from the beginning.
My advice: Don't do long distance. It sucks all the way around no matter how hard you try to justify it. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 5/22/2009 6:19:22 AM | | Although, we were not compatiable to begin with, I was emotionally unavailable to him anyways. Maybe not initially, but 3 weeks into dating, I fell in love with one of his friends. Never went with the friend, but my heart was always with him rather than with the guy i was dating. Never could shake it out of my head. You know somethings wrong when you would rather sit around and do nothing with one guy than to do something with the other. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 5/22/2009 9:48:55 AM | | It ended because she had a gut feeling that I was destined to be with someone else. I could not make her accept the fact that I loved her and wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. She also thought that I had ulterior motives. My motive was to meet and marry my best friend. She just wanted to be friends with me. So now we are no longer together and no longer friends. How sad is that? | |
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hrah
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Joined: 4/19/2009
Msg: 458 | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 5/22/2009 12:36:19 PM | | Last Dec 08 ended, because my ex was narcissistic and too self absorb to care about anyone else, too demanding and the controlling type. ::shudders:: I feel sorry for the next girl whoever he marries.. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 5/22/2009 1:06:18 PM | Good Lord ChaseyP: (((((well how my last relationship end was really mess up and really mess me up, i was dating this one girl and when we dated she was cheating on me with 9 other guys and i didnt care it her life she can live it how she want right i dont controle her life but her step father was thinking other ways about this he pulled me in the room he wanted me to hit her and control and when i refued he got up set he try to kill me and her family i gave her 800 to move away and i got the cops involde her sisters and brother were taking to chid care and it was just me and the guy he got arested and little did i know he was planing this from the start cuz when i left that family the kids cam back to the mother as i promice and i promice that sicko guy i would protect them and i did and when he had me in that rom he said to me when i refued so u think ur and angel i told him no i dont i just think mind over madder and it help me out of things and it did cuz when this 14 year old came up to me abused and her father got aresdet the next day so really that how my realtionship has ended and im scared if i find a girl again the same thing will happin i tired of this}}}]
Tough reading. Ever hear of a period, or a paragraph?
Surely, that whole experience was a once-in-a-lifetime thing. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 6/2/2009 2:33:01 PM | My last relationship probably wasn't a relationship at all at least in my eyes.
He told me when we first started dating that he still had a father-son relationship with his ex girlfriend's son, Drew who is 15. I thought that was admirable.
So he would spend time with him, but always with Drew's mom,too.
Bruce would say that he was still friends with his ex girlfriend and they were just friends and no more. However, when it came time for Bruce and I to spend time together, it was all about Bruce and Shirley ( his ex girlfriend).
Don't get me wrong, Bruce was nice and Shirley was nice, but I seemed to be invisable when they talked. One time we were going up to his cabin up in the mountains ( it was going to be our first time together) and Shirley had a cabin near where Bruce had his.
So on a Friday night we started on our journey. Shirley was going in her own car.
I live in Van Nuys and as we traveled up Balboa towards the freeway, he called Shirley to see where she was.
Then he asked what street she had just passed on another call. Then he called her to see if we were close to her on Balboa. Then we drove up beside her and passed her in slow traffic. After we passed her, he called to see if she made it through the traffic light. Then he called to see if she was on the freeway. ....after 7 phone calls back and forth, I anticipated that the weekend would be more of the same , but I held out hope.
The next day we ate at Shirley's house. While we were there, he suggested that Shirley could help me with my make-up. I was as cordial as I could be and told Shirley and Bruce that I wear Estee Lauder and that during the day, it looks more natural then some make-up. At night, I wear the make-up differently. (I know how to wear make-up.) He also mentioned something about Shirley's hair.
I mean when he wasn't with Shirley, he was talking about Shirley,and if he wasn't talking about Shirley, he was talking to Shirley.
I'm not a jealous person and didn't say anything, but when he answered the phone in a romantic moment( and it was a moment), I decided that the relationship was not what I wanted and ended it.
I think people should wait until they end a relationship before they go into another.
It would have been nice to hear my name coming from his lips.
The wierd thing about it was, Drew wasn't ever with Shirley when Bruce was with her or the three of us were together. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 6/2/2009 3:57:08 PM | Hmm depends on what you call a relationship. The last few dates wanted solely a physical thing, I wanted more.
Like one of the other posters it I was seeing my neighbor. She fell into the wrong crowd, and lost her home. A shame really.
My ex-wife: We got married for the wrong reasons. She cheated, and got knocked up by another man. So that was the final deal breaker for me. We get along great, and as fate might have it might start dating again. Though, I am very hesiant for obvious reasons. But she is the mother of my son. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 6/2/2009 4:25:54 PM | Hmm...last one :g/f 10 years younger than me....long distance relationship....she couldn't tell me she was only fantasizing about getting married. Admitted I was more of a freind/father figure 4 years after we broke up.. She only gave me one volutary kiss in the 4 years I knew her. Never would have worked out. Nearly killed my heart (darn near did). We broke up 2 months before 9-11-2001.....all while I was living in Albuquerque which I call OUCH-BOO-KER-KEY ever since then. Too much pain. It only took about 7 years to get over her and our breakup.
Before that.....religious control freak and her control freak mother in choir at church tried to force me to marry her daughter. Used church members to put pressure on me to marry her. I woke up one day and told her no.....no marriage and no g/f relationship...it was a complete farce. I had absolutely no attraction physically, emotionally, or spiritually to her from begining to end. Everytime I told her things about how I was attracted to other women....she said we could get the pastor to fix things........ACK ACK. My problem is I did "take her out" to eat and I spent time with her....but it was more of trying to be a freind rather than anything romantic. I was more attracted to the girl's sister which was pretty sad. {if her sister had been single, I would have dated her and probably would have married her.....but alas she was married....but not happily}.
Before that.....first girlfreind....we were both 15 and immature. She was at least very affectionate although I wasn't the only person she dated. That hurt......she was shopping for relationships. My parents drove her away and told me she had gotten married (but she hadn't...it was her older sister who married) and my family and I ended up moving 1000 miles away within a week of her so called "wedding". I didn't find out it was a lie for 20+ years.
I've had a few dates and Pseudo-G/F's since then.....most were stalkers or mentally ill women who pursued me. But I was never really with them.......so I didn't consider them relationships which I broke.......they were one sided fantasies on the woman's side. | |
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Posted: 6/2/2009 4:34:03 PM | oh boy...lets see...he started drinking heavily and abusing pescription narcotics and selling pot from the house (that had 2 kids in it). Then he cheated on me with some illigal immigrant that lived across the street from us...oh, and and he secretly video taped us in the bedroom and threatened to put it up on YouTube. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 6/2/2009 4:48:11 PM | I have no idea. He just disappeared.Our last phone conversation was good, normal, ordinary and we made plans to see each other in a few days. Then he stopped calling, answering calls, e-mails, everything. Never told me why. Funny, I never took him for a coward. Just goes to show you, you never really know someone.
Oh well. I've met someone else, so I'm better off.
J. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 6/2/2009 7:22:10 PM | | He was in the navy and as soon as we started the relationship he went away for 5 weeks. I waited for him and then when he got back we realised we werent a good match anyway, and we had different lives so it wasnt going to work. And the 10 yr age gap, and the fact he fell asleep right when we were going to have sex :( Done and dusted | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 6/2/2009 8:03:38 PM | A few factors:
I thought she took advantage of me financially. I do have a considerably greater income, but she wouldn't pay for anything, wanted expensive stuff for herself, and complained about my spending money for what I wanted.
Sex isn't something I'm interested in, but I do like cuddling and affection, and that was lacking.
I was just unhappy with the situation, and felt like I'd given up my life and the things that were important to me. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 6/3/2009 5:44:06 AM | | the reason why my last relastionship ended was because our children didnt get along why put the kid's threw all of that bs? | |
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