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| this guy is wondering where all the good girls have gone.
Posted: 8/23/2005 11:20:21 AM | good girls go through their "bad boy" times and become a good woman.
IF they mature enough to dismiss material objects (cars, looks, belongings, job, earning potential) from their wish list and prioritize character (HONESTY, gentle, passionate, sincere, etc) in their Man the continue on to becoming a ruby without price. | |
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Celyne
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Joined: 7/17/2005
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Habfan
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Joined: 3/22/2005
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| this guy is wondering where all the good girls have gone.
Posted: 8/24/2005 1:00:46 AM | Mr Nervous Hotty it's almost your one year anniversary!!!!!!!!!!
Holy CRAP! How'd you find that out? I never knew you could see the sign up date.
And on a related topic I've been on exactly 2 dates in that 1 year..yea..go me.*cough*
EDIT UNNH! Nevermind I just realised where you saw it. under my freakin name header *smacks head* | |
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| this guy is wondering where all the good girls have gone.
Posted: 8/24/2005 7:31:33 AM | | bullsh*t! the married by 22 girls/guys usually did so cuz they trapped themselves into it (having babies)...those marriages are often over within 5 years. women/men who are a bit older have figured out who they are and what they want, that IMO makes them a better catch for a long-term committed relationship. doesn't always apply, but often true. | |
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| this guy is wondering where all the good girls have gone.
Posted: 8/24/2005 8:27:40 AM | define good. all things are relative. good may mean someone who is subservient. it could mean someone strong in their sense of self. good may mean someone who works hard and makes a lot of money. if you know what "good" means to you, you will have an easier time finding it.
When I was a little girl my mother used to recite this poem to me all the time:
There was a little girl
Who had a little curl
Right in the middle of her forehead
When she was good, she was very, very good
But when she was bad, she was horrid
'course she also used to dress me up like a boy. | |
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| this guy is wondering where all the good girls have gone.
Posted: 8/24/2005 9:26:02 AM |
bullsh*t! the married by 22 girls/guys usually did so cuz they trapped themselves into it (having babies)...those marriages are often over within 5 years. women/men who are a bit older have figured out who they are and what they want, that IMO makes them a better catch for a long-term committed relationship. doesn't always apply, but often true.
not always true... and not everyone gets "trapped" by babies. Yes, of course it happens (like anything else) but I know a a few couples who have been together (married since they were 22 or younger) and are still together. E.G. My brother and my sis-in-law were married when he was 19 and she 22... that was 6 years ago (they had their first child 2 yrs after they were married).
It just depends when u do find your soul mate.. sometimes it happens earlier, sometimes later. You know when its right and it'll last forever... age is irrelevant IF your mature. I can only hope to find what they have.... because its pretty spectacular. | |
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| this guy is wondering where all the good girls have gone.
Posted: 8/24/2005 9:33:01 AM | | but Fluffy, do you really think there is such as thing as only one soul mate? I happen to believe there can be many or maybe some that are soul mates for a time. I think a partner can impact your "soul" (after EP maps it) and not necessarily be the one and only. Monogamy or partnering for life is very ingrained in us. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, just that we don't question it. It my perfect world of make believe, I would have married my prince at 21, had six children, never a financial worry and great sex every day. But life just ain't that way. Hey, I'm rambling and no one stopped me. | |
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Posted: 8/24/2005 9:48:53 AM | Classic, I do believe that there is 1 person who is a match for each of us... will we find them? Nope, most of us wont. But those who do are very lucky (e.g. less heart break, etc).
That isnt to say that those of us who dont find that 1 person but instead find a few ppl to "impact our souls" are not lucky... we just go through a few more tears, more experiences, more "loves"... but we have just as much fun in the end...
Although, I have to say I would like to find that "unconditional love" (never had it) and long term/lasting partnership... isnt that what many of us want? a constant companionship?
monogamy is difficult... and it isnt the "norm"... and yet when we do find someone we care about enough, we agree to it... | |
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| this guy is wondering where all the good girls have gone.
Posted: 8/24/2005 1:26:27 PM | There are lots of good girls left. trouble is they are usually attracted to that hot guy with the big biceps and bulging chest and not to forget the 6 pac. Most guys dont come in the configuration. Seriously though I think there IS someone for everyone out there just have to keep looking and not give up. | |
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