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Posted: 8/29/2006 7:51:58 AM | people just remember it takes 2 ,"2 cheat" and just ask my x,if u can find her cuz when she went 2 the curb i booted her from the door and it was a touch down!!! so she should land soon in ,"the land of skankz" pmsl and leave her there!!! pmsl | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 10:07:13 AM | First I think I would ask myself, " Hmmmmm, Am I a bad housekeeper and live a lil like a pig?" "Do I wear a little too much makeup and dress a little provacative?" "Do I Drink a lil too much and act like an idiot when I do drink alcohol?" Have I ever driven while intoxicated.... especially with a passenger?" "Do I overeat?, Drink too much coffee?" " Do I have to be the center of attention alot of times?" "Do I gossip a bit too much or talk behind peoples back and then be nice to their face?" "How many lil white lies makes me an actual Liar?" "Do I always work my hardest and do my best?" "Am I always at my best with others and mean every nice thing I say along with every smile I give?" Have I ever taken or stole or kept something that didnt belong to me?" .............. and many more examples........ I will just say, if you are perfect, then I guess you have the right to judge, if your not perfect, has your friend lost her respect for you and your imperfections or bad judgements? If she has, I'm not sure how you even remain friends?? Friendship is not about right or wrong when it does not directly concern you or affect your own life.
I am not saying that I think people who cheat on their spouses are right , but nor am I saying they are wrong either. I am just saying, it is not right for me to place judgement on them, and above all not on my friend, In any case, nobody knows what goes on behind someone elses closed doors, regardless what reasoning lies behind whatever the action may be. As individuals , we each make our own choices - right or wrong - and either way, we each will have to learn something from it, and good or bad, forever live with it. If you really think about it...... If we lost respect for each and every friend who made a mistake or did not make the wisest of choices in their life - we would all be without respect and without friends. Like I said though - JMO | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 10:15:20 AM | | As A man . I think it is wrong . Period. I would not want my woman cheating on me ( If I had one) ,,lol,, So no way will I date A married woman. I dont care if she says her husband dont mind( still wont) No he cant watch,,lol,,But thats just me. I know there are open relationships that work ( dont know how? ) But its differant strokes . But for me . No heck no. I want my own woman not yours! | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 10:57:58 AM | | Things go better if it is the wife having sex with her married man husband. But that doesn't happen a lot. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 11:06:35 AM | | Who made you the morality Police? If she wants to fool with a married guy, that is her choice. If you don't like it then don't talk to her. Maybe the Guy's wife is no longer willing or able to have sex so he is looking elsewhere. Until you have the whole story, I would advice against judging someone. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 11:34:46 AM | | round these parts we have a saying, "dont judge anyone till you have walked a mile in there shoes" meaning till you been there, know all the facts, and can be fair and honest..and i bet you cant. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 7:47:15 PM | girls always make up some excuse to justify their friends actions. men are more cut and dry. if a homie was cheating on a girl and i was of the type that thinks maybe, JUST MAYBE, cheating is not the right thing to do, then I'd tell him straight up and be a lil **** about it until he stops or we grow apart.
Bloodless, you are an idiot to think that only the married man is the one to blaim...it's a pretty messed up way of thinking...but it's nice to know you dont mind if any of your friends cheat...unless of course they cheat with YOUR MAN. then you'll probably start changing your tune.
good grief what a load of sad sacks
cheating is basically the ULTIMATE relationship sin | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 7:50:16 PM | I'm an idiot because I don't agree with you....I love it. That made me laugh....now I must go cry myself to sleep, some guy who is afraid to meet a woman in the real world thinks I am an idiot. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 8:04:33 PM | im not ashamed for using online dating services...you certainly arent offending my manhood. also, you are insulting all the GIRLS on this site also.
you believe if a women sleeps with a married man, the women is not at fault because it's only the man that is married? if you dont see why that is false then frankly im glad you dont like me and want nothing to do with me! i'd want nothing to do with your kind also!
viva la online dating!!!  | |
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| Sex with married men
Posted: 8/29/2006 8:07:50 PM | | So you think we are responsible for the well being of others relationships ? | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 8:11:13 PM | Everyone is responsible for their own actions. it's called MATURITY. you take responsibility for your choices and they in turn dictate the kind of person you are.
if the girl was lied too and thought the guy was single then thats different, but since she KNOWS he is married and still sleeps with him, I'd say she is a low sack of life that has no respect for others...obviously. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 10:24:31 PM | | It's pretty simple that when you are in a relationship with someone, it is your responsibility not to cheat, not the third persons because they are single. As far as morals go each person has different beliefs, try not to judge. I would be more worried about a friends safety if they got caught, some people will kill you over that kind of stuff. | |
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Posted: 8/31/2006 8:57:44 AM | | I've been married for almost 30 years. My wife lost her sex drive long ago and also let her body go. I still want sex with her but she has no interest. After 30 years of dealing with life together it seems pretty shallow to me to want a divorce so I can have sex. I need the warm touch of a woman and the intimacy that goes along with it. My wife can't supply this, but this is just a small part of a total relationship. The woman who screws the ears off that married guy just might be making a part of an overall relationship more survivable. How many of you can say your wife or husband has been your only partner? How often does either a man or a woman "save it for marriage?" If you can find someone with whom you can share even a few moments of intimacy with ... be thankful. | |
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Posted: 8/31/2006 9:21:49 AM | | you should keep quiet, its not your problem to solve, if she asks for your advice give it to her, all the experts will tell u that (not that i'm sayin they are always right) | |
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Posted: 8/31/2006 2:00:06 PM | Lapper
Ask your wife what she would prefer you do. Stay married to her whilst having sex with other women or file for divorce so you don't have to cheat. I already know her answer. This is a cowardly excuse for wanting your cake and eating it too. | |
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Posted: 8/31/2006 2:55:16 PM | SEX WITH A MARRIED MAN IS PERFECTLY FINE!!!!!
IF.....................................
He is your husband! | |
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Posted: 8/31/2006 5:00:48 PM | I will probably get killed for this....but people that cheat...cheat for a reason..something is missing from their relationship...and the reason they arent divorced usually stems from having kids with that person and not wanting to ruin the kids lives...
I am not 100% for cheating....but Keep your silence....stay out of it....
These people only Live once....dont let they die with regrets ... | |
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Posted: 8/31/2006 9:31:33 PM | | I know this is a little off topic but I have never understood that phrase you want your cake and eat it too. Well, yes I would like to eat it, why in the world would I want a peice of cake if I wasn't going to eat it. When was the last time you bought a Big Mac just to stare at it all day and think to yourself oh lucky me I finally got a Big Mac. Pizza, bananas, big macs, cake, etc if you get it, EAT IT! For Christ's sake people are starving don't just get your cake and then let it rot away, share it with a hungry person or something. | |
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Posted: 9/1/2006 6:07:10 AM | it refers to being selfish and having it all...holding onto that piece of cake for tomorrow but eating it today as well....hence, if u eat it now, it will not be there tomorrow....
cant have it both ways | |
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Posted: 9/1/2006 7:12:55 AM | I would like to say that I think having sex with me is a very good idea, as long as you aren't a male.
And you aren't a Glenn Close lover...
nor a Cub fan...
nor a charter member of Weight Watchers...
nor a lover of Springer | |
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Posted: 9/2/2006 4:22:42 PM | | I do not think it is the other woman that is the homewrecker. If a man (or woman) was getting what they need from their spouse there would be no need to see someone else. And why do some people not listen to their spouse. I happen to be the other woman but there was problems in their marriage before I ever met him. I do not believe that there is a homewrecker, I think the spouse did that many years before when they did not meet their spouses needs. and why do some women think that they do not need to have sex unless they desire it, what about the man's needs? | |
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Posted: 9/2/2006 5:40:00 PM | | your friend is wrong cheating with this married man ...So tell her she's a cheap slut and why would he want her she is to easy!!!! it is a proven fact that married men will not leave there wife for someone else as they have to much to loose ,,so you see she is wasteing her time with this cheating married prick | |
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Posted: 9/2/2006 7:29:23 PM | i don't see why people would bother with a married man.
if he can't get his wife, the woman who loves him, interested then how in the world could keep me interested?
i wouldn't waste my time.
if i had a friend that was sleeping with a married man, i would introduce to nice, hot, single young men and she'd forget about old unfaitful pretty quick | |
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Posted: 9/2/2006 7:39:57 PM | | amen rollergirl amen. lots more younger single men out there willing, and ready. Live and let live darlin. She is ur friend so be one to her as u well demonstrate with ur conversations. Also human sexual behavior never changes nor will this issue. Its as old as the ancient times. Its the sensuality and quality of relationships that lasts and the loving work of each partner called respect that endures. Live life my young friend because its ALL too short. Please have safe sex and know ur partners. I hear too many death sentences at work with people contracting AIDS. Enjoy life. | |
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Posted: 9/2/2006 7:52:29 PM | When someone cheats on their spouse, they are bringing in whatever
STDs the person they are cheating with might have.
Therefore they are doing more than betraying trust,
they are endangering someone else's life.
I would say that your friend needs therapy in order
to figure out why she feels that it is acceptable
to sleep with married men.
There is definitely an issue there in her.
I would say what I think of a cheater,
but last time when I used the word I was
banned for a week. | |
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