| Hey.... what just happened here?? Posted: 10/6/2006 4:59:42 PM |
I was wondering if you all could give me some insight on this dating experience I had a month ago.
A month ago....so is this the same guy who wouldn't acknowledge your existance, that you posted about on 7/30? I hope not, because everyone told you back then, to dump him.
If this is a different one, you are having some rotten luck with men! Maybe it's the 'type' of men you are going for? Start looking for 'QUALITY'
No way should you be taking ANY of this crap!!!
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| Hey.... what just happened here?? Posted: 10/6/2006 5:29:46 PM | lmao @ mark........now THAT was funny.....
apparently "Ronald" isn't the only clown
OP....just another "no brainer", rediculous situation and question!
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| Hey.... what just happened here?? Posted: 10/7/2006 10:32:04 AM | .
Wow, life must be different up there in igloo country.
“First date” at four in the morning? That’s unique! Not bad, I say, just different. (Anyone wanting food at four in the morning, I’m okay with that, but not at McDonalds. I just happen to know a couple all night joints that have super good omelets and everyone there knows me so it’s cool. Of course, I’ve been known to cook up a pretty good western omelet myself and usually have all the fixin’s here. But, who the hell’s going to trust me alone in my apartment in the middle of the night on a “first date”? )
Down here, in almost igloo country, the gal-friends and relatives always make me pay when we go somewhere. They make me drive, too, come to think about it, no matter who’s vehicle we take.
Now I’m starting to wonder if maybe my existence is too limited. . . . LOL
Heck, Canada is so close to me that if I go up on the rood of my building I can see it. If gals there are willing to buy me breakfast and drive me around, maybe I should visit there more often. . . .
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| Hey.... what just happened here?? Posted: 10/7/2006 8:25:08 PM | ^^^^^You are one of the few men I WOULD trust.....
But, who the hell’s going to trust me alone in my apartment in the middle of the night on a “first date”?
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| Hey.... what just happened here?? Posted: 10/8/2006 7:04:53 AM | It wasn't "a dating experience you had a month ago" if its still continuing to happen...
So let me get this straight.. You were out on a FIRST date with a man at FOUR IN THE MORNING, went to MCDONALDS, PAID FOR HIM, and then CONTINUED to date him after that??
no offense because this will probablly come across as harsh, but you have no one to blame but yourself.
personally, i'd never be alone in my car on an internet first date with someone let alone at four in the morning!!! then i'd be hard pressed to go to mcdonalds on a first date (i'm not saying i'm snotty and never eat there but on a FIRST date??), then for him to expect me to pay? all that added up (not that it would ever happen) there would be NO second date let alone an entire month long relationship CUT THE LOSER LOOSE. | |
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| Hey.... what just happened here?? Posted: 10/10/2006 2:59:50 PM | Here's what I would have done (okay probably not, but it sounds funny).
When you pulled up to the window, tell him "okay, it's X dollars." If he didn't give you the money, you should have told the person at the drive thru "sorry, cancel the order, my date here didn't bring any money!" | |
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| Hey.... what just happened here?? Posted: 10/10/2006 3:59:23 PM | Why is the world did u even pay for his food! And worst yet still keep on seeing him! Tones are set in the beginning of relationships, if we allow people to do stupid things and get away with them, then the whole relationship will stay that way, it never gets better. u figure that someone will always put their best foot forward when u first start dating, so if this is how he is acting right up front, you know he's trouble. | |
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| Hey.... what just happened here?? Posted: 10/10/2006 4:04:56 PM | | Blueskyes,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,Two words----DUMP HIM | |
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| Hey.... what just happened here?? Posted: 10/10/2006 8:32:54 PM | Sounds like the first date went really well, if it lasted until 4 am. What should you do with him? I haven't a clue as all you have said is you are buying his food.
I think it's rather funny how many people say to dump him based on that alone. I would be willing to bet if the situation were reversed no one would give it the first thought.
Really it is very simple. If you like him, keep seeing him. If you don't, then stop seeing him. | |
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| Hey.... what just happened here?? Posted: 10/10/2006 8:41:56 PM | Drown him?? Just kidding people!!!! Perhaps ask for the money beforehand, I had to do that a couple of times, it worked. | |
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| Hey.... what just happened here?? Posted: 10/10/2006 8:49:35 PM | Propose to him.
You BOTh sound pretty screwed up and co-dependent. You might be very happy together.
PS......You MUST be joking...why on Earth would you even have to spend 5 minutes Thinking about what to do...let alone ASK a bunch of strangers what to do? If you can't figure this out on your own....well then I think you should ask your NURSE...because obviously you must reside in a group home for people incapable of living independently. Yeah go ask your nurse what to do. | |
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| Hey.... what just happened here?? Posted: 10/11/2006 9:11:24 AM | OP.... I'm hungry and I am a little short on funds .....what are you doing tonight??
ps. I also have this nasty credit card bill .....any ideas? .......(-; | |
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| Hey.... what just happened here?? Posted: 10/11/2006 9:47:36 AM | Get him some Ronald gift certificates and stick them in his stocking.
By December, he should have you paying for Wendy's at least | |
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