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 markawelch

Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 151
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:28:08 PM
saritamiami,

Don't let Steve annoy you.

Remember, a lot of us like a more average or even a thicker woman.

I certainly don't like feeling the press of sharp bony angles during a romantic interlude. That also goes for the feel of the excessive and somewhat masculine musculature of some women these days.
 Cinder23

Joined: 2/14/2005
Msg: 152
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:31:16 PM
Ya umm...well sari, I have read some of Steves past posts in this and in other forums. He glorifies women who are rail thin and has stated how excited he was with a woman who had a zero inch waste and also how one woman he was with he could touch his fingers around her waist and he literally got off on it. I am talking fingers...not arms! lol
 Sir James

Joined: 9/7/2004
Msg: 153
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:33:43 PM
At Cynder
Ewww thats just nasty. I'd be afraid She'd break if I kissed her too hard!
 markawelch

Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 154
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:36:42 PM
Rubinesque was considered the norm for beauty.
 Sir James

Joined: 9/7/2004
Msg: 155
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:37:25 PM
At Sarita
Thats why they used to be called Rubenesque. He was famous ( Still is) for painting nudes of women that had a "Few" pounds on them

So when are you coming up for a Cervasa Por favour?
 Sir James

Joined: 9/7/2004
Msg: 156
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:38:36 PM
geez Mark are you reading my mind? I can't type that fast
 markawelch

Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 157
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:40:24 PM
Sorry man, I've been writing for years and even managed to make a little money at it. That's why I'm a fairly speedy typist.

Anyway, great minds think alike!!!

Pardon, I just realized that I misspelled rubenesque.
 Sir James

Joined: 9/7/2004
Msg: 158
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:41:27 PM
And as my dad says fools seldom differ! HAHAHAHAHA Cheers
 pandorarevealed

Joined: 1/9/2004
Msg: 159
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:43:03 PM
Uh oh, look what I started.. lol

In a way, I agree with Steve. Everyone could use going to the gym to be healthy, or healthier. That is, if they don't already have other ways of accomplishing that. Many people lead an active enough lifestyle that a gym isnt really necessary.

As for establishing good habits though, I do have good eating habits. My problem is that I need to be more active (which means, I could definitely benefit from going to a gym). I would like to lose weight, but its more for aesthetic reasons - I am definitely a healthy person. If I carried more weight in my upper body there might be more of a health concern, but that isnt the case for me.

At any rate, I was just concerned with misrepresenting myself. Thank you all for your feedback.. I appreciate it. I consider myself bigger than thick - more like large and shapely lol - getting down to "thick" is about where I want to be. Unfortunately, today's "thick" is like yesterday's "normal"...

I am actually happy with where I stand, but frankly I want better treatment and more respect from men, and unfortunately it seems the best way to accomplish that is to lose some weight.
 markawelch

Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 160
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:44:12 PM
For me, at a visceral level, the more "generously" proportioned woman exudes an aura of fertility that I find very sexually attractive.

I think the thinner women look boyish and just don't appeal to me as much.
 Sir James

Joined: 9/7/2004
Msg: 161
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:44:49 PM
At Sarita

Dang DAng Why are the good ones always taken?!
Sure I still need help with my Habla Esponol. I'm playing in 4 concerts in Mexico in Oct.
 markawelch

Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 162
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:46:01 PM
Oh come on, this is fun.
 pandorarevealed

Joined: 1/9/2004
Msg: 163
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:48:51 PM
haha, its interesting to see everyone's perspectives.

Talking about Rubenesque women.. it goes all the way back to Greece even. Not as pronounced as Ruben's paintings, but their statues of greek goddesses generally were not as busty and very hippy by today's standards, with a nice soft look to them.
 markawelch

Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 164
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:50:12 PM
Just so.
 Sir James

Joined: 9/7/2004
Msg: 165
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:52:08 PM
Ummmm soft Yesssss
Hey pandora seeing as Sartia is already hooked up could you go for an older more mature man with a few miles on him? Still runs well and doesn't burn oil. Body has some ding and scrapes but still pleasing to the eye (I've been told).
 pandorarevealed

Joined: 1/9/2004
Msg: 166
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 12:58:14 PM
Freemasons!

Haha the first time I heard about that was from reading War and Peace - I had no clue that was still around. I'd love to talk James
 steve93437

Joined: 2/4/2005
Msg: 167
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 2:22:35 PM

In a way, I agree with Steve.


And you should. I meant it in a good way, and only suggested that exercise is important for everyone.. Not just you.

As for all the peeps who took what I said out of context, especially the size zero waist comment... . You'll have to try harder than that to get under my skin. Although i expected it from Sari. She's still pissed that someone dropped a house on her sister...
 steve93437

Joined: 2/4/2005
Msg: 168
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 2:30:08 PM
...maybe someone more clever will help you figure it out. be patient for now.
 jenzagirl

Joined: 12/4/2004
Msg: 169
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 2:44:09 PM
From the Wizard of Oz. a house was dropped on the wicked witch.
 steve93437

Joined: 2/4/2005
Msg: 170
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 2:47:57 PM
Steve are you under the assumtion that thin is healthy?


Yes, I am... Do your research then get back with me on this.

Fat is essential, but given the fact that we now steadily eat 3-5 meals a day, there's no need for large deposits to carry us through a through a long winter or famine as was the case 2000 BC.

The higher your percentage of fat above average levels, the higher your health risk for weight-related illness's, like heart disease, high blood pressure, gallstones, type 2 diabetes, osteoarthritis, and certain cancers.

As a very general rule, an unhealthy waist circumference is above 35 inches (women), or above 40 inches (men).

Now, because she's so young (too young for you, sir james) she doesn't have to worry about the health issues, except for diabetes... not yet anyways.


Oh, and thanks jenzagirl. You're correct!
 lateā„¢

Joined: 1/9/2005
Msg: 171
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 4:09:57 PM
This ^^^^^ from an athletic, slim, woman, ...no hidden agenda here.
 DKNWhy

Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 172
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 4:23:42 PM

Dkn, why don't you photograph your head like everyone else does?

I've photographed it many times... I just didn't post it on my profile
 markawelch

Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 173
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 4:25:02 PM
steve,

However, you've got to love the exceptions to those health rules.

I know of several people that lived into their 90s and a couple that lived past 100. The majority of those folks had at least a two pack a day habit and were very overweight. One lady that passed at 110 hadn't left her house in 20 years, because she was so obese.

I'm sure that many people on this thread know of similar cases.

I agree that being overweight can be one of many factors that influence health, but I still love pointing out exceptions to any rule.

Our crazy bodies are dynamic systems that are influenced by many factors and we should always keep that in mind.
 markawelch

Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 174
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 4:26:07 PM
Our friend dkn just likes to show his man-breasts.

We shouldn't rag him for his lack of shyness.
 Fid Copya

Joined: 3/24/2005
Msg: 175
Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture
Posted: 3/27/2005 4:27:59 PM
Wow, such anger - I am afraid to join in here.
I like thin women (I guess that makes me a late™nt pedophile) - I find a flat stomach to be very attractive. Then again, I too am rail thin and in my case, opposites don't attract.
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