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 verygreeneyez

Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 76
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Nymphomania.
Posted: 8/24/2006 11:24:12 PM

I concur with verygreeneyez and apologize you didn't feel like posting cuz you knew it all already.............. Now that Nymph 101 is over, Here's my 5c.........LMAO


I'm so very sorry you misunderstood my post and took offense to my comment. The OP had clearly stated that he had erroneously used the word nymphomaniac and that the subject was primarily sex drive, not an actual disorder. I was simply hoping to read what others think about sex drive or the lack thereof. I was actually hoping the thread was back on topic by that point as I was interested to see what people had to say. Guess it wasn't my lucky day.
 Remote5150

Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 77
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Over Active Sex Drive
Posted: 8/25/2006 7:26:04 PM
I dont think of sex all the time like alot of you keep talking about. Im not that way. I have to sleep every now and then so i would say i dont think about it at least 6 to 8 hours a day. But what the hell i was just informed on another thread by a 42 year old woman that men over 50 cant get it up anyway. So now i know why after i hit 50 all the girls quit calling me. They are all still in their 40's and i guess they think its broke. lol
 disaronno amaretto

Joined: 7/28/2006
Msg: 78
Nymphomania.
Posted: 8/25/2006 7:33:44 PM
I'm not sure with long term, sugar, but I know for a FACT in my experience with short term, talking 9 months or less, the answer is YES! Why would you think they're full of crap? You just have'nt met the right gal, darlin... Never tierd of it in Denton
 FitnessBunny

Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 79
Nymphomania.
Posted: 8/25/2006 7:38:32 PM
If that is all they wanted to do with me, it would get old.
I love sex, but I also love to have a life outside of the sack. Most relationships have that persiod in the beginning where you hump like rabbits, but that dies down some after time.
Once a day is plenty for me. Or every other day and twice on Saturdays.
 Jac Biker Gal

Joined: 8/18/2006
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Nymphomania.
Posted: 8/25/2006 9:50:10 PM
Well having read the whole I think I must be somewhere close to being a nympho, cos not only do I think of sex pretty much all the time, if I can't be doing it I'm texting, talking or caming it. I have very vivid sex dreams and wake up every morning wanting it, in fact mornin is really the horniest part of my day, I have quite a few regular partners, one who I had for six months now and we often have sex three, four times in a row all different ways over a couple of hours. But I was finding that was not enuf as I didn't get to see him more than twice a week, so I started seeing more guys and now I have a group that I go round, as and when they can see me so I'm getin sex alot more now, but still I'm building up my group, cos I want it more and I'm finding the variation from guy to guy is extremely exciting. I don't let it interfere with my job or my life as a single mum of teenagers. But I can honestly say if I find a guy attractive and he ain't married he's fair game in my book. I've known a few guys who can keep going all night and its all about keeping sex varied, not too rough or hard and using a good lube when the need arises. Playing games or role play and toys and sexy undies all keep things alive and kicking and anything goes as long as you both agree. I wudn't let it rule my life but sex sure does play a major part whenever I can get it. Once a day wudn't be enuf for me if I had the choice and wud want sex at least all day for one day at the weekends. I think alot of people supress their genuine sex drive in order to conform to what is expected and if more of them were honest they wud admit to wanting sex so much more often than they get it. I think if you want it that bad and can get sex the way you want it and with however many partners you choose to have sex with there is no problem as long as your hurting no-one in the process. Is my need an illness, my desire to have many partners something I should look at getting cured, or is it the result of a surpressed sexuality through my marriage with a husband who's drive did not match my own, and the fact that I met him at 16 and had no other partner but him til after my divorce simply means that I am fulfilling my wish to have a teenage with the wisdon and caution of an older woman.
 Dime12804

Joined: 9/1/2005
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Nymphomania.
Posted: 8/25/2006 11:25:28 PM
I think some that are responding to me (as the OP) are misreading me. I have a very healthy sex drive. I've had my ex-wife and several other partners tell me to "go away" because I was after them too much at the moment. I've never gone more than a day or two, though, where I'd want it several times in a day. However, then I can go a couple days where I don't even care (not that I'd turn it down) whether I had it or not.

I posted this because I've been on the receiving end of this situation before and I wondered how people reacted to it.

I think we've all had it happen a time or two. Maybe even on both ends. Either you want it a lot and your partner has to turn you down after multiple sessions or vice versa. It is funny to talk about because we all love sex. It's one of our primal urges. It's just strange when something we all love so much can become a bit too much.

I guess it fits in nicely with a lot of other great things that turn a bit in large doses.
 cjshott

Joined: 5/20/2006
Msg: 82
Nymphomania.
Posted: 8/26/2006 9:45:01 AM
I am sure the vast majority of the population likes sex. As far as nymphomania..there are some who have higher degrees then others as I has recently found out.

Intially I thought my ex, who was my first online gf was the wildest girl I had ever met, that was until now. The girl I have been seeing for the past 3 mos who started out soo shy, I could never of imagined having sex with her after our 1st date let alone how wild she turned out to be.

She is the true defination of a "nymph". She has requested some very wild things. For one, something I wrote about last week..a facial. Then on monday nite she gave me nearly a 2 hour BJ. I am in the minority of guys about this, but BJ don't do that much for me normally, but she really knew what she was doing. Then the other nite we watched porn together, while we did a bunch of things. This time she wanted me to finish on her tits.

I know women who cannot stand watching a guy ejaculate. This girl cant get enough.
 anticon

Joined: 2/18/2006
Msg: 83
Nymphomania.
Posted: 8/26/2006 1:15:42 PM
Nymphomania is a disease...

It's not the same as a person enjoying the hell out of sex or even being promiscuous. It's about a person not being able to stop having sex with a person even though they don't want to.
When some women are touched in certain ways or places or they're with a certain guy, they'll give in to sex no matter what the person does to them; whether it's hitting them, p'ing on them, whatever...

I've known women who had this problem and hated themselves so much they attempted suicide on several occasions.

It's really a mental problem. the victim is like a drug addict or alcoholic...

The people are so vulnerable it's like they're blind or retarded or something.
 no_1_bby

Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 8/26/2006 5:44:34 PM
Um... my ex couldn't. When I was pregnant with my first, I was litterally insatiable... and my ex would run if he saw me heading his way sometimes!! For me tho, the more I get, the more I want... I think that's fairly normal for most people tho.
 Blue_Eyed_Gal

Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 85
Nymphomania.
Posted: 8/26/2006 7:47:12 PM
ok I have a pretty healthy drive and I agree with some of the other ladies on here when they say that alot of men are full of it. I have yet to meet a man that has a drive equal to mine, the perfect situation for me would be twice a day, is that too much to ask?
 Dime12804

Joined: 9/1/2005
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Nymphomania.
Posted: 8/26/2006 9:23:57 PM
Twice a day, every day???

This is now getting to what I was talking about.

Twice a day is not a problem at all. Hell, I'd even say three times in a day would not be a problem. However, I know I'm not going to want to do that every single day.

And I'd also be skeptical over any guy that states he can keep up with even the average woman. Not that there aren't any, but I think they're few and far between. Women are just flat out more blessed in this way.

Multiples upon multiples, lengthier orgasms, better endurance, and absolutely no recovery time. Hardly ever have I worn out a woman to where she "couldn't" go again.

Maybe I'm just a bum in bed, but I doubt it.
 sweetcurves

Joined: 8/6/2006
Msg: 87
Nymphomania.
Posted: 8/26/2006 10:24:43 PM
i have days where i want it constantly, and days where i don't care either way
 goddess_01

Joined: 7/2/2006
Msg: 88
Nymphomania.
Posted: 8/26/2006 10:51:35 PM
Ive had an ex want sex all the time.. and i mean all the time and i mean HELLO i was getting tired, sore and bored lol
plus he wasnt all that great.. and by that stage i probably wasnt either
later when i studied psychology i thought maybe it was a way to validate himself.. he felt better about himself when someone was showing him attention.. hmmm something to ponder
 helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005
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Posted: 8/27/2006 12:53:06 AM
I am never tired of it!
However, I am not Nymphomania as in the true definition, as a true Nymphomania wants sex all the time because they can never reach orgasm.
If a guy can go hard & fast for 5 min, I can reach orgasm.
 bashfull2003

Joined: 11/18/2004
Msg: 90
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Posted: 8/27/2006 1:09:43 AM
Helen of troy!!!!

You need a youngin in your life to reach such a high amount of sex drive....i'm 25.....6ft 255lbs...and love it....lol
 foxyforumflirt

Joined: 8/1/2006
Msg: 91
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Posted: 8/27/2006 2:37:11 AM
well i stayed with a man for almost 5 years and we had sex MIN. twice a day , i loved it, he loved it . I was a major part of our relationship. with time the need to touch eachother never faded. we did have a good relationship outside the bed but that was the ticket to our happiness was being intamate with eachother . we could f**k, or make love all of it was worth it and fabulous . we had an abnormal amount of sex so we have both now come to conclude hehe. Well acording to what we know now being with other people. But it worked for us , cant say i will be able to find a man up to that challange again , but the hunt is all part of the fun ;)
 I love hockey

Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 92
Nymphomania.
Posted: 12/28/2006 11:34:41 PM
Its not called the Romper Room for nothing. Now shadup, step up to the plate and take off your clothes.
 johnnynoname

Joined: 5/21/2006
Msg: 93
Nymphomania.
Posted: 12/28/2006 11:39:01 PM
i probably would want a girl that always wanted it. of course, i might not want it all the time. that is why i would have another girl live with us so that those 2 could go at it when i was not in the mood
 jamie1200

Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 94
Nymphomania.
Posted: 12/28/2006 11:42:08 PM
I have a headache..

J.
 Wishin for more

Joined: 12/16/2006
Msg: 95
Nymphomania.
Posted: 12/29/2006 12:04:20 AM
Now I have to admit i have a high sex drive for a woman (must be the "dirty" thirties :>0 ) but in the end it comes down to attitude and how much you feel for that person... I get butterflies when i think about someone i love or have feelings for and all i think about is them...So sex and feelings go hand in hand with me...I let my feelings take me to fantasizes i have and not just for the sex....During the day ( i guess i am more like a man this way) i think back to the feelings and the adventure i had with the man i love and cant get enuff...i think about the small thing he did for me and it makes me smile to think back to it but i also think about being "as one" I know it sounds corny lol but it is true :>)
 colt8301

Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 96
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Posted: 12/29/2006 1:15:11 AM
I could not, because i don't have a high sex drive.
 JerryInTampa

Joined: 9/28/2004
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Posted: 12/29/2006 6:21:51 AM
I have a high sex drive and welcome a woman who has a high sex drive (certainly daily, preferabbly more than once most days).

That's not nymphomania. Nymphomania is a manic disorder where someone *needs* sex all the time. Like any disorder, someone with it should seek treatment. They are very poor partners because of it.
 69_dude

Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 98
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Posted: 12/29/2006 6:53:27 AM
way to go tangodelta
when you have the sexual connection it does make you enjoy it a lot more!
so yeah my sex drive goes up and down (depending on other aspects of home life as well and work) but I have a higher drive than many a lower drive than a few, and sometimes with some people it is just less often but more mind blowing...
mmm... got to get me some tonight... LOL!
 grizzly_bear

Joined: 5/1/2005
Msg: 99
Nymphomania.
Posted: 12/29/2006 8:17:53 AM
You should read up on Salt Peter lol, that will pretty much take the wind out of your sails....
 xFlyNerdx

Joined: 10/4/2006
Msg: 100
Nymphomania.
Posted: 12/29/2006 8:26:36 AM

i dated an obsessive compulsive nympho once.. all day itwas sex..sex..sex...check the stove..sex..sex..sex...


omg ... LOL
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