| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/7/2007 7:20:41 AM | I suppose that some have learned from previous experience - the worst they can say is no.
Now let's look at the bigger picture............. the character of the people chosen to meet. I personally have turned down several women who wanted the bedroom first inspite of the filtering that I attempt. I have kids that live with and instant immersion is not an option.
I am a firm believer that people are people. It's not just men or women. It's insecurities, indecentcies, blah, blah, blah. We are victims of our environment - look closely at the environment!
Or perhaps I'm just full of pooh and need to keep my opinions to myself! LOL. | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/7/2007 7:25:59 AM |  splash no your right its not just men i have heard things about woman on this site to I wish men would well some of them saying how they want sex no strings attached its getting old i'm not on here for sex sorry guys you know who you are lol | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/7/2007 8:07:45 AM | I'm hearing ya. I met up with one self centered pothead last night as I finally broke down to visit someone and watch the Dalas game...He was clearly not interested in ANY game watching...smoking pot and having oral sex was his interest. I had to leave...I liked him but he ruined it by diving on me. It may have happened eventually but wow...what a mess that would have been...I had no idea he was an avid pot smoker which isn't a bad thing for me but I got out of that scene years ago and was just interested in companionship...maybe sex one day. I felt like vomiting after he insisted that my boyfriend was banging someone else...no compassion or facts...
OH well | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/7/2007 9:10:07 AM | | Well I want sex, and I also want a relationship, because we need to talk after the fact. Sex to me is a necessity in a relationship for soooooo many reasons. So, why not get it out of the way "first". And if he wants to have sex with you then there is "something there". I would not sleep with someone whom I am not attracted to. What if you do not click sexually but everything else is great? Man sleeping in different rooms? YUK!!!!!!!! | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/7/2007 9:58:29 AM | | I have talked to a guy from here for over a year......I have seen him go through some bad times and he has seen me go through them too. He was going to get married last year and I will be honest.......I thought dam.......but we became friends here first and we flirted with each other but I also knew my boundries....So I have to stick up for SOME men here because I can say not all juat want sex........but most men do.......they tell a woman what they want to hear and then its wam bam thank you maham.........I dont go out and sleep around , thats not me......but some men and women are both in it just for sex......I met this guy finally on new years eve, this year....we had a great time together and I wouldnt change if for the world.....and yes we are still friends.....but men and women both.....think of who you are hurting here.....so you got a piece......so big deal........look to see whos heart gets broken... so honest ladies.......and men.....there are really honest people out there....and say whats on their minds........ | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/7/2007 12:58:55 PM | flowers usually mean roses -- and I HATE roses -- that's anoter cliche -- the man should find out what kind of flowers the woman likes and get those instead - how's that for a neat surprise????
and what's with getting laid because he has a PORSCHE?????? Jesus, Mary and Joseph! yeah, that's making the woman into a slut. what guy wants a slut for a date? | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/7/2007 2:04:21 PM | | Good Question. Some men are up front about it. But I get a lot who say they are looking for a long term relationship and blah, blah, blah. But when I tell them I am no having sex till marriage...that's usually when the conversation ends. I'm never surprised. I've learned to read between the lines on this site. | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/9/2007 4:54:41 PM |
.So I have to stick up for SOME men here because I can say not all juat want sex........but most men do.......they tell a woman what they want to hear and then its wam bam thank you maham.........I dont go out and sleep around , thats not me......but some men and women are both in it just for sex.
Well, when I see a profile with a full-frame picture of cleavage, I figure the women posting them aren't trying to score a photo gig with National Geographic. Not that there's anything wrong with being 'just in for the sex', but why can't the same people just dispense with the comments of the type already seen on this thread of 'if he's not hounding you for sex, he's either sexually dysfunctional or gay'.
That blows chunks, if not just for the hypocrisy, then for the gay baiting. But I can tell you poster, for all the wham-bam-thank-you-m'am guys there are just as many women who would diss an honest guy for NOT being ' after just one thing'. They see sex as their power over men and react badly to any man who is seemingly immune to it. (When I first came here, I had something in my profile hinting at celibacy, and I had to take it out because of all the negative email.)
They like the old sterotypes just as they are, it makes the game of who is manipluating whom so muc more interesting.
-Kerry O. | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/9/2007 7:08:15 PM | | I agree with you 100% If people would be totally honest with each other and stop wasting time and if the ladies would do the same as some do =no games or playing with peoples heads that I like to see | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/9/2007 8:40:54 PM | and have you noticed the ones doing the most man bashing are the ones with ass shots of themselves or boob shots....this just screams "sexual bait"...and you can pretty well bet, if she is doing the boob shot or the ass shot or the legs (and I have seen quite a few "laying comfortably but seductively on their bed full body" shot)...she is TRYING to bait you with sexual attraction first....yup...talk about hypocrisy.
P.S. you might even notice that a large number of women "strive" to include their breasticles in their photos...come on...who's fooling who? lol
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/9/2007 8:44:22 PM | It would be nice if people said what they meant, and meant what they said. It would be a WHOLE lot easier to know if someone is being truthful about their intentions.
Why can't women be honest and say I just want sex too???? | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/9/2007 8:48:07 PM |
breasticles lmao!!!!!!!! too funny, must mean im a good girly cause no breasticles in my profile, just my eyes!!! n kw I DUNT ever say I just want sex... see im a angel I WANT IT ALL!!!! | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/9/2007 8:50:13 PM | breasticles??? wtf thats a new one on me i thought they were calld other thangs of ill repute, why cant a woman communicate what they want rather than turning men into mind readers
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/10/2007 12:53:17 AM | Why Can't women just say no???
FACT: All men that want to date you thought about the possibility of sex with you before he asked you out.
FACT: All Women, if they are honest, thought about the possibility of sex with you before she accepted.
If a man asks way too early ....... it's over
If a man asks too early ......he gets "wait a little"
If he waits until the lady asks....... its too late and it's over
Other wise .........it just happens .....and its just right
Men Have a very small window to work with and the women hold the cards.
Unless the man is crude in his offer, Just tell him the score, If you are worth it to him he will wait.
I can't believe how many women expect each and every man they go out with to be "the One". Dating is not easy.......for ANY of us, it is trial and error, embarrestment, some humiliation, and dusting yourself off and getting back in the game. Ladies it is inevitable that IF you put youself in the dating pool you are going to meet some JACKA$$E$........ Guess what some of the ladies we meet aren't prizewinners either!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Enjoy the experiance........make friends with the nice ones, kick the buttheads in the a$$, and sooner or later sparks will fly.
It's like the Lottery ...............you don't play ........you don't win!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/10/2007 2:02:38 AM | | Sex is more than "hit and run" or bang and snore for that matter, there has to be a connection, and not just physically. It's all about love and intimacy. (not that I'm an expert- been divorced for 6 yrs and have had sex once since) I'm in no hurry because I'm a gentleman and believe that good things come to those that wait. Got to admit I miss it though! guy's may love a Gal who "put's out" on the first date. But I think you really need to know someone first ( a few dates). That's what true love and respect is. Call me old fashioned but I still open doors, push in seats and pick up the tab. I believe they call that being a gentleman :) | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/10/2007 3:39:34 AM | I just want sex and lots of it . are you willing? are you able? does it get your attention? does it turn you on? It is an honest statement but I have not found any woman who answers that kind of mail. SO MS PRISSY DON'T BLAME MEN FOR USING WHAT REALLY WORKS. Losers don't get laid. Liars do. The same can be said for women. If you all are so great, so pretty, so EASY TO GET ALONG WITH. What are you doing on a site like this? The hypocracy tends to piss me off.    | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/10/2007 5:31:41 AM | | wow Buddy I read your profile........you are a smart ass......but can say at least your being honest.....or are you ? and the women on this site......if you read SOME of their profiles, they are looking for friends, and then maybe relationships.....and alot are pretty women....and some of you men, didnt just want sex or say you do.....and not look for all the skinny minnie women out there and look what is inside a woman......then maybe everyone would be happy.......but lets just face it.....men want sex and so do women...maybe not the first date or second or even third.....but it does happen and women and men both know it.....unfortunatly ....no one ever looks inside a person first anymore | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/10/2007 11:51:10 AM | I truly think men aren't upfront with what their real intentions are....not all but most seem to think that if we are here we are just available for sexual encounters....most because they aren't getting what they need at home...when I correspond with a man and explain that this is not a meat market...that just because you are man, I am woman does not mean we need to have sex should we meet....I share with them that sex is beautiful....if there is a bonding of the minds, a chemical attraction then perhaps intiamcy in time will happen.....the mind is the most important sex organ..without the mind what good are the other parts? if they persist about having sex which again I believe is such a beautiful experience with a caring person.....and the response from me to them is lets do the wait see if we are compatable....they feel offended....then I mention to them if that is all they want from a woman there are women out there who they can pay to perform and please them....I truly believe that if a woman who thinks anything of herself and the person she is about to meet, showing respect to the other is important in any relationship.....I hope there are others out there that feel the same, if not, that makes us all unique...good luck on meeting someone special..... | |
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| Why can't men be honest and say I just want sex????
Posted: 1/10/2007 2:52:10 PM | Terminology is very important, so I'll try to be accurate. There is nothing wrong in "wanting" sex. There is in "expecting" sex. Yhen again if the timing is right for boyh parties, that "expected" sex is most definitely "wanted".
If a man "dosen't want" sex, he must be "neutered" or to busey with mary and her 5 sisters. It's a male thing, but in all honesty, "honesty" in intentions wins out in the long run.
Ok enuf said, thid ole un-neutered "dog" is gonna sit back and
You pups out there,,,, GET ER DONE,,, but with class and chiverally. After all your not just wasting their time, but yours too.. | |
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