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| ....the wife phoned me!!
Posted: 1/14/2007 9:07:39 AM |
Under the law, separated = not divorced, ergo, married. There are many rational excuses why people choose not to just divorce and be done with it. Some of them are acceptable, some are not, but it does not change the fact that these are married people we are speaking about.
^^^ I agree. Further, dating a guy who's only separated allows him to use that as an excuse to serial date/booty call or whatever. I dated a man who was separated once... he was separated for a long time, but used his kids and his ex as an excuse to dump my a$$ when he tired of me. Shame on him, and shame on me for even considering that someone who's only separated, would be available for anything more than a rebound fling. I would never, ever date another guy who's only separated. | |
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| ....the wife phoned me!!
Posted: 1/14/2007 9:39:14 AM | Sorry that happened to you.....
Unfortunately, I've heard from some men that women do this too!
At least you didn't meet him!
I dated a guy that kept asking me if I was married.. I finally asked why he was so weird about it!
he dated a woman for 6 months..... bought her Christmas presents and she bought him presents... He bumped into her and her child (which he had met) when he asked the child where there mom was she answered... OVER there with dad! The woman came over later and admited she was married!
You don't know who you're talking to .... you only know what the person tells you..... | |
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Posted: 1/14/2007 9:48:53 AM | | You might want to take that with a grain of salt, dear lady. He might, indeed, be seperated (means he's still technically married, so she's telling a truth), with a woman who's unwilling to let go of him, or is just being vindictive. Of course, you might want to wait until he's divorced before you really get involved with him. | |
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Posted: 1/14/2007 9:53:37 AM | Had a similar experience here on POF. Except I did not get a phone call, rather, the wife had found his POF account, figured out his password, and emailed me back. There was nothing rude about her letter. She explained that he had done this before; she thought they'd moved past this, yet now she finds him contacting women again. She said I would probably not hear from him again and that when he got back in town from his business trip, that his profile would be deleted. The tone of her letter sounded so sad.
Well the profile was deleted, I did not hear from him again, and I recall my heart going out to her. I often wonder how she resolved things. I kept her letter as a reminder.
So, yeah.....moral of the story keep your eyes and ears WIDE open, trust your gut instincts - they're usually right, and at the first sign of deception, nip it in the bud, and run.
WD | |
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Posted: 1/14/2007 10:16:38 AM | | op not only this man is stupid but he dont even know how to hide numbers when cheating. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2007 7:51:49 PM | | Sorry that happened Nightheart. I was going to give a personal reply too about it but you have a 75 mile block on your emails. People email me from all over, thats why I left the restrictions off. I've made a couple of great email pals that way. | |
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