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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 11/7/2007 3:05:08 PM | | Met someone a few weeks ago, we spent much time together. Learned of each other souls and thoughts to find them one in the same. She is married! Trying to do the right thing in what others would say the right thing would be. I told her how to work out her marriage but in short we both fell in love. Now trying to break away from each other to give the marriage that one last chance is comeing difficult for both of us. We are both left with trying to make sense of something that is so real. How do you walk away from a soulmate. One who knows you and reads you when there is no one in the world that can. Not just one sided we both do it in a circle of magic. I dont know where it will end up being at in time, but I do know that we both miss and love one another deeply. So loving someone you cant have is something I live and breathe every day in time as it passes. | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 11/8/2007 6:47:33 PM | Here is something that was in Ebony magazine. COPYRIGHT 1997 Johnson Publishing Co. COPYRIGHT 2004 Gale Group
How to tell if a man loves you...
* Tells you he wants to stop dating other people. Stops dating other people.
* Calls you every day. Calls you several times a day.
* Gets allergy shots rather than let you get rid of your beloved Fluffy.
* Treats your mother like his own. Makes you the beneficiary of his IRA.
* Makes you breakfast the morning after. Watches Murphy Brown with you and records Monday Night Football.
* Watches your back. Goes to the drug-store at 2 a.m. to get your prescription filled.
* Uses the words "we," "us" and "our" whenever he talks about the future.
* Is genuinely glad for your successes, even if you're hitting homers at the office while he's temporarily batting zip.
* Gives you your space when you really need it. Gives you your way when you really want it.
* Keeps a photo of you on his desk. Keeps his promises.
* Comes into the bedroom, or shower to nuzzle your neck, then leaves without a word.
* Comes over in the middle of the night when you call and say you hear funny noises in the basement. Stocks his refrigerator with all your favorite foods.
* Gives you top priority over work and all other relationships--friends, frat brothers, even family.
* Cuts your grass/changes the oil in your car/assembles your Stairmaster before you even have a chance to ask.
* Doesn't turn around--just keeps looking at you--when you tell him there's a woman at the next table who looks just like Halle Berry.
* Always burns around to watch you walk away. And doesn't stop looking until you disappear from view. Says your name with such tenderness it sounds like poetry.
* Lets you drive his new car, and when you tell him you accidentally backed it into a telephone pole, the only thing he says is, "Baby, are you hurt?"
* Brags about you to his friends. * Always holds open your door, pulls out your chair, helps you on with your coat.
* Never takes you for granted. Gives you the keys to his place. Gives you the keys to his heart.
And last but not least, it's a good bet a man loves you when the only "no" he tells you is "no limits."
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 11/9/2007 4:20:44 AM | Yes I met a wonderful guy recently . We had a little romantic thing going then he cooled things for the sake of his kids
Anyway we remain friends . And I get that spark everytime I see him.
We also share other benefits which we shouldnt really just being friends.
There is a sexual chemistry there though. Im happy being close and intimate with him still to this day and he does everyday favours for me like doing my garden and jobs in the garden as he's a gardener by trade.
Im very fond of him. However im not silly and I am going out meeting other people and going on dates so that my mind is not only on him.
And that seems to be working for me anyway. | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 11/9/2007 4:32:21 AM | sometimes loving somone we cant have is a way of not finding someone we can love because we are afraid to love and have a committment. it keeps us safe from this. just like when a woman or man has an affair with a married woman or man because there is no committment in those kinds of relationships. again keeping us safe.
you are stuck so try and get unstuck and listen to what others are suggesting to do this... | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 11/9/2007 5:35:43 AM | I fell in love with someone 14 years ago and we are still in love with each other, our problem was that he was from another state and his kids live there and mine live here with me. We are close to our kids and that is where we both want to be. So he got married to someone from where he lives and I am still single, because I cant find someone who measures up to him. We still talk and wish it was different but this is how it is. It hurts everytime I talk to him and we stay friends. His wife doesnt know....maybe someday. | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 11/9/2007 12:10:10 PM | man or woman we ALL want what we can't have. It is part of the conquering genes we all have. The question you should be asking yourself is would you really want someone who cheated on his wife? If he did it to HER, HE WILL DO IT TO YOU!!!!!!! Find a nice man and be happy, yeah, I know, easier said than done, but would you really want him if he were FREE? Yeah, talking from experience, I too want someone I can't have, nope not married, just baggage.
Good luck. | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 11/10/2007 2:08:27 AM | | Yeah she was a co-worker, at first she initiated it, dropped subtle hints that I totally missed because she was not my type and we were co-workers and also I'm a guy! Then I found out she was seeing someone and I tried to end it, she told me it wasn't serious theres no engagement ring or wedding ring on her finger, so we continued seeing each other. Then he bought her a promise ring and that broke my heart, we tried to stop seeing each other but it was an ongoing off and on thing, that's the definition of a "Complicated relationship" me being the complicated part. I quit my job so that I wouldn't have to have a reminer of her everyday but she calls and I jump. It would have been way easier to have ended things at the beginning when I wanted to. I don't regret any of it, taught me not date co-workers and next time someone is seeing someone get out quick and don't look back. | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 11/10/2007 2:15:07 AM | No I'm just getting back into the dating scene,so I imagine that will not happen for a while.Hopefully I can avoid it from happening at all.I've got no expectations really so,
I'll just see where my chips fall. | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 11/10/2007 3:07:35 AM | screw him i say! and his family, culture and all the other crap those types carry around, if people like that really understood what love is , that "arranged" stuff just wouldn't exist. period!! he sounds like a real horses' ass, forget about him if thats the way he's gonna think, sure, it's gonna hurt but believe me you're better off without him, you're better than that! good luck! | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 11/10/2007 3:07:44 AM | There's a List . . !!
But I'm all Heart-broken that I've actually been *BLOCKED* by a person . .
after only One Letter . . !!
A Very sincere, romantic letter, too . . !!
...[Odd , that she was in the same neighborhood as another person . .
who had connections with some nefarious characters in other areas . . ]...
Oh, Well . . Back to my letter to Jodie Foster . . !!! . .  | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 11/10/2007 12:44:53 PM | | Anytime Cinnaberry, I am doing exactly what i should, moving on. I have a date this weekend with a super guy, been out a few times already and we get along famously, I think the one I can't seem to walk away from will finally be put on the backshelf and on the way to oblivion from my mind forever.... Weeeeeeeeeeeeeee life is good :) Best of luck to you sister, sometimes things just have to run a course I think, have to learn lessons by experience I suppose. I am hoping that my situation has finally come to a conclusion.. In any event girl you need to get out there meet some nice guys and forget about him, think of it as his loss, I know sure do, besides someone is out there who will love you as much as you love them, don't settle for less your only cheating yourself ;) Take care Cinn and all the best sister! | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 11/10/2007 1:11:57 PM | | Yes, My wife Penny,, who is now an Angel in Heaven.. As I gaze among the stars in the light of the moon, I still see her sparkeling eyes as she smiles down on my son and me, I still hear her words,, Norm please fall in love again.. for I want you to be happy.. | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 11/10/2007 1:23:58 PM | | yes im in love with guy i cant have butt actually i can do so much better and i am, i can have him butt i chose not to cuz he's on welfare and doesnt work so im dating this guy that has a car and who has a job. just get over yourswelf why dwell over one person when there is a whole world out there? | |
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| are you in love with someone you can't have?
Posted: 11/10/2007 1:34:41 PM | | I'm not in love with anyone I can't have but I have a question to all. If your in love with these people do they know? I know some people are in lust with people they can never have but the ones that are closer do they know you love them? Have you ever told them? | |
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