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Posted: 8/23/2006 7:07:03 PM | | All I can say Is I"M IN PICK ME!!! I am single and free after being attached the past few years, and its been 8 months and my Nympo ways are coming back.LOL!!!!! | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 7:23:14 PM | | everyone doesn't need sex to survive like some people claim. thats a whack and played out lie | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 8:06:00 PM | | I read an interesting sex column in a local weekly paper not too long ago that kinda fits here. Seems this guy met a woman who was only looking for afreind with benefits type thing. he was hoping it might turn to more but soon realized this wasn't happening. She would show up once or twice a week as planned, bring take-out to cut down on small talk then f*ck him. He was just about to say this wasn't working for him when she showed up one time gave him a big kiss which tasted odd, f*cked him and left. It was then he realized her motuth had tasted like cum but she hadn't blown him. She had done some guy on the way over to his place. It was then he realized she was a true nympho of the "needs help" variety as opposed to the hot woman who likes sex a lot and is everymans dream variety. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 8:19:48 PM | | I will take one good one, a venti latte, one rainy lazy Saturday and.....what....what do you mean this isn't where we order | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 8:23:17 PM | I can only speak for myself, I was married to a nympho, and I couldn't even vacuum without him pouncing...I felt like a sex tool...eventually we parted.
Then I got witha guy who did not appreciate sex, I did all of the initiating! I wish I could have the sexman back lol!
I'll find my happy medium!
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Posted: 8/23/2006 8:24:50 PM | | As long as it doesn't interfere with the things you have to get done in life, I'm all for it. Otherwise it would be considered an addiction. I've been in a few long-term relationships where it was happening frequently. I never tired from having frequent sex with the same person. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 8:40:35 PM |
i dated an obsessive compulsive nympho once.. all day itwas sex..sex..sex...check the stove..sex..sex..sex... lmao | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 9:41:20 PM | Nymphomania.
Sexual addiction is rapidly becoming recognized as a major social problem with similarities well known to alcohol and drug addiction or compulsive gambling. The sexually addicted individual becomes addicted to the neuro-chemical changes that take place in the body during sexual behaviour, much as a drug addict becomes hooked on the effects of "shooting" heroin. This is not to say that the expression of one as a sexual being, an intensely pleasurable, life-enhancing experience for the majority of the population, is an inherently addictive reality. Contrary to enjoying sex as a self-affirming source of physical pleasure, the sex addict has learned to rely on sex for comfort from pain, for nurturing or relief from stress; this is comparable to the alcoholic's purposeful use of alcohol.
The beginnings of sexual addiction are usually rooted in adolescence or childhood. For starters, the child often grows up in a chaotic, hostile or neglectful home. Or, the family may have been very normal otherwise, but the child grows up emotionally starved for love because affection is rarely expressed. The child may turn repeatedly to masturbation to escape the parents' violent arguments, for instance, or to make up for an unconscious lack of attention or affection. Masturbation can be a normal and natural part of childhood, but for the lonely, abused or rejected child can become a regular sedative, much like marijuana, to hide the inner pain. Gradually, sex becomes a replacement for other things, a convenient act to turn to in times of any kind of need, from escaping boredom to feeling anxious, to being able to go to sleep at night.
Or, the child may be introduced to sex in inappropriate ways. Instead of the normal sexual experimentation that often takes place out of curiosity between similar aged children during growing up, some children are subjected to pedophilia. Or the person introducing the child to sexual experiences may be another child who is five or more years older (i.e., an older cousin, babysitter, etc.), where the sexual experience doesn't feel mutual. In these experiences there often is a combination of natural curiosity, newfound pleasurable feelings and the feelings of fear or shame. The fear and shame may be increased by threats made by the older person to gain the child's cooperation and to prevent the child from telling anyone about it.
A pattern may be established of seeking out similar experiences throughout the person's life where there is a combination of sexual pleasure and fear or shame. When the child grows up he may be turned on by sex in high-risk situations that unconsciously generate fear or in secretive circumstances that feed on shame.
You can seek help in Guelph if you really need it | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 9:55:13 PM | Some Characteristics of Sex Addiction
The sexual behaviour is shameful. The addict feels shame about what he or she is doing, or more accurately, about what he or she has done, usually immediately after engaging in sex acts that violate some of the person's standards. Or the shame may be denied by calling it normal for "a real man," or by focusing on others: "She wanted it.” Thus a married man may feel remorse after having sex with his best friend's wife, rationalize that his friend wasn't sexually satisfying her, and avoid going to bed with his own wife afterward, all in a vain attempt to deny there is a problem or that he has done anything wrong.
The sexual behaviour is secret. The sex addict more and more comes to live a double life – perhaps well known, respected and admired in his visible life but secretly engaging regularly in sexual acts that would be shocking to those who know and love him. So a sexually addicted minister could be revered on Sunday morning for preaching on the sinfulness of adultery and fornication and then engage in those behaviours himself at a modeling studio or adult bookstore on Monday afternoon, having told the church staff or his family a lie about his whereabouts. Or a gay man might tell his relationship partner that he is going to visit a friend but goes to a park to cruise for anonymous sex instead.
The sexual behaviour is abusive. It violates someone else's choice or exceeds their understanding. There is the man who manipulates or coerces his date into being sexual with him; the woman in a partially unbuttoned blouse who bends down toward an unsuspecting male co-worker and "accidentally" exposes her whole breast; or the man who seeks out crowded shopping malls so he can meander among the throng to "cop a feel." Or adult men and women who manipulate the trust of children and abuse their power over them by tricking them into performing sexual acts with them. The sex may also be abusive to the sex addict, such as masturbating to the point of physical injury or cutting or pinching one’s self for sexual arousal.
The Differing Forms of Sexual Addiction
Sexual addiction can take many different forms. The addict may be addicted primarily to one behaviour, such as sex with a prostitute, but generally uses a variety of sexual behaviours. For example, consider the salesman who might watch the dancers at a topless bar over a business lunch, have sex with a prostitute from an escort service in his hotel room one night while on a business trip, return home and have sex with his wife while fantasizing about the sexual massage he got last month. The list of the forms of sexual addiction would be exhaustive and increases with addicts' need to find new ways of finding sexual thrills.
Another feature of sexual addiction is that it is progressive. That is, the habitual behaviours progressively become more frequent, varied and extreme, with more frequent and extreme consequences. At times when the addiction seems under control, the addict is merely engaging in one of the common traits of the disease process in which he switches from sexual release to the control of it. The control phase inevitably breaks down over time, whether it is in an hour, a week, a month, or a year, and the addict is back in the behaviour again despite his promise to himself or others never to do it again. When the ecstasy of the release is spent, the addict will often feel remorse at his failure and with great resolve will switch back to another period of abstaining from the behaviour until his resolve weakens once again. Without help, this is the way the sexually addicted person lives his or her life.
The Internet has become the newest, most rapidly growing form of sexual acting out for many sex addicts. A lot of sex addicts have added computer sex to their repertoire, as it fills a need for "more, easier and better." For the cyber-sex addict, increasing amounts of time are spent "surfing," downloading, masturbating, reading information posted on sexual bulletin boards, exchanging sexual information live with others in sexual chat rooms or via computer cameras, or directing their own live sex shows on interactive sites. The Internet just happens to provide many of the things sex addict's seek, all in one place: isolation, secrecy, fantasy material, endless variety, around-the-clock availability, instant accessibility, a rapid means of returning, and low or no cost.
Since one of the characteristics of sexual addiction is that it is progressive, sex addicts on the Internet often experience a rapid progression of their addiction. The new sexual thrills lead to spending huge amounts of time, moving more quickly into more extreme behaviours, taking greater risks, and getting caught more frequently. The sped-up progression of the sex addict's problem via the internet can turn into a blessing, since it can move the addict into the consequences more quickly that can cause him or her to get help.
Here are some of the more usual forms of sexual addiction.
While at some time in their lives some people who are not sex addicts may engage in one or more of the behaviours listed below, it only becomes sexual addiction when there is an irresistible need to repeat the behaviours and habits are developed around them.
Compulsive masturbation
Compulsive sex with prostitutes
Anonymous sex with multiple partners, where sex is the only object and no relationship (not even as an acquaintance) is established with the person.
Multiple affairs outside a committed relationship, or serial relationships
Frequent patronizing of topless bars, modeling studios, sexually oriented tanning salons, adult bookstores or sexual massage establishments.
Habitual exhibitionism
Habitual voyeurism
Inappropriate sexual touching
Sexual abuse of children
Rape
Than there is more...... .Sex and Love Addiction
A distinction has been made between sex addiction and what is referred to as sex and love addiction. The latter has to do with an addictive pattern of establishing love relationships with specific people, where the person and the relationship, as well as sex with the person, are all part of the appeal to the addict. While these same elements are normal in a healthy relationship, sex and love addicts can never find fulfillment and permanence in any of the relationships they begin. They keep seeking satisfaction in another relationship but find it empty, demanding or anxiety producing instead.
Sex and love addicts may have several relationships with different people going on at the same time or they may pass serially from one to the next, leaving each when the initial "high" wears off. Or they may have a major relationship, such as a marriage, complete with home, children and other signs of permanence, but keep returning periodically to secret relationships with new people.
Sex addiction, by contrast, usually is a preoccupation with sexual arousal and sexual release which often has little to do with who the person is and requires no relationship. On the contrary, to the sex addict, what counts is the charge he or she gets from the image, whether it's a stranger spotted in a car or on a street corner, or stimulating body parts, an erotic picture, or the addict's own fantasy.
A man or woman suffering from sexual addiction has the option of seeking professional help by consulting a psychotherapist or committing himself or herself to a specialized treatment centre.
Treatment
A man or woman suffering from sexual addiction has the option of seeking professional help by consulting a psychotherapist or committing himself or herself to a specialized treatment centre.
Seeking counselling sessions with a psychotherapist has the advantage of being more discrete and will have less impact on your economic capabilities. However, for a person who is committing serious offences because of his or her sexual addiction it is advisable that they commit themselves to a specialized centre since this will remove himself or herself from the environment where they can indulge in such harmful behaviour.
If you believe you, your partner, or someone you know may be suffering from sexual addiction, please consult a professional health care provider as soon as possible.
Despite what you may have heard about "Nymphomania", the term is not a valid diagnosis of a condition. The term is used to describe a perceived “above normal” level of sex drive in women. However, there exists no scale to calculate what is “normal”.
Many believe that the word has developed as slang by men to degrade women with a high sex drive. Many men are very self-conscious about their own sex drive, and the thought of a woman having a "better" drive is threatening.
The correct terminology for a perceived excessively high sex drive might include: hyper sexuality, sexual addiction, and sexual compulsivity. Further information on these conditions can be found in the article on sexual addiction.
So before coming to conclusions......are you really a Nympho? Just curious..........
Etp.....Info taken from sexinfo101 | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 10:31:38 PM | | Another one who didnt read all the posts in the thread. This thread is not about Nymphomania. Read the op statement and his correction in msg 23. GEEEZZZ | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 10:55:40 PM | ETP--------how ironic your not even on topic with your post^^^^^^^^^^^
Ahem......the thread subject is ^^^^^^^^geesh looky up there...^^^^ Nymphomania
Oh gee bust me I couldn't bare to read all haha's, this is a forum and the subject be it the OP made a self correcting statement he himself admitted in msg23 he mis-implied the subject..........
First, let me say that I didn't mean for this to turn into a technical discussion on the ailements of the sexual disorder. I know I chose the wrong word, but it's synonomous to the problem, .
Ahem......Therefore.......this is a forum I'm of my right to "post" what I may about the SUBJECT given. FYI ........you may find it hard to believe but some ppl actually seek knowledge in forums....The information I posted is knowledge given to those readers and other forumer's or member's or who ever googles it..It's is related to the OP ( ya know some are blind readers) The information I posted is for whoever reads it to do with what they want with it and take from it what they want.
don't "flame" me Remote5150 for being ON TOPIC OF THE OP.
The OP should start a new thread on what his intent of this thread was meant to be....
I'm talking about the social problem between partners where sex is concerned
No offence to be taken to the OP....sh!t happens
OH and so that I'm on topic..........Homewood is the name of the health centre that can assist those with either an evaluation or treatment.
VVVVVV Thanks OP.......Dime12804 | |
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Posted: 8/23/2006 11:01:13 PM | Nope....this thread is just fine. Whatever comes of it will be fine as well.
I know what nymphomania is and I know what I wanted to get out of people. All of it is good though. No such thing as useless knowledge. | |
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Posted: 8/24/2006 9:07:39 AM | Personally I love sex all the time Literally... My longest recorded sex session was 6 hours, cant tell you how many times me and my partner climax but it was definitely insane, I want it any time and anywhere... For example at the store grocery shopping then BOOM head into wal-mart changing stall and get it on nasty! Or for another example Be heading to an event in down town dallas at about rush hour get stuck in traffic, and just say to hell with it and get it on right there... Or one last example would be taking a long trip like the one I make to Nacogdoches and just pulling over for a quick sex fix frequently throughout the trip.lol... Thats what all the time is right there... And to all the ladies out there who say that they arent getting any at all or just not getting enough, or you just not getting it the right way or good enough? Please do message me and lets become friends and see what we can do I definitely dont mind having new partners but we gotta keep things clean though not trying to die from an STD everyone should practice safe sex... period... Wrap it before you tap it guys!
Mellissaaa I am here for ya darlin just hit me up.... | |
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Posted: 8/24/2006 9:27:37 AM | I dated one.
I thought it would be cool, and it was.
But after the 7th-8th time that day, I was exhausted. I hurt. Mind is willing, but flesh is not.
And then she started to get upset. Demanding. Angry that I couldn't keep up. And then she started looking for it elsewhere. And actually crying to me.
And that's when I left her. | |
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Posted: 8/24/2006 1:40:09 PM | Hello Kitty aka HK. Sorry i wasnt trying to flame you. Its just you were the 3rd one to copy and paste a big long article about Nymphomania. I just always read the posts in a thread to not be redundant of what someone else has already posted. We see it all the time on these forums of people reading the OP then jump to the end and make a post exactly like one 10 posts back. This thread is only 2 and a half pages long. Its not one of these that has 40 pages. What they need to do is allow the OP to edit the Title of a thread. Not just delete it and start over. But rest assured give this thread a couple more pages and it will have another copy and paste article on Nymphomania.
oh yea bikerbabii im with you on that thread. has been beat to death in these forums. If they were to delete all the threads made on that subject the forums would be half as big. Its a very redundant thread.
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Posted: 8/24/2006 1:52:18 PM | Shesh!!! Remote5150, I'm with you. I wanted to post last night ~ but thought I'd wait until all of the Nymph 101 course was done and the discussion had moved on to personal stories, etc. I think we all get it: nymphomanism ~ bad............libido ~ good.............high libido ~~ rare but good ................... undercooked shrimp ~ can be bad  | |
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Posted: 8/24/2006 5:38:17 PM |
I dated one.
I thought it would be cool, and it was.
But after the 7th-8th time that day, I was exhausted. I hurt. Mind is willing, but flesh is not.
And then she started to get upset. Demanding. Angry that I couldn't keep up. And then she started looking for it elsewhere. And actually crying to me.
And that's when I left her.
Definitely sounds like I need to date one...for a day.
And oh, what a day it would be. :) | |
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Posted: 8/24/2006 5:53:05 PM | | someone QUICK! Call merriam webster! We've got some perts on the line! | |
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Posted: 8/24/2006 6:10:38 PM |
some people claim to have extremely high sex drives. I would be one of those people. However, I also know that there's a limit to it. It's actually a pretty comical conversation amongst friends, but I can't help thinking that most people are full of crap when they say they'd love to be with someone who wanted sex all the time. Yes, I have a very strong sex drive.
Yes, I have formed relationships exclusively with women who share a high sex drive.
No, I do not want a relationship with a nymphomanic. I like a parter who *wants* sex a lot and is up for sex pretty much anytime; I do not want a partner that *needs* sex constantly.
In fact, I don't want to date anyone with a condition that ends in the word "maniac", "psycosis" or "disorder". | |
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Posted: 8/24/2006 6:20:16 PM | | One of my former partners wanted sex all the time. I love sex in whatever form or verbiage you want to slap on it. (f*ck, make love, etc.) I loved that she was so sexual, but the problems came in when she started being a **** to me and still wanted me to screw her brains out. I know I may lose a stripe in the eyes of some men for this, but i can't have sex (whatever) with someone who I am completely utterly pissed off at ALL the TIME. I know some people get hot when they argue, but that's not how I roll. Don't get me wrong, there is no sex better than make-up sex, but if you are insulting me or degrading me one minute, don't expect me to come blow your back out the next minute. I want to add to those who may reply, she wasn't ****ing about not getting sex, she was just crazy and that led to me starting to hate her. NAGGING BANSHEE = LOW LIBIDO. | |
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Posted: 8/24/2006 6:25:47 PM | My nanny had a very high sex drive. During summer vacations when I was a teenager we would engage all day!!! Learned alot from her. My current lovers are reaping the rewards for sure!!!
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Posted: 8/24/2006 6:27:18 PM | hmm i was married for 18 years and NEVER wanted it.......
then, i met a man that is so damn explosive and is amazin in bed.....i cant stop thinkin about it, i've never looked ay myself as a nymph, BUT i do now...
truthfully....when ur with someone that u r so attracted to, and really care about, sex is so much better.....
i dont think i'lll get tired of makin love to him.....ever | |
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Posted: 8/24/2006 6:31:21 PM | theres no such thing as a nympho
just people with high or low sex drives...
but a good partner either gives it to his/her partner or kindly tells them theyre not in the mood... | |
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Posted: 8/24/2006 10:15:58 PM | @Remote.....Thanks...I appreciate your post. Too bad threads can't be Edited by the OP after a longer time frame.......and That all posts are archieved and unable to be deleted at all.
True parts of what I posted had been listed but not in full content. My intent of the C&P article was to make sure that ppl more fully understood what life & a relationship could be like with someone suffering from living with a sexually addicted person and that it's not all that fun all time or humorous.
I concur with verygreeneyez and apologize you didn't feel like posting cuz you knew it all already.............. Now that Nymph 101 is over, Here's my 5c.........LMAO
Being a partner of a sexual addict probably will leave you feeling used because you are being used. Some stay with a partner faithfully, some don't.Their desire to have sex is to make them feel better about themselves for everything emotional and has little to do with you. Sex is their way of being emotional. Alot of sexual addicts just use the person up........and move on.......there is no emotional attachment to the actual person if they have a relationship with the person.........even if they are with the person for long periods of time, Sexual addicts although can act passionate will display cold emotions & will dismiss the relationship as just another failed one.
As to how this affects relationships, it's demanding and frustrating and emotionally upsetting for both parties involved especially the partner who is trying to get better, learn about themselves and take rejections so hard, because they are in Need to get a fix for whatever reason. The sexually addicted seeks all their comforts from the feeling of the sex itself.......not the person they are having it with......it's all about their inner person and how and why they are seeking getting the high from the neuro-chemicals. The neuro-chemicals is what they know makes them feel good....so when they feel they need....it's sex they turn to.......whearas most maybe have a beer, workout, talk etc...sexual addicts just seek the feel good feeling. Their desire for sex usually has nothing to do with the person they are with, or how sexy and appealing that person is. When you reject the addict...the addict becomes even more needy of the sex and becomes frustrated not knowing what to now do and will behave accordingly like a true addict.The addict most likely can't explain why they become like this unless they seek help and work hard on their issues. Sexual addicts many times have a fear of trust,intimacy and attachment to another person because the addiction is a result of too many mental illness reasons from their childhood or adolescent yrs. They don't know why they do it unless they seek help.
Having a relationship with a sexual addict will require lots of patience even if they are trying to recover and help themselves. A recovering addict will need to learn to deal with their emotions in differnt ways and rediscover sex. The person who has the relationship with the addict like any addict will be challenged most days and hopefully will have the knowledge or seek it,patience,love and affection that will be required.
Hopefully I gave a good post to msg 23? Sorry about the length. | |
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Posted: 8/24/2006 11:05:47 PM | I say, unless you are going to be a "True" Nympho and have sex with many different victims, enough is enough when you and the person you are with come to agreeance that it has been enough! Obviously you are going to want it all the time if you are sexually attracted to the person you are with, but if you freak out every time your partner declines sex, I highly doubt they will be attracted to you for very long!
But I say twice on weekdays. . .and "cram" in as much as you can on the weekends!
Kinda like the Jenny Craig diet!
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