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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/8/2006 4:53:19 PM | | I have been here on here for about 2 years and see women play just as much as men do. I know all women are not that way, But there are some good men out there, that knows how to treat a women, I just find the ones that dont want it........... | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/12/2006 2:44:01 PM | I have come across afew girls on this site That just play games, It's Bull shit, and they turn around and try to make you look like the jerk. telling every one a differnt story. Some girls just need to grow the F*** Up, or get the heck off the dating site.
That goes for the guys that play that shit as well... | |
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jossi
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Joined: 3/2/2006
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 1:56:01 AM | """Shhhhhh......don't tell a soul cause I'm sure nobody has figured it out yet, but most guys will tell a woman what they want to hear in the hope that they'll get laid.....quickly!
You can pass this valuable info on, but don't name your source."""
Imagine going out with a guy who is not able to figure out what you want to hear
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tazgal
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Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 80 | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/14/2006 1:47:48 PM | | Kelsa I agree with you they shopuld be honest and up front on thier profile instead of wasteing thier time and us womens time, some men act like women dont have feelings im sure there are some women who are like that with men also but hey men and ladies lets be honest in our profiles | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/15/2006 6:47:39 PM | I was talking with my co-worker at work today about this thread, an dthis is what she had said to me.
"woman are just as bad as men, when it comes to lying and cheating, and blah blah blah..
But a guy will not admit to being taken HOOK LINE AND SINKER by a woman, They will never admit it. but woman will Go and tell every one about bad things a guy has done, where a Guy will keep quite. Thats why you hear stories about Guys, and Not so much about the bad things woman do.
So Gurls are just as bad a men, dont fool yourself. | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/21/2006 11:48:29 AM | HEY TEX SKEETER....I GUESS I HAVE BEEN GULLABLE OR NIEVE A TIME OR TWO .BUT I THINK SOME GUYS KNOW GOING IN THAT THEY WILL HURT YOU AND IT DONT SEEM TO MATTER TO THEM .HERES TO MABE WE ALL OUGHT TO JUST PLAY STR8 FROM THE GET GO SO NO ONE GETS THEIR HEART HURT..SMILES SUNNIE | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/22/2006 9:22:11 PM | ^^we're not talking nice guys ot girls...it's not nice guys or girls that finish last..it's all attraction, not niceness..when did you see a handsome to hot man who is an angel who is sitting on the side line going why did she leave me except in the movies or to do with the movies..it's those that we're not attracted to. I have been on the not attractive enough side enough to know it has nothing to do with personality, and been on the I'm not attracted to you side enough to know it's nothing to do with personality.
They do it because they have no respect for the other person..man or woman... | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/25/2006 5:53:28 PM | HEY SWEETIE THATS MEN FOR YOU!!!!! IVE BEEN ON POF FOR 3MTHS AND THEY ALL SAY THE SAME THING AND ALL JUST WANT ONE NIGHT STANDS. JUST BECAREFUL!!!! LOVE WILL FIND YOU DONT RUSH IT. THERE ARE GOOD GUYS OUT THERE STILL BUT THERE LOCATION WHO KNOWS. GOOD LUCK! | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 10/11/2006 3:39:04 PM | | Mostly because women start the game by demanding a commitment to "a relationship" before they'll even consider going out with a guy. Most guys figure this out over time and join in the game by lying or convincing themselves that "I could be in a relationship . . ." | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 10/11/2006 3:40:26 PM | | I met someone from this site that did not even mention he was married. He has since changed it and said he is looking for an intimate incounter. Listen meeting people online is not the way to go maybe to meet someone for a movie or dinner friend but the computer is not going to spit out Mr. perfect or Mrs. perfect. I really do not think that most men that are worthy would want to engage in sex with someone they just meet. Remember you have gone to bed with everyone they have gone to bed with. So if that guy wants to jump in the sack he is desperate and not looking for any long term anything meening his own healthy life. | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 10/11/2006 4:30:48 PM | | a burst of pure delight at what might be, hieghtened senses, hormones raging, a few drinks and voila ! the world is lookin rosey and your date is hotter than ever. enter post coitus, and suddenly that cute shuffle is an annoying drag O the feet, what would have been a cute sneeze last night is a germ spreading horror. If one is looking for a serious relationship, courtship rules have to be adhered to and there are plenty of good books on the matter, invest $25.00 and save yourself some grief, or get it from the library, on the otherhand, if you want to get the "players" bible, try researching a bit of "double your dating". If a person isnt't willing to arm themselves with knowledge then the same test will come again and again, regardless of race or gender.On the third hand, one can follow the morals of hollywood based on prostitutes, this is funnnnnn, basing your behaviour on the faked passion of a harlot/gigilo. nothing like starting a relationship based on the imitation of imitation, maybe throw in a lie or two about supposed wealth or kindness to sweeten the deal. I gotta go cook an extravagant meal with no idea of what goes in it or how long I should cook it for, wish me luck | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 10/11/2006 8:03:29 PM | another one of these topics where Im removing the pitchfork from my hands and feet, yipes...........
Because all men are dogs........lol.........the sooner you realize that.... the better off you are-sassy911 wow all men are dogs eh? last time I checked none of the men i know went to the vets to get checked out.
Ever thought part of the problem is you? youre letting men use you, if you figured out the patterns of attracting these deadbeats maybe you can break them and find quality guys
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 10/11/2006 9:57:43 PM | onegreat; I think you're so very right.
And the men that are stating in their profiles that they want long term usually are looking for that. However, one cannot commit to "long term" until persons know one another. If after dating or even having sex with someone the feelings of wanting to continue to see you aren't there......well, that is natural........that's why getting to know someone is called "dating", not "long term".
Face it, can you say you've never "dated" someone you'd prefer not to see again?
Men (or women for that matter) that are looking for just sex are pretty transparent, their actions, or lack thereof, should give you really strong clues as to what they want from you.
Wish you much better luck with your "fishing",
theadra | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 10/11/2006 10:15:47 PM | i find it that there are plenty of men and women both that tend to play games with their mate's heart. some do it on spite.......they're the players, then you have those that don't sincerely mean to play with your heart, those are the ones that are afraid of rejection. they feel as if maybe if they can lead you on then drop you first you wouldn't have a chance of dropping them.
i would simply say watch who you pick, don't be too pushy with them, and take things one day at a time. if they feel as if you're being too pushy (even if it's unintentionally) they still may scare easily. | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 10/12/2006 8:01:11 AM | | Once I stopped giving men a second chance my life has improved. Don't get me wrong, everybody deserves one chance (I'm talking about new people you meet). Unfortunately some guys I've met wrongly assume that if you forgive them once you will keep forgiving and taking them back over and over again. They actually disrespect you for being forgiving. If you break this cycle and stop taking them back you might find for a change someone who appreciate the chance you have given him. | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 10/12/2006 8:57:00 AM |
Once I stopped giving men a second chance my life has improved 
Daria, I was thinking exactly the same thing and asking myself why I was a believer in giving people a second chance?!
Perhaps to my defence comes a fact that no one is perfect and everybody makes a mistake now & then. To acknowledge the mistake, the will and the wish to make things better meaning having a clear view and actions supporting this second chance ... granted the second chance.
Heart is a different and very delicate department. Mature people with integrity don't take things for granted, don't mess. I don't give up on finding a friend ~ companion ~ lover, yes all 3 in 1 but a second chance doesn't have a place here. You either have it all in your heart and follow your heart or nothing. | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 10/12/2006 9:33:12 AM |
why do so many men on here (p.o.f.) say they want a serious relationship,
If you look at all the restrictions women can put up on their profiles "long term" is the only one that can get through..... everything else is blocked. So what's a guy to do if he's honest and declares his intentions (short term, intimate etc..) but the system blocks any attempt to contact a women unless he says "long term relationship".
Don't put so many restrictions and maybe you'll get greater honesty
Just my 10c | |
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