| sex on the first date
Posted: 9/12/2006 10:40:41 AM | Hey syeel toe! Do you have the crazy, psyco, wanna pay for everthink rich girls # ? LMAO | |
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| sex on the first date
Posted: 10/5/2006 11:46:39 AM | Of course I've had sex on the first date byt the time you're 25 I'd expect you've had first date sex at least three times. Do I recommend it for a lasting relationship; no. Can the relationship get beyond sex. yes. But come on, how many times have you been out at a party, not even a date and ended up in a womans arms?? I don't regret those encounters, even though nothing, usually, came from them. How could any man regret a loving encounter; even if only for one night?
Uh, ooops, sorry bout that. Forgot I was supposed to answer that with the true arrogance of a toad. Like this" Hell yeah I've boned on the first date; all the time" "I won't even date a woman unless she puts out on the first date". There I feel better now.
All kidding aside. Sex on the first date is dependant on were you are in your life, to some extent yoru age and of all things THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH. I mean if the attraction's there run with it and see where it leads. Lifes a gamble so shoot the dice already. | |
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Posted: 10/30/2006 11:09:52 PM | honestly , i never really dated anyone or had sex till i got married... and honestly , if i get divorced.. any woman i meet better get in bed with me first date , or im gone... either you find me attractive or you dont ..
ill just think you dont find me attractive and thats why nothing happened..
now when i was younger , no one liked me... now i could care less of course. im hitched , but guess what.. i dont believe in waiting months or years to prove anything , if you dont think im good looking get lost...
thats why i would never want to date anyone because if they turn me on , then it freezer burn time ... id have to spend at least an hour in the cold shower ... Oh that rhymes cool...
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Posted: 10/30/2006 11:27:01 PM | honestly now that i think about it I hate getting turned on , and dont like sex really weird i know but when women just say no for years, thats what happens to a guy.. . now its like oh well who cares i dont want to get turned on by anyone really .. .
I think im conditioned to be celibate for sure... | |
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Posted: 11/20/2006 12:17:45 PM | Dream on lover...I may not be a "Spring" chicken, but I DO KNOW I am NOT a frustrated woman, can't "let" go, or a "cold" woman that I have to have sex on the first date..I did not even do that when I was young...contrary to every rule, I was a VIRGIN when I went to my husband.. Heck, I STILL believe that SEX on the first date is pretty trashy, and if a guy expects you to "give it up", just because he took you out, well, he is not much of a catch.....if that is what it is all about, well we should all be just animals (not that some of aren't), and screw anything that walks. Not me, thanks! I am neither lonely or desperate, so whatever you have to say about us ladies, as far as "teasing and telling lies", applies to U guys too...like U don't play that game too!! Not ALL of us women come on these site to tease, or tell lies" believe it or not! I have met some men who are, as the saying goes, a "Legend in their own minds", and just wanted a "roll in the hay"..PLEASE, give me a ROYAL BREAK!
Having said that, have a nice trip to Santa's workshop, and say hi to the tooth fairy for me!
I STILL believe that ANYONE can have SEX, but to MAKE LOVE with someone you care about, well, THAT is what I am talking about! | |
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Posted: 12/6/2006 10:46:04 AM | absolutely and 1 twist turned into my 5 year and 2 kids intense chunk of my life ended fairly recent and longest relationship i ever had. by far , sad truth...lol. and a couple turned stalker or psycho , as well as the easily parted memories.... wow , i am aware of how wonderfully celibate i sound with that being saidf . o well i admit i had some dangerously selfish and wild years for the 2 to 3 i was single then 21 in the mid of it and ended it when i met my kids' father.... but lookin back and knowin i am lucky to remain alive and well and never diseased or hurt too badly , i love my memories, baby.... lol. sorry i went so "about me " with it . lol.
take care
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| sex on the first date
Posted: 12/6/2006 10:58:10 AM | | hell yes, the birds do it and fly,the bees do it and die,the dogs do it ,so why dont you and i | |
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Posted: 12/6/2006 11:56:30 AM | Yep, dancecard, sounds like you to take advantage of a "Drunk" woman...haaa! Shame on ya"! But, I guess booze (being a poor excuse), is better than no excuse at tal'!!
I, however, feel that sex on the first date, cheapens not only the image of the lady (or will it??( Of course, this depends on the people involved.... But, I do have a question..what does a man think when a chick gives it up on the first nite?? Bet I get a lot of responses on this one!!
I don't get it though...if a MAN has sex all the time, he is a STUD, if a woman does it, she is called a W_____. Go figure!    | |
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Posted: 12/6/2006 12:09:08 PM | I, however, feel that sex on the first date, cheapens not only the image of the lady (or will it??( Of course, this depends on the people involved.... But, I do have a question..what does a man think when a chick gives it up on the first nite?? Bet I get a lot of responses on this one!!
I don't get it though...if a MAN has sex all the time, he is a STUD, if a woman does it, she is called a W_____. Go figure!
I think if a lady or chick in your words gives it up it's her business and not mine unless I'm the recipient which is not likely because I wouldn't have sex with any lady 1st date ,2nd date or 3rd date,cuz hail,ya can have 3 dates in 3 nights and still not know who or what that lil chickadee has been with or done...I personaly believe that anyone that will sex each other the 1st date is taking a hail of a chance,( unless,they've known each other long enough to know each other's lifestyle....
If a man and woman is having sex together all the time those names shouldn't enter in...If the man is having sex with different women all the time,he ain't no dayum stud,he's a dayum fool. Same goes for any women.....
Why can't men and woman alike just be happy and content having one companion?
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Posted: 12/6/2006 12:14:06 PM | I don't get it though...if a MAN has sex all the time, he is a STUD, if a woman does it, she is called a W_____. Go figure!
Yeah i know, that is one of the biggest double standards in the world. I guess some may see the woman in a different light b/c she actually submits her body and let different guys inside of her.
If the man is hving sex with different women all the time,he ain't no dayum stud,he's a dayum fool.
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Posted: 12/6/2006 12:17:37 PM | | i've had sex on the first date before...several times. the thing is, i'm getting older and i learned from my last relationship how special sex can really be and that's what i miss. so pretty much the next time i have sex, it'll be after many dates. | |
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Posted: 12/12/2006 3:59:51 PM | I would have to echo what beatles dude said.
When you're in love with a person, it makes sex so much more satisfying. Yes, even some guys find that sex mixed with love makes sex much better. And great sex helps makes you closer as a couple, especially after the first phase of the courtship.
So, I wouldn't recommend sex on the first date, heck you're still trying to figure out if you like this person...how can you just jump in the sack after a meal and some talking? Unless of course it was a gourmet meal!!!  | |
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Posted: 12/20/2006 9:54:53 PM | Well, I don't believe hooking up with a drunk "chick" when the houselights go on, would even be considered a first date. That would depend on what your game is I suppose, and how you play at life and love.
Regardless of what you consider a first date... I doubt there are few who have not, at some point, found themselves engaged in intimate behavior with someone who is, for all intents, a complete stranger. It happens,, it's usually hardly worth doing tho, usually it's not even very good.
Just a pretty meaningless encounter,,,, who needs more of those in their life? I believe I'll just pass on any more of those.
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Posted: 12/21/2006 4:58:41 PM | Haven't read any other responses so if I repeat what others have said then sorry. Anyway, I think if one stes out to have sex on the first date it could be lack of morals, been a long time, no consideration of the other.
However, if there are two consenting adults then I see no problem with it. I have had it happen. I never plan it and I dont condone or condemn it. My first time was a woman I married. The key is to be up front and know that it's ok to say no. Sometimes we get lost in the heat of the moment. I have told women and still will that even if I am inches away from penetration and she changes her mind....it's ok to tell me. Sure there's sexual frustraion but I'd rather maintain her respect than anything else. I miss making love much more than just sex. I could go on and on but I wont. :( | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 7:03:59 AM |
Are there any women out there who don`t jump into the sack with a guy the first date???
It seems to me that`s all that matters.Nothing wrong with that , but don`t tell the guy you want a relationship sooooooooooo bad!!! I could laugh my ass off when they come up with that.
Just be honest ladies. If it itches just tell the guy and don`t come up with BS stories about yourself.And most important , don`t use the love word.
We know it`s not serious but you mess it up for the girls who really mean it. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 9:03:34 AM | | I'm confused, german...are you suggesting that a woman can't want a relationship AND have an itch that needs scratching? I don't understand why the two must be mutually exclusive. I expect any man I choose to be in a relationship with to appreciate my sex drive. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 11:08:00 AM | | I can't think of any better time---Your already there---you both are grown ups---and you both want it--I say dig right in, and enjoy.---There may not be a tomorrow. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 11:30:52 AM | | I most certainly have had sex on the first date with a girlfriend that I dated after college. Don't get the wrong idea though, I didn't set out to hook up on the first date....it just happened that way. To be honest it probably made things go so much easier. Most dating relationships are so fragile at first b/c you're always wondering what the other is thinking (does she like me?, do i like her?, am I talking too much?, now she's talking too much, wait now did I not talk enough?, ya ya ya). Who needs that? You're always playing the game that you're not going to look desperate or never want to tell your feelings first. I get it, it's a pain in the arsss. So, my having sex on the first date with this particular girl actually helped get rid of all that BS that you usually have to sift through. I mean we were naked together, you either like them or you don't and after that you pretty much know you want to stay with it or get out. This particular girlfriend of mine was the best girlfriend I ever had and I let her get away, but we remain great friends to this day. So.....in closing I don't think sex on the first date is bad, it just depends on your intentions and how you handle yourself before and afterwards. Main thing is.....just be absolutely and totally honest, don't play the cheeseball tough guy that waits 3 days to call a chic and what not. That's for amatuers. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 2:06:26 PM | [I don't think sex on the first date is bad, it just depends on your intentions and how you handle yourself before and afterwards.] <<---I agree with LARRY05
I do have to admit, I have had sex on the first date a few times.
3 of those times I ended up engaged to the women.
1 of those 3, I was married to her for 8 years and had my son with her.
The 2nd of those 3, I am still friends with today even even tho we first had sex on the first date over 20 years ago.
The 3rd of those 3 ended very badly after 1 1/2 yrs.
I do not TRY to have sex on the 1st date...it just sometimes happens when there is really good chemistry!
Just to set the story straight... I have been on more 1st dates that did NOT end up in sex than have ended up with sex.
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Posted: 12/29/2006 3:17:42 PM | | not my sorta thing .. still getting to know each other at that point | |
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| sex on the first date
Posted: 12/30/2006 9:25:28 AM | | On a first date, I haven't had time to figure out if I even LIKE the person, let alone know enough about them, their past, their habits to risk exposure to STDs or worse. So, no, and don't plan to change this since I don't see my reasons ceasing to be relevant. I really only want to have sex with someone that I like, like a lot. And I do not want to deal with STDs or life threatening disease, which sadly, is a very real risk. | |
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Posted: 12/30/2006 9:49:09 AM | | Im one!!! Most men I have met want sex on the 1st date.I was very surprised.I would like to get to know someone first.Im a nurse,and I couldtell you horror stories,but I wont.I may be old fashioned but thats who I am. Deb | |
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Posted: 12/30/2006 10:43:53 AM | | debb go ahead and share a couple of stories. Some people don't realize the dangers of it even with protection. | |
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Posted: 12/30/2006 10:56:29 AM | | I really like what you have had to say on this subject.......... you sound like a guy who is in touch with his-self and the truth about relationships (for the most part...LOL) Sleeping together on the first date don't make anything go wrong in the relationship...... Hell how many relationships has everyone had that went bust where they didn't have sex on the first date? Think about it......... a relationship is only what you put into it ................ sex is just part of what you give it, other things can really mess up your relationship long before sex... weither it was on the first date or not. | |
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