| Girls and partying/clubbing
Posted: 8/29/2006 5:04:35 PM | Juliet might be right on this...
You look like a party/clubber yourself...
So why this thread? Why all the bru-hah?
Maybe you pass out with your shoes off... too!  | |
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| Girls and partying/clubbing
Posted: 8/29/2006 5:26:25 PM | Last one I dated was 32 and she did it alll the time. Im thinking they just like the attention. In the end women and men of all ages still do it and will allways do it. What kills me about the one I dated was that she kept telling me how she wanted a serious committed relationship.
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| Girls and partying/clubbing
Posted: 8/29/2006 5:26:52 PM | Last one I dated was 32 and she did it alll the time. Im thinking they just like the attention. In the end women and men of all ages still do it and will allways do it. What kills me about the one I dated was that she kept telling me how she wanted a serious committed relationship.
OP, in your age range going to clubs is still the norm. How is 24 too young? You're in the states. Drinking age is 21. Most young people do the club thing for a few years before getting tired of it. I don't knock you for your preference but under 30's wanting to go to clubs is not immature. | |
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Posted: 9/1/2006 10:48:04 AM | | First of all, it's not ALL women. Second, if you say dancing is fun, where else do you expect the girls who like dancing to go? On the street? And if u don't like girls who like clubbing, don't contact them, there are tons of girls who like to sit in the lab or make out with their books | |
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Posted: 9/1/2006 12:54:12 PM | Ummm...OP, I grew up in Lufkin, went to College in Nac and I've been to Plano; can't say that I saw that as the party mecca you make it out to be....I'm just saying...most of the chicks I knew from back home were boot scootin boogiers that dated the same guy from like 8th grade till they got married (to that guy), and wouldn't think of acting like the knobs that you portray them to be...I know a buncha country girls that would take offense to you, fella....
I'm just saying...
Plano AIN'T the big city, fella, it could be a LOT worse....
Where's that Captain Crunch lookin dude? I wanna go with him to straighten all this out....
Fry | |
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| Girls and partying/clubbing
Posted: 9/1/2006 2:02:29 PM | Why do all women (most of them good looking) always have to go to clubs get all hammed, dance, get groped, pass out with her shoes off...then have a guy drag her home. Well I'll see if I can keep track of it all here........hmm, sorry if I leave anything out.
Friday, Saturday, Sunday, Monday, Wednesday and Thursday- got hammed, danced, groped, passed out with my shoes off and dragged hmm.......forgot his name home with me. (Different one each night... cool thing is I don't remember it so I can't technically be called a slut either)! Got a sitter for those nights too...
haha...... anyways... not all women do that. I have not been in that scene for a long time, nor do I care to return either. I know some who do, but there are those of us who have responsibilities and we hold ourselves true to them. There is nothing wrong with going and having a fun time but please don't put me into that category because of what you assume you see.
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| Girls and partying/clubbing
Posted: 9/1/2006 6:26:41 PM | | Gee, now I'm thinking...If I can find a guy to do those things (drink too much, etc.), what would I need to get him home? A big giant Neanderthal club? I don't know. Maybe all the guys who specialize in dragging said girls home could give me some tips. | |
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Posted: 9/1/2006 7:20:23 PM | | That's why I don't go to clubs. They are filled with the kind of girl that i would never want in a relationship. I'm not saying ALL women in clubs are club trash, but I'd say the majority of them spend a lot of time there. Women like to say it's "fun to dance, fun to hang out with their friends", but for many, it's just one big ego trip that i refuse to join. Personally, and maybe i will get ripped for this, but that is a big problem with the entire dating scene. People go to bars and clubs and get a distorted self-image of how they look to the opposite sex. Thankfully, I'm very humble and realistic in my own appearance and don't have a false idea of myself. I'm sure all of you have come into contact with someone who thinks they are "Hot" who in fact is so "NOT". You can thank the bar scene, alcohol, and people's libidos for that. | |
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| Girls and partying/clubbing
Posted: 9/1/2006 8:57:06 PM |
Why do all women (most of them good looking) always have to go to clubs get all hammed, dance, get groped, pass out with her shoes off...then have a guy drag her home.
Now that I think about it. Most people will go to a club, at least occasionally. The reasons are many. Seldom is the reason because a gal wishes to get groped, pass out, and have a guy drag her home. | |
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Posted: 9/7/2006 12:27:39 PM | used to be engaged to "that" girl. not the friend in the picture making a weird face but the one i cut out of the other picture...
tsk tsk nosey ppl. none of those were at clubs either. actually a friends home. sorry!!!!!!!!! | |
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EB1
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Joined: 7/31/2006
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| Girls and partying/clubbing
Posted: 9/7/2006 12:32:20 PM | Oh for God's sake you all goody two shoes. So if a girl goes to a club, takes a drink and dances around her handbag(not advisable to do ladies since the floor can be really dirty) suddenly it means that she let's everyone to grope her. Pleaseeeeeeeee.
I have rarely seen that happening. | |
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Joined: 6/30/2006
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| Girls and partying/clubbing
Posted: 9/7/2006 12:41:14 PM | Dude.....one thing remains, i probably guess you are NOT....but why in the world would you have a pic of yourself with a ring on the left finger?.....instant turnoff to women (most anyway, some its a turnON...something i dont get).......
Your a whiner and a complainer.....get over it....you dont like chicks at night clubs..then DONT GO...simple solution...... | |
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Posted: 9/7/2006 1:47:58 PM | I will echo what the 2 above posters said and add soemthing to it from your profile
Even if the girl winds up hating me
By now they probably all do...
You my boy..have a lot of growing up to do | |
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Posted: 9/10/2006 7:42:27 PM | I understand what you mean keichler.
Some girls are still very immature, they think getting
drunk and whatever is a good time. I am sure there
are other things to do for fun.
I went to clubs before, but I only liked the dancing. I thought
that was fun, other than that it turned me off, meat market!
I agree a nicer setting, to go out for dancing is better, a nice restaurant,
or a hotel. | |
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| Girls and partying/clubbing
Posted: 9/10/2006 7:49:48 PM |
just a little teeny bopper
well. i havent been a teen for ... almost 5 months now. so i guess i qualify??
i love clubs. and its not cause i like to get groped and pass out.
i normally go with a bunch of friends and we all drink and dance together, we arent there to pick up or to make a scene. its a social thing. clubs have ENERGY and ATMOSPHERE that you dont find in a bar. if i get groped or somebody tries to dance with me, my friends and i have a "save rule" and its never a problem. we all go home together so that nobody is in any uncomfortable position if they do end up meeting somebody.
i am a student and i have a good job... 5 out of the 7 days of the week i am focussed- the weekends made for partying. at least for now.
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Posted: 9/10/2006 8:19:06 PM | Everytime I read 'get groped and pass out' I chuckle.. I don't know why. I guess I just have a vivid visual imagination. I was 24 once, and I can assure you I enjoyed going to clubs. At that time and phase of my life. I had other friends who also liked it, and if some didn't, they didn't come. none of us passed out (until we got home, safely) and i'm sure there was a grope or two, to which I would turn around and smack a guy because I HATE THAT. I enjoyed a little attention, a little dancing, drinking, etc... I was in my 20's!
No, staring down at 39 in a few short days, NO WAY do I want to be in a club, or groped and pass out for that matter. I want a relationship, and I do not believe I will find it there. Those places are a cesspool of negative energy, bad vibes, cattiness, posers, oh god, its so ICKY!!! Took me a while to figure out that I hate clubs, I would go on that ocassional night with some girl friends, you know, the whole "IT'LL BE FUUUUUN:" heehee... so off we go. Miserable in no more than an hour. the people, the music (gosh it seems much louder now , eh?) the little perky no brain chicks looking at you like, what are you doing here... and I'm thinking back, I have no earthly idea... ask her, the told me we'd have FUN!! hee hee
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Posted: 12/3/2006 8:31:23 AM | It's not really my scene at all. Though ive gone a few times. I think what really bothers me about it is that it seems to all just be about exhibitionism for the girls. Im not trying to put the whole thing down or say the club girls are bad but it's a little irksome when you give it a bit of thought. Here you have this situation where you have every guy in the club lusting after you and all that. You can't help but wonder if that gets to a womans head.
Thats the impression I get.
I saw some stuff that really disgusted me like one time a girl danced with a freind of my brother and this guy she rejected earlier she was teasing him to come to her while she was dancing with my brothers freind. The guy got pissed and gave her the finger. Anyways all I could think of is hell this is just a playground for good looking women to tease guys into wanting them. Don't mean to be offensive but you can't help but feel it's a little one sided. I mean most of those women will reject the majority of guys there because they can get any guy they want. Theres less equal competition then lets say I went ballroom dancing and theres more chances for men to find a woman to dance with.
Okay ill admit I got rejected bigtime I just don't really know the right moves to get those women to dance with me and I probably seem like a noob.
Though thats another thing that unsettled me, im sure those girls could tell if a guys a noob at the whole thing but they don't really give noobs a chance. It's all rather cutthroat in my opinion. This is why I see it as too one sided. The girls can get whatever they want and wont settle for some guy whos new to it. It really feels ostracizing and I can say it's not really a scene where men consider looking for their future girlfreinds either.
Almost all the guys I know wont date girls who go clubbing excessively and just go for fun.
It seems that it's almost like going to see a stripper you don't have to pay for. Seriously.
I wonder if the girls that go clubbing realize that it's like that at all. | |
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Posted: 12/3/2006 11:08:32 AM | | Instead of starting a thread generalizing all women. Why not get your local paper or look online and find out whats playing at your local opera or ballet? Oh thats right, because women don't go to these places, they only go to clubs and get hammered to get dragged home. I love these threads that suggest every woman in the world is on POF. I must have missed that memo, I'll check my inbox now. | |
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Posted: 12/3/2006 11:23:50 AM | I am with the majority of people on this issue. I love to get all sexied up, go out to a club or bar and just have fun with my girls. Usually, this 'having fun' consists of shaking our asses on the dance floor and laughing and forgetting about all the crazy stuff that we have to deal with on the 9-5. This also NEVER consists of alcohol or drugs, nor do we rely on anyone to get us home. When we go out, we're careful, responsible, and we tend to keep our shoes on ;)
Some ladies need to get a little alcohol in them to have a good time, and some need a lot. I think it is safe to say that the same goes for some men. I don't do it, but I'm not going to hate on it. Some people can be immature about it, and can take it to extremes when they know they cannot handle it, but, unfortunately, there will always be those two or three people who ruin it for everyone! | |
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| Girls and partying/clubbing
Posted: 12/3/2006 1:15:59 PM | keichler
I am glad to see that you are not letting these nay sayers  get to you
I know exactly the type of woman you are talking about
I had a woman that was a gal pal for a long time
your typical pretty blond girl.................
SHE explained her ,and her friends typical bar night.............
"guys would hit on us all night and buy us drinks,we would be pretty hammered by 11pm..........usually there would be a cute one ,and we would be slow dance and necking by midnight..................this would happen every fri or sat. ...............I would not take them home and ffuuck ..........but, my friend __lisa_______ oh...let me tell you she is a sluut........she took 3 guys home over the course of a month and had sex with them............"
True story
Not all women are like that BUT
I have heard LOTS of stories from my ex-girlfriends..........telling me about
'their friend ________ or so and so"
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Posted: 12/3/2006 1:54:57 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^
note to the 'partygirls' of POF red draggon is more likely to condone your behaviour than
I would be.
If you are trying to even your 'guy quota' to an even 4 in a month...........
Reddragon is you man
Me personally .............I think it is gross...............
like putting on the swim trunks you find buried in the sand at the beach | |
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Posted: 12/3/2006 2:23:13 PM | dude no personnal jabs bro intended
I am glad you have an open mind about women......I do too
I don't have a magic talent to judge people by pictures
but
when a girl tells me about the sexual exploits of her girlfriend,I don't have to judge.
I today's age of STD's having a laid back attitude about party girls can get you
a little more than laid..............
I would rather be known for being choosey about my partners
than being know as the guy that sleeps with all the 'town bikes'
I choose to be a little more judgemental,if that saves me from contracting a STD
I think that is pretty awesome
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Posted: 12/3/2006 3:52:40 PM | I am far from clubbing too
though I still find younger women in their early 20's attractive
one of the great temptations of the world for sure
but I have chatted with a few on MSN and they get to tellling you about their younger days of
"going to Raves and doing 'E' and make bad choices with men"
I have learnt to be a bit judgemental because of the stories I have heard | |
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mac79
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Joined: 11/11/2006
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| Girls and partying/clubbing
Posted: 12/3/2006 4:14:39 PM | i agree with you but it seems like the guys don't mind at all! 40 year old virgin even addresses this issue :) if it is an issue lol
personally, when i do go to the clubs (which is rare now that im older and out of university) i'll go with a bunch of girlfriends and none of us will go off and leave each other to dance with men / get groped. we are there to have fun. we will drink but not like idiots etc.
not all women are like this..
but i DO agree with you.
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