| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 8/29/2008 4:25:14 PM |
this thread really is a downer...
Msg 180 seems to get the real meaning of what love is all about....
Love should bring out the very best in a person...
Amen whoissue as 90% talk the talk but only 10% walk the walk!
If only going thru the motions then yes or in the wtf state I am in I would say yes. run Forrest!
Love will only happen if one is living in the present tense and not in the aka traditional state of mind between A and B.
I lucky enough to talk and chat with the folks who are in the present tense and how sweet
it is too be in there circle of friendship and honesty.
You all may think the grass is always greener on the other side but they are no dif then you and me.
Or maybe this reminds me of the barking dog chasing the car, once the car stops what does the dog the due then? Hummm.... Have fun...  | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 8/29/2008 4:26:25 PM | 8 years and counting... it doesn't get easier or different.
It is what it was.
Learn to live life fully around it and allow it to be what it was, don't allow it to live in reality in today.
If you can catch what I mean by that. | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 8/29/2008 6:03:09 PM | | Loving anyone that cannot "love" you in the fullest life manner you desire and feel worthy of......is fruitless....and only hurts the one doing the 'longing'....most likely feeding someone else's ill ego....let go...let go........stop giving anything to the truly unworthy and worthless. | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 9/1/2008 7:53:30 AM | | Been there, done that, got a t shirt. You just have to move on, there is a woman out there somewhere that will appreciate all you have to offer. In time she will fade away, very, very slowly. I can look back 30 plus years and still feel something for a woman I was engaged to who broke it off from me. Thing is, never ever give up looking. Find the right woman and you will still have feelings for the previous one, however, you will be so happy with the right woman, it will not matter anymore. | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 10/1/2009 5:10:37 PM | Yep and it sucks...BAD.
I know I need to get over myself. But it still leaves me with a pain in my chest. I never believed the term heart broken but that's truly how I feel. | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 10/1/2009 8:46:40 PM | Yes. I still love two women. The last one who recently left and one that left me in 1995. Once I love someone it's going to be the case for at least 25 years.
Mike | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 10/1/2009 9:37:20 PM | | Yes, I met him through his cousin and when he found out I had been widowed he started sending me e-mails. We got along very well. After 2 years of e-mailing he asked me out to dinner. I am 7 years older than him, but he said that didn't bother him. We went out for dinner, it was very nice. After dinner he said he had to drive back home....he lived 50 miles away and worked nights. He dropped me home, I gave him a hug and thanked him for dinner he grabbed me and gave me a kiss and I haven't heard from him in 2 years. Changed his number, blocked my e-mail address and here I stand wondering what went wrong. I still love him very much, but I have to let go of all the memories and good times we had talking for hours on the phone. | |
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