| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 3/27/2005 7:32:23 PM | | my ex was a nice person to start. we even got engaged even though i knew it probably wouldn't work. in the end- it was her being such a drunken, manipulative, uncaring **** that i couldn't tolerate. i can only have someone piss in my cornflakes so long before i have to end things or have to make drastic changes. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 3/27/2005 7:44:36 PM | Why did my last relationship end? It was going NOWHERE that's why!
Seriously... ever been in a relationship like that? You are with the person and it's convenient but you are stuck in a rut... but it's comfortable so you stay... then one day, you finally wake up and smell the coffee. Bye bye! Time to go...
That's what happened to me anyway... I finally decided to move on. I didn't see a future with him. He wasn't marrying material. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 3/27/2005 7:55:24 PM | | allie- at least you were comfortable. my last one had me on the road to a heart attack from the stress and agrivation she put me through. but if it is not going anywhere- dump them and move on. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 3/27/2005 8:02:47 PM | | Yeah... we were comfortable together and had some good times... but he was way too immature for my liking... although he's 32... he acts like he's 16, ya know the type? PARTY ALL THE TIME. hehe. At least we're still friends though, which is nice. He just wasn't the one. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 3/28/2005 8:16:00 PM | I could top anyone. . . .
my ex cheated on me, was verbally/mentally/physically abusive, stole $2000 out of my bank account, sold drugs out of my house, brough women over while I was sitting in the same room, and then tried to make me feel guilty by lying to me that he had cancer!!
in your face, ladies! | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 4/3/2005 7:53:16 AM | Existance for it in the very first Place were based on wrong Reasons. It never came together, but was held together by the same wrong Reasons. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 4/6/2005 12:20:15 AM | Dak. My last short relationship ended because she kept blaming me for what her exes did to her. I can't fix the past. Then she cancelled a date on my birthday for no good reason. I realized that I couldn't even be friends with this person, because I liked her a lot at first. But she kept hurting to the point where I was affraid of losing my sanity. So sometimes you have to walk away to stay sane | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 4/6/2005 2:04:31 AM | My last relationship....can I call it that?....he was my bedbuddy and I liked him....a lot....ended this morning :cry:
Because I like him more than I should and my mantra is, why clip a birds wings then wonder why it doesn't sing.
So now I'm looking for someone who will keep me....
Or who'll do more damage till I'm comfortably numb again. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 4/6/2005 2:47:24 AM | *gives fragile a big hug*
don't know why it ended. it was awesome and then she decided she wanted a break. we weren't having problems but she obviously chnaged her mind about everything.....literally overnight. the worst thing is she wouldnt even talk to me about it to try and give me some perspective on things......it totally sucked cos it was one of the best relationships i had been in.
go figure?! | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 4/6/2005 6:14:41 AM | I relocated to another city, 3 hours away, with wife's blessing, and promise that she would look around, send out resumes, and move there 'soon.
Almost two years later, with a handful of resumes sent out, with no follow up calls on them, and weekend visits, every two weeks, she told me that she liked where she was, and 'only' had 9 years to retire (she had 32 years at company). We started splitting up at that point (if not before-lol). | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 4/6/2005 7:26:13 AM | Mostly because I wasn't ready to settle down, and likely because I had the same kind of situation in a major relationship prior to those that DragonN and Skylar had....and wasn't interested in taking the risk at the time.
Healing takes a long time, especially if you want to put old ghosts from the past to rest for good. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 4/6/2005 7:29:33 AM | It was just too long distance to maintain it. He had a good job there (me too), his kids (me too), and of course, his home (me too). Much to his displeasure, there was no chance it could blossom further with neither of us being able to relocate, so I ended it. Alas, he's with someone else now, and we both ended up as great friends -- he's happy, I'm happy for him and I'm invited to the wedding. So, all in all, I can't complain. After reading some of the responses here, I really consider myself lucky. angel | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 4/6/2005 2:42:17 PM | Because she wanted to learn how to live on her own, as her pwn person; I taught her an dtrained her to do that.
Ya see; she was a trophy wife, married at 17 to a 3o year old. He was rich, loked after her, taught her how to be "his"..and customized her. HE, in essence, wwas her world.
He died. (drank himself to death)
When I met her, she really didn't care about anything. She would do...anything. She had no hope, and no dreams whatsoever, she ..just..didnt care.
SO..I fawked with her mind, and we used eacho others bodies and company. She fought it for quite some time (we talked almost a year before we met..but when we did....wow)
We dated for 3 weeks in person. (yup; that means screwed like Manxs)
I think she was, basically, just coming top thank me for getting her soul back or something.
"I tried to love her, in fact, I merely healed her"
Good story hu? It's true.
We're good friends now though; so that's good.
She was also the prettiest girl I have ever dated. (ever) | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 4/6/2005 2:42:42 PM | Because she wanted to learn how to live on her own, as her pwn person; I taught her an dtrained her to do that.
Ya see; she was a trophy wife, married at 17 to a 3o year old. He was rich, loked after her, taught her how to be "his"..and customized her. HE, in essence, wwas her world.
He died. (drank himself to death)
When I met her, she really didn't care about anything. She would do...anything. She had no hope, and no dreams whatsoever, she ..just..didnt care.
SO..I fawked with her mind, and we used eacho others bodies and company. She fought it for quite some time (we talked almost a year before we met..but when we did....wow)
We dated for 3 weeks in person. (yup; that means screwed like Manxs)
I think she was, basically, just coming top thank me for getting her soul back or something.
"I tried to love her, in fact, I merely healed her"
Good story hu? It's true.
We're good friends now though; so that's good.
She was my project..and "I" was her annoyance.
Worth it....for both of us. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 4/6/2005 9:07:10 PM | ummmmm... after 4 years he must have realized he was east indian cause he got on a plane, told me an hour before he left, and i think he got an arranged marriage....lol
Not to sure though - he called after that asking me to marry him...YA NO :P | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 4/6/2005 9:32:23 PM | | Three years of long distant relationship...I didn't want to move to the states and she wasn't prepared to live with me here in canada. Needless to say, it was rather heart wrenching...but I couldn't live that way anymore. Plus there was too much going on in her life that I couldn't help with all the way up here. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 4/7/2005 7:26:27 PM | | My last relationship ended because he was mentally and physically abusive. Plus, he had no job (for quite some time) and lived off of me. I know...he was a definite loser. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 4/7/2005 8:11:22 PM | | B/c he did something HORRIBLE while I was sleeping...that and he was an ass who had a kid that he lied about and a wife on top of that in a different state :( I hate cheaters...and liars...and ******s | |
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