| I just dont understand women.....
Posted: 10/15/2006 10:17:57 AM |
Dont worry, this site has low quality women
You might want to stop and think what that statement says about the MEN at this site...
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| I just dont understand women.....
Posted: 10/15/2006 10:35:18 AM | I'm glad you've been going out more OP, you seem like a genuine person. You've had some excellent advice from others. I would like to restate changing/editing your profile and adding better pictures. You are selling/marketing yourself after all so put your best self forward. Don't defend who you are, a corny romantic is good, delete the good ones are already taken from your profile and maybe the first three lines. You want to attract a positive, vibrant and loving woman into your life so put that feeling into your profile. Hope you are having fun and don't get discouraged, keep positve and you will find someone who thrills you. | |
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| I just dont understand women.....
Posted: 10/15/2006 10:51:15 AM | genbear,
Just because a woman IS a woman does not mean they are going to drawn to your, 'so well written qualifications', nice that they are. Women are not robots that require what you have to be a fulfilled, functioning, happy person. The Feelings they have for you are what makes them right for you, as are your Feelings in return. Goes both ways with men & women.
So dont think if you have "it" going on, that you should be getting any woman you want...Granted, you may get some but they won't be in it for the right reasons. It will end badly too.
Understanding women has nothing to with having great "bate" and wondering why they won't bite...
cherokee,
You got invovled in a bad relationship...that's not how Women "are".
Keep open minds, there are many people with great relationships...find out how they found it and worked at it...and don't let these past relationships guide your life. | |
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| I just dont understand women.....
Posted: 10/15/2006 11:14:05 AM | you don't understand woman well i don't understand men you love them spoil them and they are never happy .
is it because they are hung up on them selfs and its there way or no way.
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| I just dont understand women.....
Posted: 10/15/2006 11:44:13 AM | Again...it has nothing to do with what you have or what you do. You can't Make someone feel for you by actions or what you think are the right qualifications. Attractions turning to love is an individual phenomenon.
It's mysterious and just happens. Best you can do is put yourself out there and by doing that, you may find that "one". | |
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Joined: 5/18/2006
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| I just dont understand women.....
Posted: 10/24/2006 5:39:44 PM | | Don't try and understand them, just enjoy them. And for that lady that asked to have men explained to her, same thing. Be yourself and if they don't like it, Oh Well !! These places are like a cattle auction, if you don't see what you like just waitm they'll run in another herd soon. | |
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Joined: 3/24/2006
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| I just dont understand women.....
Posted: 10/24/2006 8:06:02 PM | Hey, join the club.
No one's perfect, but I have alot to offer, and am sincere in my individual mssgs to many diverse woman, and yet get hardly any replies. I am open to a range of ages, sizes, shapes, hobbies, location, etc., beyond the basic physical attraction. I seek something special that will transcend (and be enriched by) any differences. And I'm upfront that (the full range of)intimacy is important to me in a RELATIONSHIP.
It may take years and years to really know someone .... The key is finding someone that I'd like to spend a lifetime getting to know.
But, we cannot begin to appreciate a person's beauty, passion, integrity, likeability, humor, intelligence, or a person's magnetism or 'wild & crazy' quotient until we actually MEET.
Perhaps, women should nibble on more hooks, in order to get caught by the right fisherman! | |
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Posted: 10/24/2006 9:58:59 PM | STEVE I UNDERSTAND U WAS IN LOVE N MOSTLY STILL ARE BUT DANG NO WOMEN IS MADE OF GOLD. I'M A FEMALE AND IF I HAD A GOOD MAN N LOVED HIM I WOULD DIE FOR HIM N KILL FOR HIM 2. THE SAD THING ABOUT UR MARRIAGE IS NOW SHE KNOWS SHE CAN GO OUT N PLAY U AND U WILL TAKE HER BACK. I DONT UNDERSTAND MEN!!!!!!!! THERE ARE GOOD WOMEN OUT THERE NOT MANY BUT SOME. WOW GOOD LUCK TO U, BECAREFUL SHE DONT PLAY U AGAIN.
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| I just dont understand women.....
Posted: 10/24/2006 10:03:55 PM | PAPI
SOMETIMES IT TAKED A WHILE FOR THINGS TO START TO HAPPEN TO A PERSON. DON'T GIVE UP HAVE FAITH AND TRUST THAT GOD HAS UR WOMAN IN STORE FOR U. WE DO WANT A GOOD GUY, WELL MOST DO ANYWAYS LOL ITS JUST AS MUCH AS SOME WOMEN PLAY GAMES SO DO MEN. FEEL UR WAY UR STILL YOUNG. OH BY THE WAY LOVE UR PROFILE.
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Posted: 10/24/2006 10:07:17 PM | IF THIS SITE HAS LOW QUALITY WOMEN, THEN WHY R U LOOKING FOR WOMEN ON THIS SITE????
UMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM U SOUND FOOLISH SAYING THAT!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 10/26/2006 2:21:12 PM | | Hey Genbear23, I have been on this website since April 2006 and I have not had any luck much at all. I get some girls but they are too far away. And just not my types of women. I guess we all are picky in some way. Dont give up just keep on trying and do your best that you can do. I feel the same way that you do. From Kirkbute | |
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Posted: 10/28/2006 6:31:14 PM | | Guess what....it's just as rough trying to understand men. Why do they say they want a relationship, then when they find one, they suddenly decide they're not ready. Seems a man's idea of a realtionship is until he gets laid and sits back and says only did so just to see if he could get some, how warped is that. I had a pretty bad marriage, he was selfish, self-centered. The less he had to do for me the better he liked it. He didn't want a wife, he only wanted a maid he could have sex with. Of course he pumped himself up to be this kind, hard working man, how he did all the work when he was previously married, and all the things he did for his (ex)wife. None of it was true, the last months we were married it finally came out that everything he said to me was a lie. The year we separated I went through 2 different surgeries in three months time, he was afraid if I waited until the Fall he'd have to stay home with me and would miss out on going to hunting camp every weekend all weekend long. The straw that broke this camels back, I was in the hospital for three days after surgery, instead of bringing me flowers or a small gift...he brings me the checkbook and bills to take care of. Wow, what a guy, how did I get so lucky! I knew then in my heart it was over. I've seen some men's profiles here and on other sites that I have actually met, they really do a good job pumping themselves up to be men that they are NOT, and not even close to being. Eventually their true colors come out but not before someone gets hurt. And as usual, they blame the women, no matter the wrong they do, they justify it, twist thing around and blame to woman....warped, warped, warped! | |
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| I just dont understand women.....
Posted: 10/28/2006 6:51:02 PM | just as long as you know who you are that is all that matters.............
and if you find one that knows who she is.........thats even better.........
good things come to those who wait.......... | |
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| I just dont understand women.....
Posted: 10/28/2006 6:57:01 PM | | "Dont worry, this site has low quality women" The OP so shot himself in the foot with this. And hasn't recovered, likely doesn't know how. Yet still here, trolling for the low quality women this site supposedly has to offer. Hmm... | |
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Posted: 10/28/2006 8:01:14 PM | | Right on powder2. Sounds to me like you've found the secret to survival and this guy sounds pretty needy to me. I've learned from experience that the quickest way to lose the interest of a woman is to appear needy and always with the big sob story! There really is somebody for all uf us but nothing happens just because we want it to! | |
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| I just dont understand women.....
Posted: 10/28/2006 8:53:49 PM |
There are 2 things women want......... and we don't know either of them.
And we will go to-nay, BEYOND-the ends of the Earth to keep that information to ourselves
C'mon guys! What in the world would you do with all that free time you'd have if dealing with women was EASY?? Start another internet dating site? Go to college and become a nuclear physicist???
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| I just dont understand women.....
Posted: 10/28/2006 9:34:32 PM | | Ok folks,women 101,I'm going to get bashed for this but ,here goes. First of all a disclaimer,THE FOLLOWING VIEWS ARE MY OWN ,AND DO NOT APPLY TO ALL WOMEN! The whole beauty industry is based on how women think.Blondes want to be brunettes,brunettes want to be red heads,and so on and so forth.Women with striaght hair want curly hair,curly want straight ,of course.When they change to what they want , they want to change back.I haven't even got to make-up yet,or clothes.Don't try to change them,it's all part of the mystery. Our job as men is to make them feel like they look their best at any given time,no matter what. Now be very carefull with this,because if you like the way they look now,then of course you didn't like the way they looked before. I think it's all a big conspiracy,women are all connected by telepathy to each other. That's why they don't think like men,they don't have too,it's kinda like using " the force " aint it great? | |
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| I just dont understand women.....
Posted: 10/28/2006 11:14:22 PM | Hi Bear
Being widlowed, I hadn't dated in more years then you have been alive. So this has been a great starting place, I've learned alot. I've been on for about a year, have changed my profile 4-5 times. When I first came on I ran into (only on line) some very scary people. At one point I was on line for only the forums.
There are severaly people I e-mail every couple of weeks. I surf alot looking at different profiles and say Hi. We all need friends. Mostly, I'm working on relearning how to talk/listen to others and myself and it's working. I'm not saying lie about who you are, but change your wording and see what happens. Try talking about one part of your life one month and another part the next. Remember dating is to learn about the other person and yourself. | |
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