| Nice guys finish first sometimes.......but they just don't get laid a lot
Posted: 4/3/2005 5:13:28 PM | To be honest, the topic of this post..."Laid" is probably meant as a metaphor.
Not getting "Laid" means, metaphorically speaking, "Doesn't get the woman" "Doesn't get her attention" "Doesn't get her as a girlfriend" "Doesn't get a kiss" "Doesn't get to hold hands or snuggle with her"
Doesn't get to do the things a boyfriend or someone in a relationship would have with a woman. | |
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| Nice guys finish first sometimes.......but they just don't get laid a lot
Posted: 4/3/2005 5:30:31 PM | There is one things that many guys don't get.
When you start along that path of getting to know a woman you eventually come to a fork.
One path leads off to "Friendshipland", and the other leads off to " Loverland" . The woman will make a choice as to which way she turns.
That doesn't mean that lovers cannot be friends. It just means friends are not often able to cross over to being lovers succesfully. Why that is, I have no idea honestly.
If that decision gets made, it is seldom reversed.
So , in a lot of cases " Nice Guy" = friend. | |
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Erikk
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Joined: 2/17/2005
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| Nice guys finish first sometimes.......but they just don't get laid a lot
Posted: 4/4/2005 3:27:35 AM | Yeah, nice guy equal friend. The joke is that woman DEMAND that you fall in love with them once you start dating. Like your an a$$whole for taking it slow and spending TIME to get to know her. So, you think "Wow, she must really love me" which softens you up and you end up falling in love with her. Then, as soon as they know that you actually do care, they suddenly say something like "I just sdon't love you anymore...I can't help who I love," Now imagine if you did the exact same thing to her. She'd have you on Montel Williams show /or PHag Phil, getting browbeaten for being a "typical male". I'm through with it. I've been stood up twice by women on this site. And I had one telling how much she cared and so on. You wouldn't believe the BS! All she really wanted was for me to concede to her point of view. You know the love and rainbows and unicorns! Of course as soon as I gave her a contact phone number to call, ...she disappeared. Ok, but I was a jerk for being sceptical in the begining? It makes you wish you were gay sometimes. The lack of respect women show towards men these days is outragous! Twice as bad as our Fathers lack of respect for women that they are blaming our generation for. Hypocrites! Why doesn't anyone point it out? They are all afraid of being called sexist. Well, who's sexist now? WOMEN, that's who! The point is: DON'T BE A NICE GUY! THEY DON'T DESERVE IT! Unless, of course you find that elusive needle in the haystack. "There's someone special out there somewhere JUST FOR YOU!" she said. Translation: "SHE's not me, cause you are a nice guy!" (If you are a woman who just read this and are confused by it, that's probably cause you don't date women and thus have no idewa what I'm talking about, even though you prob do the same thing yourself without realizing it.  | |
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| Nice guys finish first sometimes.......but they just don't get laid a lot
Posted: 4/4/2005 2:10:46 PM | "Squirrels just wanna have fun...."
Yo Vandelai...or you could squash a grapefruit on their face...but why waste a good grapefruit ? ("You dirty rat"....hey ! betcha thought it was really Cagney, for a minute, and not just a squirrel doing an impersonation ? I'm outta here....! | |
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| Nice guys finish first sometimes.......but they just don't get laid a lot
Posted: 4/4/2005 2:24:16 PM | Not true! It depends on the girl and the guy, and every situation is different.
Someone mentioned flowers and how when given at the beginning of a first date (or even the next day after a great date) how the women never called or went out with them again. Speaking as someone who rarely gets flowers, I can say that it really does depend on the people involved. I know personally I don't care for cut flowers, but I love blooming plants (did you know you can get a mini-rose bush for 10 bucks??). But even if I did receive cut flowers... it's a show of affection and I for one wish there was more of it from BOTH sides. | |
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Erikk
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Joined: 2/17/2005
Msg: 85 | |
| Nice guys finish first sometimes.......but they just don't get laid a lot
Posted: 4/4/2005 3:16:50 PM | | Guys! Only give flowers to a woman who already likes you. On valentines day, B-day, and so on...Giving flowers to a woman that you've just met, or met recently makes her think that you are in love with her. If she isn't in love with you yet, then you just put her on the spot. Now, she's worried about you trying to kiss her or something that may make her feel uncomfortable. She can't handle the stress of that and to relieve that stress, she's going to stoip hanging out with you. Psycho aren't they? | |
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U2
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Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 91 | |
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