| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 4/11/2005 3:46:14 PM | | Relationship lasted 4 months. At first he was after sex a lot, I was seeing someone else too and my rule is that if I am seeing 2 men I am not having sex with either of them, since I am a sexually monogamous woman. Then he stopped trying for the sex and we dated about once a week. I knew that it was going nowhere, he still referred to his ex wife as his wife, she lived in another nearby state and she came to see the then 17 year old son one weekend a month and spent most of the time at this man's house during the days of the weekend (or so he said). I knew it was not going anywhere but did not think he had the balls to end it. I told him that I thought we should have sex, he acted like he did not want to, ( I knew he would do that) just when I was trying to decide how to end it he sent me a long email saying that there was no chemistry and how I was such a fun, intelligent woman. He offered to meet to discuss this in person (what a stupid thing to do, did he really want to hear what I had to say to him?) I did not respond since he was totally a moron at his age of 46 to end something in an email when he lives 30 minutes away. He sent me about 5 emails asking if I go the email he sent me since I had not responded. I could not decide if he has high level Autism, is a social retard, is gay or bisexual, or just a moron. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 4/14/2005 12:28:06 AM | He turned out to be someone other than what I thought...mental problems, basically. Anger issues! Treated his mother like garbage. As soon as I found that out, I began to try to break it off with him, but it took a few months. I felt sorry for him, waited for him to get better..yada yada... ugh
Anyhow, that's why I now do the 'friends first' thing... lol Funny I have to distinguish, but many of my past bf's was never real good friends with ahead of time. Just attracted to one another and began going out.
Anyhow, he was psychotic....
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 4/14/2005 2:36:07 AM | My previous relationship ended after my then girlfriemd and I found out that I had cancer
I'm in remission now and have a new girlfriend who is the most wonderful woman ever. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 4/14/2005 2:58:59 AM | disclaimer:
I did not read anything but title:
Long story short.
It was about the final straw...i was tired of hearing "how hard it was to stay home all day and smoke pot and take care of my son". I told her many times many women and ME would love to trade places with her.
I came home from another 15 hour day on my feet and dont remember what I said (my legs hurt, my head hurts......)as I climbed into bed with her at 3 or 4 in the morning and she said "oh......it's always something with you." This was the girl, when I mentioned my new possition and its requirements, said she would support me. She was always great at saying one thing and doing the opposite.
The next day it was over.....I admit I knew sooner it was a lost cause, but tried to hang on for my sons sake........maybe I was wrong....its right now. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 4/26/2005 1:43:10 AM | Hello FragileSoul,
There's no need to feel sorry for yourself.. by the way--Dakonella got banned from the FORUMS.. it's all good.. but FabulousKisser is the same Dako..
FS, you gotta turn this negative event in your personal life into something good.. you must channel this sad energy into something good.. even if you begin slowly.. ie. a hobby, or just walking around window shopping, or eating your fave foods or knitting or watching movies, listening to the same song over and over again, it's all about healing.. and it's ok to cry.. but you learn from these experiences, and you know that next time, you'll know what not to do.. to get some respect, and to maintain you self-respect, that way, when you stand up for yourself, no matter where you are, or who you are with.. you know how you would like to be treated.. ALWAYS.. smile.. >>Dako | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 4/26/2005 1:54:34 PM | | my ex of about 2 years cheated on me with a girl 6 years older he worked with, got her pregnant...they're still together, apparently she's miscarried. we tried to do the friends thing, but too much sexual tension, and i'd get blamed cuz she'd fight and he'd think they were broken up when she found out we were talking. We stopped talking for a few months completely, they moved in together, yet he still sends me messages asking if i want to hook up...i guess he doesn't get anything from her. You'd think he would've learned a lesson, but apparently not...such a leooozher now. He's even tried hooking up with a girl I know...I feel bad for his gf now, but I warned her what she was getting himself into. Kharma will catch up to him eventually! | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 4/26/2005 8:33:48 PM | He was separated but still living with his wife (?!) plus had a daughter (nothing wrong with that, but I didn't want to get in the middle of a family). Oh, and I was working there for a short period of time, so add long-distance to that list... too much drama!!
But can't blame him... I shouldn't have let it happen in the first place  | |
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Posted: 4/26/2005 9:11:35 PM | | I awoke one morning to discover my bride of eleven months had become a crystal meth user and she refused any help. So it was time to save myself before any more damaging things happend. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 4/26/2005 10:45:04 PM | | she quit working and it wasn't equal anymore. she quit her 1st year doctor interning position. Silly rabbit. She was probably fired... | |
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Posted: 4/27/2005 12:50:11 AM | Emotional instability, depression, chemical imbalance, poor character...
That's why I dumped her. She was simply a basket case. | |
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Posted: 4/27/2005 1:00:08 AM | she killed my goldfish...."hermy" ................
edit:Man....some of You have had it pretty rough sheese......sorry about that.hug to everyone from Me.. | |
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Posted: 4/27/2005 1:30:24 AM | | The kicker was she said I didn't "do it for her" anymore. Hell, if she had asked I could have told her we hadn't been doing it for some time...so of course I wasn't doing it for her. | |
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Posted: 4/27/2005 1:54:40 AM | | It started out great,we were a perfect fit,totally awesome together. I pumped three loads into her every day,one in each hole, but it all ended after four months when I accidentally ripped her during rough sex and she wouldn't hold air anymore. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 4/27/2005 2:18:58 AM | Because his ego got too big to fit thru my front door...
...and kept his clothes on when he got into my bed....then fell asleep...uh...hello?  | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 4/27/2005 2:47:37 AM | 4 years and my first love.
Because I was unhappy, which made me lazy and complacent. This then made her finish with me. I was upset for a couple of months, but now? I don't have any feelings for her and wouldn't dream of EVER getting back with her. She played mind games and fcuked my head up but staying away has finally made me sane again, LOL | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 4/27/2005 3:06:52 AM | In order:
1. Married my Best Friend (I dumped him first, so maybe that doesn't count)
2. He was GAY!!
3. He was a Crack addict.
4. He was the Crack addicts best friend.
5. He was a STALKER.
Note: maybe #2 was a 'crack' addict too...lmao...he would laugh, we are still good friends!
(all the others aren't listed, cuz hey I'm a chick, so the reasons would be: I was CRAZY) | |
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Posted: 4/27/2005 3:27:06 AM | | After 13 years of raising her children, private schools etc….she found someone else at work and left….. I got the kids…. It was a good end….. I feel sorry for her. | |
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| WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END?
Posted: 4/27/2005 3:54:48 AM | My last relationship ended because she was a selfish user hung up on material crap. When i realized this it was adios beotch.
P.S. oh yeah almost forgot she nutz tooo. | |
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