| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/25/2005 8:39:06 PM | Yep, last January met older woman (Well, not older than me!) who had probably aged 10 years since the photo, and who was probably happy when she had the pix took, but was in a ****in mood when I met her. That's two strikes. So we agreed to split the cost of the wine at the bar like friends, and so that was half a strike back, and then after 3 large glasses of wine all the strikes were erased. But I wanted to chew my arm off in the morning.
That's pretty true.
Did have a woman all over me once, like a steam roller. Not nice, but I was bigger. Gotta be pretty unpleasant when a big guy behaves like that.
Any way, I'm pretty hard to rape, if ya know what I mean. | |
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Joined: 1/14/2005
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| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/26/2005 12:40:07 AM | I arranged to meet a woman at a local coffee shop. I told her what clothes I would wear for identification purposes. I arrived 10 minutes early and sat with a coffee waiting. I saw a couple of women walking into the shop alone but none of them was the woman I was to meet. I was being distracted, in the meantime, by these three ladies sitting 2 tables over. I did not know any of them. All of a sudden, they allwalked over and sat down with me. They chatted me up and I explained that I was meeting someone and I didn't think it would be nice for me to be with other women. They laughed and one said "You don't recognize any of us?"
"No" I said
The woman I was to meet and didn't want to offend was one of the three. They played me up and never said which one she was. It was a bogus photo. I pretended to be amused by their candor and offered to buy them all sandwiches and dessert. They all smiled and accepted. Of course they ordered the most expensive things. Once they began eating I excused myself to the men's room. Within 1 minute the women saw me honking my horn at them through the window; waving good bye - with a smile. | |
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Joined: 3/29/2003
Msg: 128 | |
| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/26/2005 1:11:20 AM | Heheh.. yep, that's funny..
I have had the experience of meeting someone that had a strategically posed picture that was a bit more flattering than the real her, however the person I met was great. She just went a little bit strange on me..
Shame.. | |
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| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/26/2005 4:07:15 PM | | You know sari a woman that is to thin scares me a mite. I would be afraid of breaking her but thats only one reason I would not go for a woman that is thin. I prefer a woman that when I wrap my arms around there is a woman there and not bones. Now any lady reading this forgive me it is nothing personal I just feel that way and I have nothing against a large woman. plenty to love I am just into a woman that may be slightly over weight and or average, Petite is fine it is the way with the frame of the woman. | |
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| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/26/2005 5:21:34 PM | I hate anoroxic chicks. They disgust me Really. I won't buy into Hollywood or whoever is promoting the campaign to have all women look like walking skeletons. They scream ill health and low self esteem. Give me at least a 6% body fat or higher (10-12% works ) anyday.
How can you love someone who doesn't love themselves!
I'm with all the others on this If you post a different pic than of yourself thaen you are a liar and I want nothing to do with you! | |
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| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/26/2005 7:44:19 PM | It's funny, but has anyone noticed that these days women perpetuate the unreal expectations more often than men do.
Hollywood, men, other things are blamed, but women keep the whole thing going.
I've dated more than one woman that just worries about her waist, or ankles, etc. I try to assure them that I think that they look GREAT!, but they tell me that what I think doesn't matter. What matters is that they have to look just so. I ask why and they say "just because". What the heck does that mean?
Granted, I appreciate the effort that they apply, but I just want them to be happy and at peace with themselves. | |
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| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:42:33 AM | | Believe it... I met this one woman at the Olive Garden restaraunt. She was beautiful and had a size zero waist. We had a good time, went to a strip bar (her idea), and then we gambled at a nearby Indian Casino. We dated for a while and I couldn't figure out what she saw in me. She wasn't too much the marrying type though, so we parted ways but remained friends. Oh well, she always has my number if she ever decides to settle down. | |
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| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 2:52:02 AM | Actually, I think most of us have had something similar happen at one time or another.
Yes, even me and my bullet-proof confidence.
You just kind of walk around going "How in the 'ell did I get her?"
Still, makes you wonder if maybe there isn't more to you than you think and maybe you've underestimated yourself. | |
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| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 6:11:43 AM | This makes me wonder if my pics are misleading.
I'm overweight. I put myself as a BBW on my profile, and have one or two body pics. But I have always read that photos should be flattering. Well mine are flattering, and I figured them representative, but maybe not, because they probably do make me look thinner than I am. Or at least, they dont showcase flaws. It's a tradeoff - I look prettier in person, but also probably fatter. Because honestly, if you had a picture of yourself that showed a flaw and one that didnt, which would you use?
Hmm. I have a webcam too, but depending on what you consider misleading, that could be misleading as well. If you place the cam above you and have it looking down on you, you look much thinner than if you have the camera looking up at you.
I wonder how many of the people who misrepresent themselves don't mean to at all. | |
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| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 6:29:09 AM | | Pandora, that was very honest of you and refreshing that you're so concerned with being honest. I looked at your profile. I think you have nice curves, for what it's worth. You aren't big & tall at 5'3", I would've put slightly overweight. | |
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Joined: 2/16/2005
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| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 9:43:30 AM | I have to say, I Have a thing for voluptous women Pandora...and I have to say, you're the kind of lady that fills out very nicely and evenly. Your measurments are still in great proportion, there are some that have the "Reverse" hourglass.
And I don't necessarily classify you as a BBW, voluptous is a better word. Definately nice. | |
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| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 11:01:28 AM | Aww thanks guys.. it's hard cause there's such a stigma against being overweight, that I really dont want to misrepresent myself and end up disappointing someone.
Thanks for the feedback :) | |
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| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 11:24:10 AM | | pandorarevealed-- assuming your healthy; you're young, got a beautiful face, an awesome smile, and a few weeks at a gym could easily firm up your curves. No reason for you to have a stigma. | |
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| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:07:10 PM | Hey Leave those curves alone!!!
I can think of many reasons why she would want to go to the gym, regardless of whether she lost weight or not.
1) Exercise leads to better blood oxygen carrying capacity (more oxygenation of body tissues= better looking skin), better endurance, more stamina, better muscular tone/definition and strength, heightened vigor (alertness and activity), and it naturally boosts the body’s resistance to stress and disease. Oh, and increased life expectancy.
2) Better curves will attract the masses, rather than just those who couldn't care less. Face it, we're a species like most others where certain characteristics makes us more appealing depending on our cultural influences. They love BBW's in South America :-)
3) Making it a lifestyle-- She's really young and the sooner she defines her habits, the better. You can't go into a restaraunt any more without being given a plate of food large enough to feed a family of three. If you were conditioned at a young age to eat everything on your plate, then you're gonna cram all that food into your gut. Also, let's talk about metabolism. Her's is at it's highest rate that it will ever be. She, like us Sari, will be in her late 30's and fighting the good fight to remain as thin as possible. Makes it a lot easier when you make the correct life-style changes earlier on.
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| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:16:51 PM | Steve are you under the assumtion that thin is healthy?
Why do you think evolution gave us fat in the first place?
It's there for more that just padding and when we're in famine situations.
Did you know that in order to be healthy you MUST have fat.
It helps in the metobolization of several vitamins and helps lubricate joints.
Are you saying that she's morbidy obese?
Not from where I sit. AT The MOST maybe 15 lbs could be lost. Other than that if she maintains her current weight or loses those 15 she will be healthy and beautiful.
Remember it wasn't until recently that Holloywood and/or society (American!) thought that bone racks were desirable.
Marlyn Monroe was a size 14.
Tell me she was fat, come on tell me!
And Sarita! Are you coming up to the Great White North anytime soon? I could use some help with my Habla Espanol!  | |
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| Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:26:21 PM | To: pandorarevealed,
It's not about being overweight, some people misrepresent themselves online and when you see them in person completly different.
about you, I'm not specialist oe expert. tell exactly what you look like if you asked through internet and post recent photo is a plus. The picture you post, I don't even think any man in this planet will disappointed.
you are attractive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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