| Sex with married men
Posted: 1/11/2007 2:27:29 AM | Come on! this ones easy..
Married men wont call her all hours of the night, married men wont follow her around in some raged jealousy, married men wont say "whos that?" "whos he" " where are you going" married men dont care if she spends the whole night out at a bar and after party. And Married men will always spend more on her than their own wife.
Shes got the good life leave her alone if she wants to be the other woman. | |
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| Sex with married men
Posted: 1/11/2007 6:29:40 AM | i don't think it is any of your business at all. two consenting adults, really down to them. i personally wouldn't want to sleep with a married man.
i worked for some very rich russians in mayfair. my boss got me squiffy so made out with him- was so funny! anyway, i have no doubt that he was trying to groom me to be his mistress. was really odd, and found it a little embarrassing. i just didn't want the people who i worked with to think i was screwing the boss | |
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Slunce
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Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 178 | |
| Sex with married men
Posted: 1/27/2007 9:29:17 AM | | You can certainly share with her how you feel about her behaviour but right or wrong, the behaviour is hers and therefore it is her issue, not yours. Yes, we may be the kind that puts moral judgement on this issue but who are we to judge? I think she has plenty to deal with if all she is after is sex. There is something rather unsettling about a person who is incapable of developing a deep relationship that involves much, much more. | |
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| Sex with married men
Posted: 1/27/2007 7:09:21 PM |
I feel it is not her responsibility to make sure others relationships remain stable....it is up to the people in the relationship.
How can anyone be responsible for someone else . . . ?
Adullts have to choose their own path in their own lives . . . Why can't you accept your friend's choices? | |
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| Sex with married men
Posted: 1/27/2007 10:26:54 PM | | WTF...Why should she accept her friend's choices?? Ever heard the saying "you are what you hang-out with". This so-called friend does not respect other people, muchless herself. I know somebody like that & I can't stand the fact that it doesn't bother her to do these things. Therefore, I won't have anything to do with her anymore. Guess that's MY choice, huh. | |
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tokr
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Joined: 9/2/2006
Msg: 181 | |
| Sex with married men
Posted: 1/27/2007 10:30:04 PM | | Honestly, I don't think it is any of your business who she sleeps with. Does it make her a bad person for sleeping with married men? No, not in my opinion. Some people get more turned on by having sex with someone who is off limits. It is right? Not for me and maybe not for you, but apparently it is for her. | |
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Posted: 1/27/2007 11:51:17 PM | OUCH.. hell no don't keep your mouth shut! Coming from the person that you can classify as the 'last to know' when my husband was screwing around, I would have wanted to know when it first happened, instead of finding out 2 months after he had started seeing the cow. It made it worse to know that I had been what I had thought as happily married those last 2 months, and he was sleeping with someone else.  | |
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| Sex with married men
Posted: 1/28/2007 12:09:52 AM | | She is just as much in the wrong as the men are. She knows they are married so she is doing as bad as they are. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2007 1:50:59 AM | | I think you should say something. You can't tell her what to do, but you can tell her how it makes you feel. It feels wrong to you because it IS wrong...and sad! I couldn't have a friend like that because I don't think she's a good enough person. She's gets men to decieve their wives...that is just horrible on SO many levels! What if it was YOUR husband? It would only be a matter of time. Good people don't do things like that. If she likes married men so much, why doesn't she marry one, and keep screwing that married man the rest of her life without hurting other people. | |
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| Sex with married men
Posted: 1/28/2007 4:12:47 AM |
I don't think she's a good enough person. She's gets men to decieve their wives...that is just horrible on SO many levels! What if it was YOUR husband? It would only be a matter of time. Good people don't do things like that. If she likes married men so much, why doesn't she marry one, and keep screwing that married man the rest of her life without hurting other people.
Well said!!  Couldn't have said that better myself! | |
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| Sex with married men
Posted: 1/28/2007 6:07:17 AM |
She knows how I feel but yet continues with it and says she knows its wrong.
What if you get married? Are you going to keep this "friend"? I would just end the friendship. Ever hear of "Guilt by association"? Not that you would do it also, but people will judge you by the company you keep. | |
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jlryan
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Joined: 8/29/2006
Msg: 187 | |
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| Sex with married men
Posted: 1/28/2007 9:31:56 PM | You've made it clear how you feel - I'd stay out of it from here. It's OK to tell her you don't want to hear about it if she keeps going on about how wonderful her latest married fling is in bed.
I'm with you here, though. I could never, ever, ever sleep with a man who was married to someone else. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2007 9:38:24 PM | | keep in mind her actions stem from weakness not strength...compassion, compassion | |
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Posted: 1/29/2007 3:49:12 AM | | op- it really isnt any of your business. they are 2 consenting adults and are only having fun while not hurting anyone. in fact, she is probably helping their marriage. let it go | |
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Posted: 1/29/2007 4:51:33 AM | | I am very suprised that best friends would not talk about that. My friends share there opinions and we comment on each others behavior all the time. Is'nt that what friends do? | |
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Posted: 1/29/2007 3:53:38 PM | when both people know about the infidelity, both are guilty, as they're both involved.
If the married person is cheating now, why wouldn't he or she cheat again on the person they're currently cheating with?
It boils down to character and integrity for me. | |
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Posted: 2/12/2007 7:15:28 PM | | OP- this obviously bothers you too much to remain a compassionate friend. this seems to be who she is and if you can't love her anyways then you should slowly dissociate from her. | |
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Posted: 2/12/2007 7:26:14 PM | | i have a n issue with this i really do,the married men are scumbags and losers for doing this behind their wives backs i know this because someone i know did it with this loser she worked with in her dept.and she knew he had a wife or common law at that time,so i knew where her morals laid and certainly would love to personally kick a losers like this right in the balls!!makes all of us men who are honest a bad rap!! | |
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Posted: 2/16/2007 2:21:32 PM | Talking with a female aquaintance today who told me her sister is sleeping with her married boss in his office!!!!!!! in mid daylight, all employees working outside, they shut and lock his door. No condoms {he's fixed} and he has kids at home. OMG my mouth dropped. Scary world. This is a large corporate company and he runs the show!!!!!!!!
She asked if she should send a letter to the corporate office, and, or the wife. I was lost for words and couldn't form an opinion on this....She said even though she loves her sister, she wants her caught and wants this man out on his a$$...
What would u have said?
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Posted: 2/16/2007 3:00:23 PM | WTF...Why should she accept her friend's choices?? Ever heard the saying "you are what you hang-out with".
So if any of your friends are alcoholics, that makes you one? Drug addict? Lazy? Un-employed? Tax cheat? Casual drug user? That means you are the same?
You know all the secrets of all your friends' lives?
I don't think she's a good enough person. She's gets men to decieve their wives... How does one come to this conclusion? These men are pure and innocent, then all of sudden she comes along and they just lose their moral compasses? Get the f**k out of here. | |
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| Sex with married men
Posted: 2/16/2007 7:14:44 PM | Both are at fault here.
A user stated because shes single and not cheating on anyone its ok but the married guy is swine.
Your friend has no business with a married man and the same either way around. NO EXCUSES!! If he doesn't want to be married he would of gotten out of the relationship with his wife.
Listen, your her friend tell her how you feel. I'm very blunt with my friends and I tell them the truth and they do listen if they like it or not. If she tells you to but out then ok. For the fun of it go ahead and ask , "What if it was your husband" ? I'm sure she'll say , " Oh that won't happen" or "Whatever". Just remind her that what comes around goes around. Good luck! | |
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Sefra
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Joined: 9/8/2006
Msg: 199 | |
| Sex with married men
Posted: 2/16/2007 8:11:02 PM | I have come close to sleeping with at least 3 different married men...(no not at the same time)...throughout my life...
And each time this TEMPTATION has reared it's repulsive head... the battle to resist is extremely difficult...
The weak fall prey... the strong walk away.. | |
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| Sex with married men
Posted: 2/16/2007 10:35:06 PM | | It was my husband and it hurt A LOT! It didn't even make sense. I would NEVER do to someone what has been done to me! There are a lot of fish in the sea...find a single one! | |
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