| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 8/16/2007 8:55:07 PM | whoa, I thought this was a good one to resurrect....think maybe there's hope?
This time and for the first time, I am not doing it again, I don't have too... I know still new, but , ya know... I've finally learned from my past ex's...no more surrendering.
Just be me, give and take and enjoy. No sacrificing...not this time.
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 8/16/2007 9:02:21 PM | ((((BIG HUGS))) to you thumper ... I have always believed that a relationship should be about comprimise, give and take and no person should surrender or sacrifice themselves or their needs to another. There has to be a balance.... Jmho  | |
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 8/16/2007 10:10:18 PM | | well for me i wouldnt change a thing, My kids come first and myself. And if that special someone is out there then they would have no problem with that. | |
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 8/17/2007 12:02:48 AM | You are who you are...the greatest love of all comes with ultimate trust in each other, I am thinking...if you love each other and want to be together you will work it out...damn tuff sometimes, given our ages...and commitments...but you have to give to get...if someone wants you to change your life to suit them so drastically that it makes you unhappy about giving to those who you have the first ultimate commitments to...your kids...well, something is not right there. We need what we need, but a few years left of giving to those you have put on earth should not put off those you love, or who love you...after all...we are all looking for someone to grow old with?
Bend, don't break. If someone asks you to break, and your heart says no, perhaps they are too broken to see what is important (even if they see the big picture)? | |
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 8/17/2007 6:21:52 AM | | sure would be nice to see some new threads in here...... i have tried...but get you know... the d word when i do....... | |
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 8/17/2007 9:01:29 AM | | If you were asking me to get rid of the Harley ?well I might if we needed the extra cash for something we both could enjoy such as a nice trailer on a spot somewhere ,or a boat ,I can give up one source of recreation for another that we might both enjoy .It depends what you are asking me to sacrifice ?and why ? We give up things and make sacrifices sometimes for another that might be better for the relationship or family ,,like that hot rod we sold to get that first down payment ..most of the men I no have sacrificed things for love .. | |
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 8/17/2007 2:31:24 PM | ^^^Holy Kmart blue-light special, or what...^^^
the flying pi-ig came to town just to ride a pony put an apple in his mouth, and she called the glazed ham honey...
^^^sacrifices the bacon for love^^^ | |
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 8/18/2007 4:12:12 PM | ^^^^ too funny
betcha TheFlyingPig is on a payment plan... well why not? Make payments up front rather than a lump sum at the end  | |
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 8/18/2007 6:15:22 PM | ^^^Are they now running in your door???
had a bashful she-fish mail me to ask you if the bacon is from the piggy's tail, crisp and crunchy and does it come with eggs poached or sunny side up
things people want to know  | |
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 8/18/2007 10:50:53 PM | I'm lookin' for the bacon...
although I love that cracklin!
Could just dig your teeth in there, maybe even sacrifice a few, for love...this is me....running to bacon's door...pitter pathim, let's get at him | |
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 8/18/2007 11:17:53 PM | I think real love requires selfless sacrifice. Say I was with someone and we were really in love. Say I got a an awesome job paying a lot more than I was making but it was across the country. I had to be there but she for some reason couldn't move. Would I give up the job? If we were really in love I would absolutely give it up. Maybe I'm just a romantic, lol.
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 8/20/2007 2:32:37 PM | Somethings are negotiable, other things aren't.
The things that I would consider negotiable are, needless to say perhaps, the things I myself think I could do without, but simply lack the incentive to drop if left to myself.
Swearing would be a good example of something that is entirely negotiable. In fact, I prefer women, especially *the* woman, over lotsa different things. But personal integrity, family, and kids would be good examples of things that definitely are not open to negotiation. | |
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 8/22/2007 3:33:53 AM | Sure ill sacrifice:
What do you mean by sacrifice?
Family = NO Friends= NO
Absoluty.....I AM WHO I AM......and anyone who wants me to change should consider that they are with the wrong guy.
Yearning!!! Sounds kinda LUSTY!!!!
NOPE! Not achance! | |
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 8/22/2007 7:37:51 PM | Love, Relationships and Sacrifice to me all go hand in hand..
You hear a lot about people saying they wont give up who they are for someone... Its interesting to see how many people like that are still single and strugle to find a relationship.. I believe we all have to bend and flex with our personalities to fit a special someone in our life.. To give up everything that made you who you are is wrong.. but to change little things about your self and how you interact with that person I believe is what makes a relationship last..
I'll always sacrafice somethings for the person I fall in love with.. | |
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 9/14/2009 8:13:40 PM |
You hear a lot about people saying they wont give up who they are for someone... Its interesting to see how many people like that are still single and strugle to find a relationship.. I believe we all have to bend and flex with our personalities to fit a special someone in our life.. To give up everything that made you who you are is wrong.. but to change little things about your self and how you interact with that person I believe is what makes a relationship last..
This day, right now, couldn't have said it any better.
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 9/14/2009 8:56:28 PM | Even though I know I'm major hormonal at the moment, I'd give up almost anything just for love.. human contact (outside of work) has been pretty much nonexistant for me for 3 years..
I think I've gone crazy. | |
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| Sacrificng things for love...... Posted: 9/15/2009 9:17:08 PM |
Would you sacrifice anything at all for a relationship? Okay...how about this for a sacrifice. I will not kick him out of bed for eating crackers as long as he's super handsome...and as long as he shares the crackers with ME | |
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