| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!! Posted: 9/6/2006 12:37:02 PM | That is because the words are there to entertain you and the actions tell the story. They may have a wish list but conduct is something that santa isn't going to like and he will give you coal if you listen to words and forget to judge the conduct to match the words.....awww life is a lesson if you choose to read the cards..... make sure the cards are the ones your watchen not the dealer.
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!! Posted: 9/6/2006 1:01:39 PM | I agree, I usually see something special in someone before I go to bed with someone. Unless it's a terrible time I like to see them again and again until we don't want to see each other. I love to be in love !!!!!!!!  | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!! Posted: 9/8/2006 8:15:58 AM | C'mon!! If they wrote in their profile - 'I'm just looking to have fun and get laid - expect nothing and you won't be disappointed' how many women would be like 'YES!!! I'm writing him!' LOL Women play with men just as bad so just 'cause you got a little burned don't be hating on the men. In the game of life and love nothing comes easy - People are just wacked when it comes to this stuff. I had read once in a forum- someone posted something to the effect of -If everyone would stop playing and mean what they say and say what they mean we'd all be so much happier - seems everyone plays and everyone loses. Good Luck sweetie.  | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!! Posted: 9/8/2006 8:40:42 AM | | I think a lot of men play with a women's heart like that because they are really unhappy deep down inside. They don't know what they want anymore then women really do. Maybe it's like you want what you want and when you get it then you don't want it anymore. I know it's stupid but humans are wired funny at times. | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!! Posted: 9/8/2006 8:56:06 AM | | some men will do anything for sex, is the simple answer.. in reality it might be that they really are looking for someone, but even if you're not "the one" they'll still want to have sex first to make sure.. there isn't any way to know for sure or to weed those type of guys out when they lie on thier profile, bottom line: just like anyone you meet anywhere...you just have to follow your own judgment and take your chances | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!! Posted: 9/8/2006 9:01:09 AM | Wow, about the waiting a year and moving ,,,,,,I have been there before,, not to bust your bubble, but I had 2 men who promised me the world...one said we would get married and he moved to Colorado and my kids dad had a JOB after the Katrina storm, moved 1 year ago and has already found my replacement and has a new life....4 months ago he was still wanting me to move there and marry him...I guess he couldn't hold up on the sex...That has forced me to move on....All I am saying, as the other women, most men are dogs and do play games with you and he should have been a one night stand, but hind site is 20/20 and 8 yrs and 2 kids later---I am paying the price...I hope your guy is serious---I am all about true love..It's a great concept | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!! Posted: 9/8/2006 9:02:34 AM | why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
'Childs' Play'
It's Your Heart, and 'some' mens' lack thereof!!
'In the silent movie..theres no talkin..some just are actors'
Because they don't know how to be anything more!!
The Heart is a substance of Love and Life..with every beat.. You are sustained...The heart does not reserve a place..for games!!
'at the heart of the matter'
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!! Posted: 9/8/2006 9:45:18 AM | [Because all men are dogs........lol.........the sooner you realize that.... the better off you are]
I dont think all men are dogs there are just as many women that play games as there are men!!!! It really depends on the person and what they want. There are really some good guys out there you just have to weed through the bad ones first which i know can be frustrating at times but either deal or dont date...Why are you even here if you dont think that there is the slightest possibility that you could find some one? Are you just wasting everyone else's time reading your profile cause you prejudge evryone but anothers actions..People are people and if you hang around sh*t pretty soon you start smelling like it, you just have to choose who you want to hang around a little more wisely.... | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!! Posted: 9/8/2006 10:00:08 AM | People are people...doesn't matter.. Men to Women...Women to Men...Everyone plays games...And thats Really sad..i mean.. there is enough to have to deal with out there...but don't screw with peoples feelings and emotions...The reason why most of us are in here..is because we have been slighted and hurt...Gee...Make it real...or not at all!! | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!! Posted: 9/8/2006 12:24:26 PM | | because the men on this site only have one thing in mind. they don't care about feelings, they believe women are playthings. oh not playing the way he wants, then toss em the corner. if you are looking for a good man, chances are he's not here. | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!! Posted: 9/8/2006 1:53:50 PM | You definately make a lot of sense. Maybe that's why I've always had a penchant for the younger man (more exciting). However, in my experience I let myself be controlled from day one with the first guy I eventually dated from this site. This was after about 8 months of being strung along as a f*** buddy. I know he must have had his reasons, but it's over now anyway. Strangely enough, we're still friends even though I'm still very much in love with him. He's still got all the power over me, even though he's no longer in the country. I should have claimed that power when I was away from him too. It really annoys me that I can't fault him, he's just so under my skin  | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!! Posted: 9/8/2006 3:38:18 PM | WELL..LET me just say this..Alot of men and women think a person is who he is by how he types...Why not meet the person first before u get all giddy...How a person types and what he says on his profile means squat...Meet first..see his friends and family and ask lots of questions..This goes for men as well...GOOD luck.. | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!! Posted: 9/8/2006 4:26:08 PM | | Because we are all so eagerly looking for the 'ONE' that we are blinded by those game players on these sites. We have that fear that if we don't 'play it out' to the end and find out if they are serious or just a game player, that we might just make a mistake and miss out on the good one!! Gotta weed through alot of crap to get to the good ones honey, and I'm still MOWING!! | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!! Posted: 9/8/2006 4:28:34 PM | | Sad to say it works both ways. Obviously some of you ladies have made the same wrong choices as I have for women. LOL But I try no to classify or clarify by using the "ALL" inclusive term. I don't judge the basket of apples because the one I picked had a worm. LMAO | |
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