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Posted: 4/8/2005 1:11:18 AM | After about five years of so of more and more distance between us, she forgot to log out of her MSN messenger one day. 
I clicked on it by accident, and discovered a wonderful new world. Within 3 minutes , a guy was chatting with me. The tone showed me what was going on.After that, I also checked her e-mail account at the same time on MSN. A revelation , and a godsend.
Letters about inviting a guy to a barbeque, being at his condo, the works. And not just with one guy either.
Nothing like knowing EXACTLY who someone really is. I even found one message from a married guy, with two kids, in another city.
After that , she was toast. At that point there was no way I could ever have any respect for her ever again.
I am the type of guy that will bring a woman her purse, if she tells me to get something in it. I respect privacy, and demand it as well.
I could have ruined her, copied everything and sent it to all her friends and family. That isn't my style.
Just seeing the expression on her face when she found out I knew was more than worth it.
Not an easy day, but still one of the best ones in my life for a reality check.
Thank God for the Internet. | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 6:42:54 AM | why would u say thk god for the internet?
what u experienced is now becoming common place.
more and more people browse dating sites just because they can.
u know see what,s out there.
i have had simular experience but she turned out to be just playing around and i found nothun really concrete.online dating is still relativley new.Though it was a initial start to mistrust and exactly who she is chatting with or what she is doing while on the net.
but it goes with parents and their kids same thing.
it did not end the relationship but got the ball rolling.so to speak | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 7:38:34 AM | Why ?
Because it is one of those few places where you can get all the info you will ever need to actually remove any doubt in your mind about who someone really is. It is in their own words.
See your g/f coming out of a bar with a guy ? Well , maybe she just went for a drink with a friend.
Read her deepest thoughts on your monitor ? Buuuusted !
It's all there in black and white, cannot be denied, and you can look someone right in the eyes and they cannot say one word.
That's why... | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 7:55:58 AM | i caught the girl at her house with a new webcam....we live apart so my first reaction was where is the webcam that i bought for you.? .we sometimes couldnt see each other at night with conflicting schedules....so we would webcam back and forth or instant messages, or chat on the phones..anyways, she just couldnt take it anymore, she broke down and cried, and told me she was talking to an old "friend" of hers, actually later on it became 2 "friends"...i am understanding that by the wordage friends she is implying guys shes ****ed before....
so it was a quick see ya, dont call, blocked her online and all my instant messenger places and e-mail accouints...funny now though how she is all about. lets get back together, i love you , lets still remains friends or **** buddies...lol.. this b*tch must be out of her mind....
damn she was awesome though..too bad she cant stay faithfull. whats a fella to do..so here i come to POF..imagine that...... | |
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Posted: 4/8/2005 12:07:10 PM | My last relationship ended cos he didn't understand me and my quirks, we were very different and barely even had anything to talk about.
Totally incompatible in the bedroom too | |
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Joined: 12/17/2004
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 4/8/2005 4:25:28 PM | I havent said that yet... whatare you talking about.. give me a little time... wait we are still talking, must be a different guy. Sorry
Mine ended because of PPD | |
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Joined: 12/17/2004
Msg: 87 | |
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Posted: 4/9/2005 8:11:15 PM | i was having a beautiful relationship with a man, who swore he loved me. One morning he got up and went to Tims to get me my fav coffee. I was walking down the hall and heard his Yahoo messenger make that noise. Being a noisy one, I walked over and say a message on the screen, same time, same place for dinner tonight? He had always told me that night he had dinner with his son. It was obvious this person was more than close to him. She was busy typing a message describing the new sheets she bought for the bed. I just left, I found it insulting he was still trolling on the internet while having sex with me and declaring his love for me. He tried hard to make me believe he was not trolling still. I merely said, GET LOST.
No big loss, it was only 6 months wasting my time. For some men and perhaps women, the internet has a tremendous pull, does not matter how great you are, they still think the grass is better on the other side of the mountain. PS - He left a message at Easter, how she was not that nice of a person, could we get back together. I love it. What goes around, comes around. | |
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Posted: 4/9/2005 11:38:11 PM | well i am a worker and the ex thought ... oh well he will never know and was cheating on me .. it would not be so bad but her kids had grown to love me and see as dad because their father or should i say {sperm doner} was not in the pic so when i came home from work and found out it crushed me because of the kids ... but life goes on oh ya work is out of town ..
hope to find the right one and get it right next time ... stay strong .. rigid 4 | |
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Posted: 4/10/2005 1:28:56 AM | I'm not really sure y my last relationship ended.
I was in a relationship for 4yrs and in my opinion all was well. We did things together but also were able to go have fun w/our friends and not have to worry bout each other. We both like all the same things: alcohol, food, dancing, motorcycles, cars, movies, strip clubs, porn, and sex. Then one day, actually 6 months ago he just told me that he didnt want to w/me anymore. I still have no idea why.
Is there something wrong w/me? | |
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Posted: 4/10/2005 4:00:06 AM | we also had the same interests.we looked good together. we complemented each other. worse, i did everything to be a great girlfriend.
but still, he cheated on me. | |
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Posted: 4/10/2005 4:12:37 AM | | lady and wild - sounds like they were simply just plain stupid!!!! their loss, altho i know that is little comfort. i can assure you lady that the problem wasnt you, it's definitely him. dont forget that. | |
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Posted: 4/10/2005 5:13:47 AM | Thats easy enough to answer.
She was too hung up on thinking, too hung up on assigning blame (mostly on me) instead of actually working to fix it and move on.
I think the main deal breaker (aside from her constant negativity and "lowering her expectations") was the fact she rancold. Deep deep cold. She has to work on being emotional, work on being affectionate.
I will not ask, beg or otherwise request someone to show me their emotions and affections. If ya can't do it without prompting, then get lost.
This relationship lasted 2 years however it was a long distance thang. So that had some influence in it. | |
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Posted: 4/10/2005 2:40:18 PM | | Mine was the long distance thing (met on another dating site).... tho not really that far away (boat ride) we clicked big time (same personalities, hobbies, likes and dislikes) but our schedules conflicted too much and couldnt see each other enough to get a good foundation going. I fell harder... (bandaid anyone)...We are the best of friends, still talk now and then.. it's too bad.. but I'll always cherish what we had together.. | |
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Posted: 4/11/2005 12:30:07 PM | My fiance was always one to make instant decisions, I was the thoughtful, cautious one - in this case it took her a whole week and a half to decide that she'd rather throw away two years and a bright future for someone she just felt a spark with at work.
I always ensured I could not and would not be swayed by temptation, ended an internet friendship as she was worried I would get too interested in this person. I was always honest with her, yet she seemed to fear I would go off with someone else, although I did everything to let her know I was hers alone.
Ironically I too had felt a spark, similar to what she described to me about her new bloke, with her former Au Pair, but I didn't act on it and I don't think anyone knew, I repressed it because my love for her was more important than anything to me.
I took on her daughter (who could be a real horror sometimes) and she came to call me Dad, even though I never asked or tried to make her. Her real father would turn up once a month, if that to see her for an hour.
We planned out our life together, everything felt right, and suddenly in less than two weeks, and with no hint of what was up she returned her ring to me and told me that she didn't want to be with me anymore... | |
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