kaliel
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Joined: 11/24/2006
Msg: 301 | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 11/30/2006 12:22:10 AM | Kaliel..
that message is not necessarily funny..speaking for those of us relatively few survivors who have had a brain hemorrhage...it's life and death # 1, being crippled # 2, and it really sucks # 3.
I would've thought someone your age would not have made as glib a comment as that.... | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 11/30/2006 4:51:38 AM | | i hate to be REALLY honest but i wouldn't. however, if i was in a relationship with someone and they became disabled then i would stick with them | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 11/30/2006 8:30:23 AM | Honestly, I would if it was a minor disability. REASON: I have been a care-giver, in one capacity or another, since I was 5 years old. Yes, I said 5. I still am, at present. Sooo, I have to be blunt/honest and say that I would like to be free of 'physical' responsibility to another person.
That may sound selfish. I could lie and say no disability would matter to me...which is not the case.
And, yes, I know I could become disabled at any time. However, now that I've been a care-giver all of my life to this point, I can honestly say, if I were disabled, I would fully understand why others would not want to take on that aspect of a relationship. | |
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kaliel
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Joined: 11/24/2006
Msg: 307 | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 11/30/2006 9:32:06 AM | Many years ago I met an incredible man in a wheelchair. Absolutely georgous and had a vibrant personality. Not only was he successful, he was an olympic basketball player. We met every day three times a day for coffee at work on our breaks and lunches. We talked about many things. One of the things we talked about was music. We found out that even though we liked rock and mod we had a secret desire to listen to classical music sometimes. So one day he asked me if I would go to the Philharmonic with him. I did!!!
Yes ... there was a romantic friendship of the minds for a short time... I still think of him from time to time and wonder ... what ever happened to.... | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 12/1/2006 4:13:43 PM | | I'm disabled, (wheelchair) user, and yeah I would date both a disabled or able bodied woman if she was willing to have a meaningful relationship with me. | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 12/1/2006 4:19:25 PM | | i totaly would if i was atracted to them and they where my type.unless the dissablaty would meen ther would pass on ealyer than most. this is only because i have childeren and wouldnt want to put them though that if i didnt need to. | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 12/1/2006 4:24:40 PM | I would but ironically enough this question "assumes" that a disabled person can't be shallow. How about if the disabled person thinks that you don't look good enough? I am sure that has happened to someone...
It may have happened to me!  | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 12/2/2006 12:08:06 AM | i dont see it as an issue really you make stuff an issue and other will do the same.I dated a chick who had cerebal palsy once she was a cool chick and would make most so called normal people look silly lol.infact alot of so called normal people were extremely jealous of her as she had all the nice things in life and she had so many friends and she had a kid plus a job,i say never judge a book by its cover.and you will find alot of people like this are very down to earth and good value.they sure can make ya laugh   | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 12/2/2006 1:49:22 AM |
I would but ironically enough this question "assumes" that a disabled person can't be shallow. How about if the disabled person thinks that you don't look good enough? I am sure that has happened to someone...
It may have happened to me!
Bingo, I have to laugh that you said this, because sometimes I get called shallow, picky, etc. | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 12/2/2006 8:13:35 AM | | It should be inside what matters .Even though in a lot of cases this is not so. But then if you turn someone away because they are disabled you may be the loser not them | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 12/8/2006 2:46:34 PM | Of course! It's what's inside that counts anyways. I have the major hots right now for a guy who has MS and walks with a cane, occasionally uses a wheelchair. I don't see anything wrong with it whatsoever! | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 12/8/2006 7:30:11 PM | well you know what people if a man doesn't accept a woman like me in a wheelchair when i have a beautiful personality and i love to laugh and can still do the things that i enjoy then they know where they can go. because i love being single and if they can't date me because i'm a wheelchair bound lady then screw them. i'm better then that .  | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 12/8/2006 7:42:59 PM | trancer don't worry about it babe i'm sure the shallow men on this service will date you eventually. i'm sure you have a great personality l ike i do., i am just on here looking for friends and hopefully a boyfriend. so i wish u luck sally     | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 12/8/2006 7:45:02 PM | daistalles, you know what you're shallow. i wouldn't date you either so there if you don't like a handicapped person if they don't have two legs then you're as shallow as the rest of the men in here., but u know what i have a better personality then you will ever have.     | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 12/8/2006 7:55:25 PM | hey sweetie , you have as much right on here as i do or any handicapped person does, we are people too so don't feel bad about it, their just shallow is all it is and rude along with it.  | |
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| Would you date someone who is disabled.
Posted: 12/8/2006 7:55:41 PM | | hey sweetie , you have as much right on here as i do or any handicapped person does, we are people too so don't feel bad about it, their just shallow is all it is and rude along with it. | |
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