| What [bleep] is wrong with people?
Posted: 3/18/2005 9:18:50 PM | So very sad!
It makes the parents seem suspicious of foul play....it does to me anyway. Guess I've heard so many horror stories firsthand. *sigh* | |
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| What [bleep] is wrong with people?
Posted: 3/18/2005 10:21:06 PM | | If she is found alive it would be a miracle at this point. I wonder if they did lie detector tests on the parents. Anyhow I wouldn't rule out anything. If some pervert pulled up and realized she was slow... I hate to think of the possibilities. | |
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| What [bleep] is wrong with people?
Posted: 3/19/2005 3:50:19 PM | Unfortunately the search for the girl has ended. Nobody has a clue if she is alive or dead at this point, but a lot of people seem to think her family had something to do with it. I hope some day we find out the truth behind what happened to her. I also hope they have the good sense to prosecute the mom for child abandonment.  | |
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Posted: 3/19/2005 4:44:14 PM | You know I have to agree with the license to have kids bit, I've often thought of that myself. We need a license to own a dog or build a shed in our backyard or some silly thing, but when it comes to creating, and raising a human being it's a free for all, and I think the times show it with the constant bombardment of irresponsible parenting/care that is out there.
So here's me raising my glass to all the great parents out there, you seem a rarity, and are much appreciated. | |
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Posted: 4/9/2005 5:34:25 PM | Actually the search is still active every weekend. The problem is that because of the parents actions they are not getting volunteers to help search. If people don't help with the ground search it won't be able to continue much longer.
Yes, alot of how this happened is questionable and doesn't that make it that much more important for us to help Bianca. I have not heard of anyone who needs some people to help and protect her more than this girl.. | |
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Posted: 4/14/2005 7:50:42 PM | | Not every woman who push out a child is a mother, most times it is just the mechanics of the act of giving birth that they are call mother. Therefore, if a person doesn't understand what a mother is then the person will do idiot thing like what those parents did to that little girl. Intelligence they don't have and it cannot be bought. Maurice1 | |
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Posted: 4/14/2005 8:12:50 PM | | Whats sad is that if the parents are taken to trial they are gonna blame the counselor or any body else! It's sad that alot of people do this to save their own when they know they are the ones to blame! | |
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Posted: 4/16/2005 2:22:25 PM | I agree with you on everything apart from
Lonestarblue and I were just talking about how people need licenses to have kids.
Why should I need a license to have kids when 1 person in 500+ million does something stupid? | |
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Posted: 4/16/2005 3:01:13 PM | "Why should I need a license to have kids when 1 person in 500+ million does something stupid?"
Because Sadly, the numbers are much higher than that.
There are a lot of really bad parents out there, who are seriously hurting children.
THen, there are parents out there who just need some guidence, because what they are doing can hurt the child.
There are still parents who believe some forms of disipline are acceptable which are not.
If we were all required to take parenting classes, then a lot of children would be safer.
I'm not even just talking about the people who out and out abuse their children... but the ones who hurt them in other ways too. My son's father and his gf decided that pouring dish soap down my son's throat was and excellent idea to disipline him. (for opening a video case to see if the video was inside) Another person I know, thought it was a great idea to pour hot sauce in her 3 year old daughters mouth for swearing... and the list goes on and on and on.
Not all forms of abuse are blatant, some are just misguided forms of disipline, done by a parent trying to raise their child well, but are none the less dangerous.
I honestly think it's a great idea. And on my own, for only the benifit on myself and my children I have signed up to many parenting classes. Always open to learning.
I wouldn't preform heart surgury without schooling, I wouldn't build a house without training.... etc....
My kids are the most important part of my life.... why would I try to raise them without advice? | |
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Posted: 4/16/2005 3:11:53 PM | | It's stuff like this that makes me say WTF were these stupid idiot parents thinking? Oh sure anybody can put their eggs and sperm together and have a baby but not everybody should be allowed to. Even to adopt a pet the humane society checks the person out before they can even adopt a pet. To make sure they are a responsible person and the pet will receive a proper home. Children don't even get that! I'm just saying some people should not be allowed to reproduce. | |
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Posted: 4/16/2005 3:19:57 PM |
Sadly, the numbers are much higher than that.
Okay 1 – 2000/5000/10000? Even if it was more it would still be less than 1% and that is still no reason to deny me the right to have kids, just because I haven’t got a license!
If we were all required to take parenting classes, then a lot of children would be safer.
This is simply not true; we are the most educated culture in history. We are told on a daily basis through our friends, family, written media and visual media the right from wrong. There are parents who go through parenting classes and their children still don’t end up safer.
It’s a complex solution, but this knee jerk reaction is unreasonable. Now if someone voluntarily recognises their error and wants all the help available then that is a good thing and is workable.
It really boils down to your direct environment having a positive affect on you that will make a positive difference. It’s just like a criminal just released from prison, if they go back to the same environment they are more than likely to end up in prison again, until hopefully, eventually their conscious is awaken. | |
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Posted: 4/16/2005 3:40:13 PM | Why should I need a license to have kids when 1 person in 500+ million does something stupid?
You agree that some people keep having kids one after the other only because they know that the welfare system will support them. Do you also agree that kids are born everyday to people that would not be good parents. If it meant puting a hault to some of this, you tell me just because it would cause you to have to get a license, you would rather see these children born. Only because it violates your right?
Hell I'd buy myself one and you one too. | |
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Posted: 4/16/2005 3:56:02 PM |
you tell me just because it would cause you to have to get a license, you would rather see these children born. Only because it violates your right?
Does anyone seriously believe that sending, for example, a paedophile to classes and then sending him/her home to their young children or in a neighbourhood of children will work in the long-term just because they are waving a licence?
Does anyone believe that having a certificate saying you went on a parenting class means you will no longer abuse a kid? How many drivers speed after they pass their driving test? I’d lay a bet that every driver does. You speed because you can get away with it.
Your direct environment usually dictates your state of mind and your actions. If it is a bad environment then that license will just be hanging on the wall, while you’re yelling, etc at your kids. If your environment doesn’t tolerate it you will not do it. Although certain individuals are evil and nothing will stop them doing their evil, unless they are taken out of society. | |
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| What [bleep] is wrong with people?
Posted: 5/2/2005 4:26:58 PM | | I am so sad to hear people dog my cousin Shannon, because her daughter is missing. How cold hearted can you be? Don't you realize how upset she is and how she is beating herself up about the ordeal with Bianca! It was day time when Bianca was dropped off and it should have been day time when she returned home. The flashlight was given as a precaution. Not to mention, this was a prescribed treatment for Bianca by her councilor. They had tried it before and it had worked well. Bianca is not unable to take care of herself. She is bipolar and has learning disabilities, but is very much like every other 13 year old teenager. Please stop criticizing Shannon Tannor, and pray for Bianca's safe return. Our efforts will be more productive praying for Bianca's safety. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2005 8:18:46 PM | So they drove this girl with the mind of a young child a mile from their house on a cold night. They gave her a flashlight and she was supposed to walk home. She hasn't been seen since that time. I can't BELIEVE this.
Sounds like it finally worked; I bet they are wondering why it took 13 years.
Seriously though, these people are sick, but what the hell do you expect from MO?
The flashlight was given as a precaution. Not to mention, this was a prescribed treatment for Bianca by her councilor.
A councilor and $3.50 will get you a cup of coffee at Starbuck's. Doctors used to prescribe leaches. Use common sense. And, believe me, I feel no ill will towards the parents; this is just Darwin's theory at work. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2005 7:44:11 AM | omg
i could not beleive what i was reading .i have a 13 year old boy and a 18 year old daugther and i could not even think about doing that.my god these people need to be taken to jail.that just makes me sick when i read this .i hope they charge the parents cause this is unbeleivable  | |
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Posted: 5/3/2005 7:45:20 AM | Your story has eerily reminded me of a young girl that I saw hitchhiking along Hwy 60, here in Brandon, FL. It was 10:30 at night and she was all alone. When I saw her, I freaked out because she looked like she was no older than 12 or 13. SO I picked her up. Turned out she was 19, but was mentally about 9 or 10. It took me most of the night, but I finally got the name of her aunt, who lived in the area. Thank God she was listed in the book! After speking to her aunt, I learned that the girl's mother had told her to get lost after they had had a fight. She then procedded to hitchhike her way down from Pensacola, until 2 guys picked her up. They eventually called her aunt because they realized how slow she was. When she had a disagreement with her cousin, she decided to take off again, which is when I found her. WHen I asked her why she was running, she just said "my mom told me to get lost, so I guess I am" I dropped her off at her Aunt's house the next morning, and have not seen her again. I am just disgusted how some people handle kids with special needs.
I can only pray that your girl is found. | |
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