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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 8/28/2006 5:50:36 PM | i imagine there`s quite a few of us single females that r looking 4 something serious..
so i was wondering if there are any ladies out there that AREN`T just looking for a good time?
so the 'fun n games' stop once ur in a relationship?.. : /
cause i`m looking 4 someone that will STILL wanna have a good time w/moi once we`re in a relationship..  | |
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 8/28/2006 6:14:30 PM | | I DID want a serious relationship...until I started dating people from dating sites. The ones I was seriously interested in weren't interested in me. The ones I couldn't quite get "into" were REALLY into me. And finally, what it came down to for me was the realization that there's no such thing as "a monogamous man". I believe the only time a man says to a woman, "I want to date you exclusively" is when he covets her enough to lie to her. The monogamous man is a myth; an enigma. He is as elusive as "Big Foot" or "Nessie". So I, for one, choose not to make an emotional commitment in anyone. I would be happy to find a dinner companion or someone to enjoy going to movies with me. If something more interesting comes of it, tres bien. | |
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 8/28/2006 7:22:55 PM | I can say I have encounter the same.. But I do know that there are men out there that do want to commit.They have also encountered the same from us..Timing is everything...Finding that special someone to begin a serious relationship is something that takes time.. Time for us to accept that we have the potential to attract that type of person. Someone that will make us want to pursue that serious monogamous relationship..They are out there.. Friends first and lovers always is what we want to complete our monogamous relationship..Rest assure that there is hope for a serious relationship if that is what you truly desire you just have to really want it. | |
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 9/6/2006 9:42:04 AM | Come on, dude, you're 39 and you really need to ask if there are ANY women who want a serious relationship?
You knew the answer to that before you posted. It's like asking if there are any women who like jazz music.
I hate to appear unkind, but I totally agree.
The question really is "why can't YOU find a woman who wants a serious relationship?" But that is a self-pity thread and they are not allowed. Boo hoo.
Again I totally agree and I believe the answer is because the orginal poster (OP) is seeking women that he cannot have. He needs to be realistic and not expect more than what he brings to the table himself. | |
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 9/6/2006 2:14:28 PM | common stop stereotyping all womens who hang out in bars r clubs, u can meet a church person who is like way out there. i mean passed the club scene in the closet stripping and all hhuuummmm u think thats why they r going to church. I go dancing in the club do that make me a bad person. I think not. u find all kinds of people everywhere it doesnt matter. At least they not hiding r pretending to be someone else. A women will know if u r serious r not. just like a man will. and to sum it all up before u go the extra mile. when u meet a girl tell her your expectations then u dont have to go in with any other surprises. | |
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 9/6/2006 2:33:45 PM | I used to "think" about it, then ended up having to give myself a reality slap,lol, for it is a mans world and when they hear the word commitment, they may get scared thinking one said "committed" ya know, same as how they get the word mahogany and manogamy mixed up? just kiddin,  | |
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 9/6/2006 2:33:59 PM | OK larwilliams so does that mean that guys that hang out at bars and clubs are stereotypical too?
I go out to a Club every Friday night and find it more refreshing than meeting people on here.
They don't have 2 profiles, or fake pictures....lol....and you can see what they look like then and there.
Oh please do explain stereotypical to me as I see many different types of people @ clubs. | |
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 9/6/2006 2:38:46 PM | Oh I was a little off topic there so I will answer yes that women do think about serioous relationships.
Many, many women I know do, so where are the men for us??
I hear this from both sides quite often but I guess those talking about it seem to get together with the ones not looking.
Maybe one day we shall meet. | |
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 9/6/2006 4:09:58 PM | Goth_manners
Seems like it's all about money and the woman might
pretend to have a relationship if you have lots of
money to let loose...
You are probably right, there are some women out there looking for a "sugar daddy" but we are not all like that. I make good money where I work and the role was reversed on me at one time. I called him sponge rob...LOL
There are some really nice women out there looking for a nice guy and not his money.
Funny_Girl
Nope, I'm looking for a good time for a long time.
Nicely said girl.  | |
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 9/7/2006 7:23:17 PM | | of course some women are still thinking about getting into a serious relationship. But those take time, effort and patience...and a good connection. If you are missing one of those qualities with the person: you'll keep on searching...so until you find the right one that fits all of your needs (and you have the time, effort and patience to stick it out) - a serious relationship isn't going to happen. | |
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 9/7/2006 9:12:06 PM | | I'm not looking for a good time. he he but I am old. Much much older than my physical years. Truth be known I am much more prone to work on my property and keep it up than go play. I do that about 98% of the time anyway. I guess I am a boring responsible type but the bills are paid. I do see a major slant in the way people live now days in that they are into an "entertain me" mode. It slaps you in the face out here. In fact it reeks. | |
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 9/8/2006 8:32:25 AM | Your life might not suit a serious relationship, at this time, but about the time that you get casually involved with someone and discover that it ought to be serious and neither one can find the way to change it to serious because of circumstances, suddenly you realize that the anticipation of it becoming a serious relationship made it satsifying for a time, but the reality that it never will become one pops the bubble. Even though it would be complicated and wrong timing to make it serious, it just suddenly becomes worse than having nothing simply because it isn't what it should be.
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 9/8/2006 2:34:04 PM | I definitely would like a serious relationship. Dating, while sometimes the stories are fun to relate and compare, is a horrible business that more often than not leaves me at the end of the evening feeling horrible about myself. I know we girls don't make it easy for you guys. We send conflicting signals, everyone has their own set of "dating rules", and some gals are downright rude when turning down a guy who screwed up his courage to ask in the first place. It's terrible! But yet here we all are, doing our best.
Sorry, started rambling there. Long story short, yes! I'd love a serious relationship. And I'd love to never have to date again! | |
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