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Posted: 3/31/2008 9:57:54 PM | Depends on what all the time is? six times a day? 4 times a week?
I don't think I could deal with it all the time, I would never get tired of it though. It's more of if I was too tired to have it. I think for me 4 to 6 times a week is a good number that I can deal with. Not too much, but not too little. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2008 7:44:26 AM | I'm being brutaly honest here,
Could I deal with a partner wanting sex all the time???
Oh God yes because that is a means of expressing your feelings stronger,
get out your frustrations you had for the day, and come out shining and wanting more
Would I get tired of it?
Hell no, I was in a 12 year marriage and in the beginning we did it six times a day
we couldn't get enough of each other but when I got pregnant it slowed down but only a little we still had it everyday just not as much in the day. I wanted him all the time he was so good I just couldn't get enough but we always had it at least once a week throughout the marriage.
Would the appeal be lost in time??
Oh God no honey with my ex it was never lost the only thing that broke us up was we fought too much and I felt he lost interest in me which wasn't the case I found out now and I cheated wanting something as exciting as it was when we began. I did a lot of name calling too so I wasn't the innocent party we just fought and decided to get divorced. But the sex didn't lose its appeal cause we still every now and then go at it if this dating thing doesn't work for us so it hasn't lost the appeal by any means now I see what I lost and yes it hurts but we still have great sex and stay friends for the kids so there you go I honestly do have a high sex drive and I have answered your questions. good luck    | |
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Posted: 4/1/2008 8:25:08 AM | I can think of only one girl I'd been with that I would consider a nymphomaniac. Met her in a bar (of course). Just a little hole in the wall type bar. Talked a few minutes and I asked her if she wanted to go to another bar. We barely got in my car and she was all over me. Never made it to the other bar. Went to her apartment. She was a real screamer. The next three days was constant sex, anywhich way. On the fourth day, I was supposed to meet her at the same bar I met her in after I got off of work. I didn't see her when I went in, but her car was outside. As I sat and drank my beer, I heard noises coming from the mens restroom. I recognized her voice. I opened the door, and there she was sitting up on the sink, legs up in the air and some other guy was banging away at her. Even as I saw this and she looked at me watching her, she made no motion to stop or anything. I closed the door, finished my beer and walked out.
She called and called me for the next month, but she was just too "dangerous" for me. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2008 10:53:15 AM | A nymphomaniac is someone who has a conpulsion to have sex all the time. uncontrolable..... To want sex all the time is controlable. My ex thought i wanted it all the time. At the beginning of our 6 1/2 yrs relationship we did do it almost every day twice a day and we both wanted it. Then as things went along she wanted it less and less when we did have it it was great for both of us. I still was on the same setting though. I would have been happy with once or twice a week but it got to be once or twice every 2 months. So when I would try to instegate it a couple time in a weekend after not having it for a months she would tell me I was over sexed, I was a nympho.
Big difference from wanting it more often than needing it uncontrolablly. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2008 11:46:19 AM | | I've found that anything remotely approaching nymphomania is highly unattractive. Anger can be the actual fuel. Also, an intense need for sexual intimacy early on could be an attempt to manipulate or control things. No, I think you have it right. Nymphomania is a fantasy that doesn't work in real life because it lacks balance. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2008 11:47:39 AM | | I never tire of sex. That is just not ever gonna happen. Ever. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2008 12:00:17 PM | I will take 2 please.  | |
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Posted: 4/1/2008 12:22:03 PM | Sure, it sounds like a lot of fun, but when you meet a true nymphomaniac, who has this compulsive disorder, you'd quickly find yourself looking at her with a certain amount of pity. The girl I described above was not proud of herself at all. But I didn't realize that until after our three day F fest, and I saw her with another complete stranger.
She was freshly divorced when I met her, and I later met her ex husband, who explained to me that he loved her very much, but had to divorce her because she just could not control herself. I felt bad about it. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2008 1:46:23 PM | | Iwould love a partner who wanted it all the time unfortunatly Im usually the partner that does and Ive found that most guys love the idea at first but after awhile it annoys them..and then I get responses to my advance like"wtf Im not your sex slave" and "you dont care about me at all all you wanna do is f*ck" not something most women I know would expect to hear from a guy but it has happened many times.. | |
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Posted: 4/2/2008 9:08:13 AM | I've always sought that elusive nymphomaniac, but never found her. I always ended up with the ones who would fall asleep snoring afterwards or would complain about being "too sore" for the next day or so.  | |
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Posted: 7/16/2009 7:55:40 AM | | Thats the problem , everywhere you look ..... sex is being rammed down your throat !! | |
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Posted: 7/16/2009 8:21:41 AM | I was with someone who wanted sex 3-4 times a night, and, in my 40s, it got a bit tiring (I've got to reload the cannon, for God's sake--there's only so much seed!). Once every other day seems to be about right for me at this point, age 44.
When I was 21, the whole thing was fresh and new and I jerked off at least 4 times a day. But usually not to the same person-! I've never lived with a woman. Living with the same woman day-in and day-out, I imagine there'd be a familiarity factor that would lead to burnout...gotta mix it up, try on some new lingerie, do it outdoors in public places, changing rooms, restrooms, something different each time so it's not the same bedroom and the same light.
Now, even though I just date, the appeal does wane in time and there is a burn-out/exhaustion factor for me, sure, when we're doing it multiple times a day! There are only so many sensations and so many orifices you can enter, that, once you've done it all several times (including anal), familiarity sets in, I get desensitized/dulled and need a break. But, given 3-4 days break, the balls swell with that "deadly sperm buildup", I miss her and I miss the sex, and I'm ready to get it on again with that same woman-! So I guess I'm a "part-time lover" lol.
Depends on the company tho. If I find her red-hot, I will be a raging bull who won't be able to keep his hands or penis off her. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2009 9:38:58 AM | | There's a huge difference between a woman who is always interested and one who always has to have it. The latter is probably nymphomania. The former is a woman with a high libido - she doesn't have to have sex all the time, but enjoys it almost anytime. I think I've got one of the almost always interested ones, but she's satisfied with once or twice a day, and can even skip a day here and there. There are also the days where we're both in top form, and then seven or even eight times in a day is possible. I doubt I would really enjoy more than twice a day for an extended period of time - it can get to be a bit much, even with all the variety and creativity! But once or twice a day seems optimum, with occasionally more or less. | |
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