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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/7/2008 2:20:15 PM | [or if she has breast cancer]
whoa dude, if that was humor, i gotta get a new dictionary. 
lie, cheat, steal? any or all, never ok....well, i've cheated a few tests in grade school, does that count? | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/8/2008 2:04:59 PM | ONLY COWARDS KEEP SOMEONE BY PRETENDING TO BE SOMEONE ELSE, LYING, CHEATING, ETC. These people are afraid to be real, afraid to be alone, selfish beyond all reason. Then they turn around and trying to make themselves look good by saying they didn't want to tell because it would hurt the spouse/significant other. How dare they take away their partner's choices by keeping the truth from them?
You couldn't say it any better. I found out this for myself. Thought I had something and was just a farce to say the least. | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/8/2008 5:25:42 PM | | No, people don't think they won't get caught. Cheating is an insecurity problem, not necessarily because they like that other person better than their spouse. The person who is cheating needs to feel better about themselves, and as such, does not care about cheating on their spouse; it is about them. "Once a cheater, always a cheater." If you find yourself in this situation, get out fast, and never look back. | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/8/2008 10:18:30 PM | | Thanks for the insight sirorick , I didn't it see it like that. | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/9/2008 12:12:49 AM | | It seems to always come back to the T word ive noticed that on these forums.Without trust you have nothing your relationship will never last ---so why the hell cheat.Your in the end only cheating your self and must enjoy being single. Hint your getting older also. | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/9/2008 8:48:26 PM |
^^^^ Is that MY Cooky?
Unless our Cooky got a sex change, no it isn't. | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/9/2008 11:11:34 PM | | People who cheat are worthless lying scumbags. Or they might just be very insecure people who don't know how to get out of a relationship because they lack a backbone. Either way, cheating sucks. It hurts people a lot. I have never cheated in my life, and I will never either. What's the point? Pick a partner you find hot, keep your love alive, and don't put yourself into tempting situations. Then you'll never want to cheat in the first place. Oh, and getting caught is totally irrelevant. When you cheat, YOU change too. That's because you will have bonded with another person outside of your marriage and you will have lied to your partner, even if she or he doesn't find out. | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/17/2008 2:17:11 PM | | when your spouse cheated 1st, and you have the divorce papers signed and ready to be served. then you should cheat, cause a whole bunch of drama then hit him/her with those papers. | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/17/2008 2:36:02 PM | It is NEVER OK to cheat! Cheating implies SECRECY. If you have decided to meet other people, even at that stage you should tell the person that you are with. It's not cheating if you tell the person that you no longer want to be with just them and you give the person an opportunity to decide whether they wish to stay or to leave. After all, we can't expect to have our partner chained to us and to remain with us if they no longer want to be with just us or with us at all.
As far as I'm concerned, it would hurt my dignity to remain with someone who obviously does not want me. Being treated coolly and as a pest must be a horrible thing to go through. It's best for us to leave gracefully, with some degree of class, and with our dignity intact as much as possible. | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/20/2008 2:58:28 PM | But...but...I had the cheat code that I got from the Internet for that special Halo level.
Is it okay then? | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/20/2008 4:01:13 PM | You have to ask?!
Okay, maybe I can see it in certain medical situations [I can't do it anymore, and I know you still have needs that I can't fulfill... ], where the other partner is aware of it, or what have you. RARE OCCURRENCE. I think we need a medical opinion before we buy this one. And if it's consentual, then, it's not really cheating is it?!
Possibly in an I can't have kids situation, and we don't want to incur the expense of In-Vitro firtilization... Again, that's not really cheating is it?!
I suppose in an [open relationship] situation, where there really is no commitment to monogomy, ergo that's not really cheating either.
In a normal relationship, where trust is involved, and that trust is being betrayed...
It's not!
Without honesty and trust there is nothing. If you cannot give it, you get nothing in return. Abuse it and you are left with nothing! | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/20/2008 4:56:55 PM |
Possibly in an I can't have kids situation, and we don't want to incur the expense of In-Vitro firtilization... Again, that's not really cheating is it?!
Do you really believe someone would consider this an actual option and let their wife boff some other guy just to save money on in vitro? (Is having sex to SAVE money considered prostitution?) Besides, any couple who is that idiotic should not be parents anyway. | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/20/2008 11:59:25 PM | | It's okay in Las Vegas, because it stays there. And if you're drunk, it's okay. And if the other man or woman is really, really, cute, or has money that he/she spends on you. | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/21/2008 11:42:28 AM | I was kidding, of course!
This one is a "no brainer."
Simple answer: It's NOT.
The rest are just excuses... with varying degrees of merit. Most have none-what-so-ever. | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/21/2008 1:15:05 PM | While I agree that it is never okay to cheat in a healthy relationship, when both husband and wife are loving and giving, there are circumstances that cause some in a marital situation to cheat. In some of those cases, the cheating is understandable.
I think I know why some do, although I don't condone all of them. They catch their wife or husband cheating and want to get back at them by doing the same thing. They want to divorce their husband or wife, but can't for financial reasons. One or the other refuses sex and the one who wants it steps out on the one who doesn't. The marriage is open and free. Someone remains in the marriage out of kindness to take care of an ill person who no longer is able to participate in sex. The man is impotent and the wife loves him, but needs sex. The wife is frigid and can't do it, and even though the husband loves her, he needs sex. One or the other who no longer loves the other cheats because he/she isn't brave enough to separate from the marital situation and go it alone.
There are many reasons for cheating. To say it is NEVER okay, isn't realistic! | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/21/2008 2:28:00 PM | Its not and I don't care what the circumstances are. If you feel the need to cheat, then you should be single and/or using your hand and if you are doing the latter then you really need to work on your relationship. The only possible exception is if one of you is on a business trip for several days. This goes for both sexes, not just guys. That is blunt but the way I feel personally. Guess I am a little old fashion.
Just ask Elliot Spitzer how it feels..and he has a great looking wife. I'll bet he wishes he used more restraint and/or a sex tool now. Some guys got it all and they still mess up. I think the power goes to their head..or maybe penis.   | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/21/2008 9:48:17 PM | wsrfr33:
Some years back, I had an acquaintance who was in love with his wife. She got mad at him for not being able to pick up the son from a soccer game because he had to work late. She was a home maker, did not work outside the home and could have done it easily and did. The reason she didn't want to was because she wanted to go shopping with her mother who only lived about two miles from her home.
To punish him, she withheld sex and refused it over a three month period of time, all over this crazy incident (I'm sure there were other factors and this incident was probably the straw that broke the camel's back, but despite that...). He tried all sorts of things: flowers, dinner, movies, and so on. She stayed firm. Finally, during the forth month, he went out with a woman from the office and continued to go out with her for about two months. The wife finally came around and everything was fine for about a year.
Then one day the wife found out about the two month affair.
I'm sorry, but in my mind, when a woman uses sex for a weapon, and many do in the marriage situation, I can understand why a husband (or if it was the other way around, the wife) would cheat. Furthermore, in my mind, I find that OK! | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/21/2008 11:24:09 PM | | if your girlfriend is caught humping the dog, then you have the right to search out some pu$$y. | |
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| When is it OK to cheat?
Posted: 3/22/2008 12:05:53 AM |
if your girlfriend is caught humping the dog, then you have the right to search out some pu$$y.
Ah, we have a poet in our midst. | |
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