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Posted: 8/22/2006 2:56:20 PM | Ok I have a new catagory that fits into this
I clasify myself as a nympho with virginal qualities hahaha | |
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Posted: 8/22/2006 3:20:19 PM | As a woman with an overactive libedo it doesn't prohibit me from enjoying other things in life. I can't imagine ever getting tired of sex but it's all a matter of balance and making sure that intimacy includes more time and effort so that both are temporarily sated and able to think about other things for a while.
If sex is quick and way too frequent then perhaps it has more to do with the kind of sex you are having - perhaps it isn't as fulfilling as you or your partner needs. Try spending an entire afternoon wearing out your partner, find out if they even can be sated.
Some people use sex as an escape from responsibility or life in general - its entertaining, its fun, its rewarding, but when it consumes ones life to the point where they can no longer enjoy other things there is a problem.
Also some couples have nothing else in common except great sex, so of course they turn to the only good thing in that relationship avoiding all other activities or positions where communication is required. If sex is all you do with your partner perhaps there really isn't anything more to that relationship.
A relationship should be filled with passion (including large quantities of sex) but it should also include more - so much more. | |
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Posted: 8/22/2006 3:23:11 PM | | People hate to admit it, but everything gets old eventually. If you have great sex 4 times a day, it will no longer be considered so great in your mind. I wouldn't be interested in having sex at every possible moment, I'd get bored. | |
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Posted: 8/22/2006 3:35:54 PM | is there such a thing as too much sex? Not for me, and to be honest with you I tend to stick to younger men because they can keep up with me. If sex is good, really good...it doesnt get old, especially if you love that person  | |
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Posted: 8/22/2006 3:42:11 PM | It was nearly daily for 5 years.. every now & then I would go without for a week when I was sick or on vacation (ya he didn't come with me as my trips are free hehe)..
I can handle & LOOOVE once a day sex (once a day=atleast an hour), anything more during the week would be too much as I work full time.. & I LOOOOVE all day weekend sex WOOHOO 
I have gone many months without as the ex left for 2yrs to go to university. It sucked, but I can wait as long as it takes for someone that I love.. & when I'm not working I can give & give & give | |
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Posted: 8/22/2006 3:48:50 PM | Wow! Talk about a time when a question is thoroughly not understood by the masses.
Dime, cotter, thorb and myself seem to be the only people here that understands what a nymphp is. The rest of you I suggest you look up the definition or read cotters and thorbs messages and learn.
A high sex drive is not the same thing and that's not what this thread is about.
Dime, I had a nympho friend and to say the least, she managed to embarrass me on quite a few occasions (as well as her self). Once I had to almost break down a door to get her out of a guys place because she in her intoxicated state coupled with her disorder didn't have a clue what she was doing.
No I would not want to have a relationship with a nymphomaniac. Like cotter said. It's not only about being oversexed, it's about wanting to have sex with just about anybody anywhere and often these women don't care whether they are humiliated or not.
I wish people would educate themselves. | |
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Posted: 8/22/2006 3:57:42 PM | | Wow! Talk about a time when a question is thoroughly understood by the masses because we read the OP's correction and a couple did not take the time to educate themselves by reading all the posts that the OP made. I wish people who make comments on threads actually read all the posts. Go back and read msg 23. The thead is not about Nymphomania as the OP said. He chose the wrong word. | |
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Posted: 8/22/2006 4:07:12 PM | Yeah you're right remote, he did but even before then people misunderstood and I think most people didn't bother reading through all the threads and noticed that. It's something that's very common here. Look at this post for example: http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts5067688.aspx
Most people here are telling about their own experiences and their own photos and other stuff but not one of them even tried to answer the question. | |
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Posted: 8/22/2006 4:22:25 PM | I had a lady that was a nympho,or should I say nympwhore,anyway, she liked to have sex,like three or four times everyday,now that's fun and all for about a mouth.I was not trying to stop her from doing anything,but she did wear me out. She would say things like,"do you want me to get off of you now".I would say no.It was fun while it lasted,and I was in love with her.   | |
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| Nymphomania.
Posted: 8/22/2006 5:03:05 PM | In truth this is complex matter. lol Which is being oversimplified. But I think we're all mostly aware of that. I won't bother profileing these people, because I'm sure we all know who they are, their age and gender. I mean for both men and women. In fact it's sort of a social trend now, ... more acceptable anyway. hehehe
But the really entertaining part is that we get to see how much diversity there is in what people perceive as a lot of sex. As well as how, depending on your partner, the passion, your station in life, physical condition, diet, medication, etc ... it can vary, yet all in a predictable way.
I think I have had excessive sex a couple of times, so far in life. First in College, ..... OMG I don't know how many classes I missed. I recall it being a lot of sex, like easily more than a dozen times a day, but it wasn't at the standard I have today. lol
I ended dropping out of school at the time only to return when I was uhmm more mature and with a sense of balance and priority.
Then again after initially being divorced. Found a woman as much on the rebound as myself. BLUSH We'd do it for 5 hours at a time, I don't know how. It's true though, I had to eat so much food. Mind you I was also weight-training at the time, eating vitamins like crazy (no not viagra), swimming, running, etc .... was a health nut in mid life divorce/crisis. ahhhhhhh I miss that. lol
But then there was a time, I really did have a relationship with a genuine sex maniac whom was mentally ill!!!!!!!!!!!
This is no fun. It's often one of the symptoms of the dozen or so "Personality Disorders" such as Bi-Polar or Borderline Personality disorders. It's quite sad really. It can ruin a persons live. I mean ya gotta go to work to pay your mortgage.
So, unless your on welfare, student loans, alimony or some other guaranteed income that doesen't require working, .... ya gotta do other stuff man.
Oh well, one exception, .... if your rich.
Rich ladies, ..... message me here! :-) or at leas a woman that can pay my mortgage, gym membership and one major grocerie bill. | |
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Posted: 8/22/2006 6:31:59 PM | Everyone always jokes about being a "nypho," but I am actually one of these people with an INSANE sex drive. It's really horrible. I crave it 4-5 times a day. Can't get enough. The problem is that I am currently going through a divorce and don't sleep around, so therefore I am just S-O-L.
I wish sometimes that I could cut my sex drive in half and give it to some poor girl that is without one! | |
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Posted: 8/22/2006 7:12:15 PM | Again, my mistake. I'm not talking about the clinical disorder.
However, if I did have it, I know I'd be a chronic masterbater. There's no way I'd expect anyone to live up to that. Hell, sometimes I've thought that I was asking a bit much, but I know I'm hot and cold. Haha...maybe there is such a thing as male menopause. 
Seriously, you guys are all giving great responses. Everyone is different. I just know from my own experience that I like it a lot, but sometimes, it can be a bit much and it sucks to think that your partner feels inadequate or whatever after being rejected.
All these drugs coming about today, they need to design one that can cut down the amount of time a man needs to recover. Even twice in a row can be a task. Three times is nearly impossible. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 8:14:36 AM |
I think the term "all the time" is over-used.
Personaly, so do I. Wanting sex litteraly all the time refers to Hypersexuality (the corect term for Nymphomania and Satyriasis) and is extreamly rare.
To all those people who are insisting that Nymphomania dose not mean a high sex drive, tell that to the American Psychiatric Association.
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Wow! Talk about a time when a question is thoroughly not understood by the masses.
I take offence to this statement. I think most a lot of the people here understood the question, which was not about Nymphomania but about.....
Cold you deal with a partner wanting sex all the time??? Would you get tired of it??? Would the appeal be lost in time???
Most people have resopnded to this with thier own thoughts and opinions, with the exception of a few who have not read the question properly and just posted the facts about Nymphomania.
I wish people would educate themselves.
I wish people would read the question instead of just the thread title and also not leave blancket insults to all other posters.
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In truth this is complex matter.lol Which is being oversimplified.
Yes it, there are as many facets to this as there people in the world.
I won't bother profileing these people, because I'm sure we all know who they are, their age and gender. I mean for both men and women. In fact it's sort of a social trend now, ... more acceptable anyway.
Personaly I would disagrea with you there. Openness about sex is becoming a social trend, but sexual compatability and sex drive are stil somewhat taboo. People are rarely able to give an honest acount of thier sex drive because of peer presure, so must men vamp it up and women either vamp it up to seem more avaliable, or play it down to avoide the stigma and names that go along with it.
I also disagrea that you can tell that sort of people have high or low libidos, it jus simply isn't true.
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I know I chose the wrong word, but it's synonomous to the problem, so it fit.
You didn't realy chose the wrong word, Nymphomania refers to hyperactive sex drive in women. Hypersexuality would have been a better word, but Nymphonia is still fine.
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Cold you deal with a partner wanting sex all the time?
I know that people wanting anything from me when I do not want to do it, realy pushes my buttons. So I would say no, if there were nothing wrong me and I was with someone who realy did want a lot more sex than I did, it would anoy the hell out of me.
Would you get tired of it?
I already am.
Would the appeal be lost in time?
I think I would still enjoy most of the sex, when I was in the mood, but most of the time I would probly come to resent being asked. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 8:23:39 AM | Bright1,
Thanks for your post, it saved me quite a few keystrokes. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 9:11:17 AM | | we all have out days and our moods. but i love sex. been with the same person for 5 years before, and even at the end of the 5 years, 2 or 3 times in one day wasn't totally out of the question if we had the time. but there are toys and all sorts of other things to play with to keep it from getting boring too. depends on the person i'm with and how open they are to stuff. the normal lay there, squal, nut, and done gets old after a while. but a freak in the sheets you can't get bored with that. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 9:34:40 AM | There's no such thing as a nympho! It's subjective.
You either have a high sex drive or you like sex more than your partner / partners! Personally I've had one relationship that I would consider borderline nympho. During the first encounters the sex was simply fantastic because it's so new to you both. To me having sex 4 to 6 times in one day is a bit excessive but can be normal when first starting out. When you're in your teens or a young adult you can hang all day long and that's fine just because YOU can! But I promise you no matter how attracted you are or how much that someone can turn on your labido it'll get old doing it that many times in a day no matter how much you mix it up. He or she can be the finest most pleasursable thing on the planet but all things need to be done in moderation including sex. If your partner is sex straved after you hit it more times than not then it can potentially become an issue thus leading to possibly instablity in your relationship.
Oh and regarding my borderline nympho... I lusted for her for over 2 years before we hooked up because she was in a relationship. We did have sexual chemisty and she was pettie and naturally stack. It was something I'm glad I experience but never would want that constant sexual pressure to perform like that on a daily bases. Many years later now I do miss her or that part of our relationship. Where was Viagra back then???
Shit I consider myself lucky now if I get some more than once a month. hahahaha! | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 11:34:57 AM | | I'm not sure I understand. I do much beter when I can try it hands on first. | |
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| Nymphomania.
Posted: 8/23/2006 12:31:19 PM | | I wish I could find a partner who wanted sex all the time! At least every day, and long, drawn out, passionate kissing and foreplay with sex in between for hours at least once weekly! I love sex, and would love to find a man who can handle me! I am so 'frustrated' tight now, I may hurt the next man I am with! I have a lot of aggression to work out..... | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 1:29:03 PM | OK. I HONESTLY thought about it. NOPE. I could NEVER get tired of having it all the time, or my SO wanting it all the time.
I'M AFRAID *I* won't find someone who can keep up with MY sex drive! LOL  | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 1:45:51 PM | I HONESTLY thought about it. NOPE. I could NEVER get tired of having it all the time, or my SO wanting it all the time.
Here! Here! 
I'M AFRAID *I* will find someone who can keep up and we won't have free time left for anything else! | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 2:18:50 PM | IF i had a partner.. i`d be alllllllllllllllllllll over him like a dirty shirt!..  .. i think the only time i would get 'tired of it' is if it would affect my work.. eg: always late, etc..
would the appeal be lost in time???
nope not at all.. u could always bring something into the bdrm (or out).. yanno.. stuff that will keep it exciting.. eg: toys.. videos.. role playing.. etc..
a person`s lovelife should NEVER go stale!..  | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 5:35:39 PM | In a relationship... I want sex two or three times a day. I understand that is unrealistic especially if not living together.
If living together... I definately want it once a day. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 6:00:56 PM | | When in love? No such thing as too much or too many times~ | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 6:46:51 PM | Nymphomania
Despite what you may have heard about "Nymphomania", the term is not a valid diagnosis of a condition. The term is used to describe a perceived “above normal” level of sex drive in women. However, there exists no scale to calculate what is “normal”.
Many believe that the word has developed as slang by men to degrade women with a high sex drive. Many men are very self-conscious about their own sex drive, and the thought of a woman having a "better" drive is threatening.
The correct terminology for a perceived excessively high sex drive might include: hyper sexuality, sexual addiction, and sexual compulsivity. Further information on these conditions can be found in the article on sexual addiction. | |
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| Nymphomania.
Posted: 8/23/2006 7:00:29 PM |
I had one good lover and who ever ends up with him in the end is going to have a perma smile the rest of her fvckin' life and I am so jealous!!!
doncha wish we could just lock up 'em up somewhere when it ends...then they'd have only us to think about and remember instead of being able to creat new memories with someone else??? | |
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