| I met the perfect girl, thank you!!
Posted: 9/7/2006 7:19:45 PM | lovehatehero44 and trixypixy again I say congratulations.  
I wish it was me. I hope one day soon I get to post the same thing and better yet some sweet darling male will post somthing like that for the two of us.
Again no matter what happens in the future enjoy each other and make your memories.
Life is too short, too unpredictable and too lonely.
Hence all our opinions right?
I am happy for you guys. | |
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| I met the perfect girl, thank you!!
Posted: 9/7/2006 7:48:55 PM | You all know , that this young man should be sending US a positive message. I agree that he has no shame in his game when he knows exactly why he is on this site ... to meet some one. he did and so what if it doesn;t last and who knows really how long anything will last. At least he is open in claiming he is a romantic and is willing to take a big risk to win. And HE can't lose anyway. The ride will be exilirating.
I myself many moons ago met a man whom just shook my world immediately. Yeah it was lust at first .. and so ... after two weeks together we moved in with one another. That lasted seven years and although it did not work out, it was a wild seven years of intense passion that didn't wane. Would I give back those years because of the hurt at it's demise? Heck no ... See my point?
Good luck on your journey , be it for a season or a lifetime. | |
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| I met the perfect girl, thank you!!
Posted: 9/7/2006 7:49:31 PM | You all know , that this young man should be sending US a positive message. I agree that he has no shame in his game when he knows exactly why he is on this site ... to meet some one. he did and so what if it doesn;t last and who knows really how long anything will last. At least he is open in claiming he is a romantic and is willing to take a big risk to win. And HE can't lose anyway. The ride will be exilirating.
I myself many moons ago met a man whom just shook my world immediately. Yeah it was lust at first .. and so ... after two weeks together we moved in with one another. That lasted seven years and although it did not work out, it was a wild seven years of intense passion that didn't wane. Would I give back those years because of the hurt at it's demise? Heck no ... See my point?
Good luck on your journey , be it for a season or a lifetime. | |
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| I met the perfect girl, thank you!!
Posted: 9/7/2006 8:37:13 PM | love hate , glad for you. You did'nt know this sight doesn't work that well that quick or you would not have found a winner. Your both winners because you played this thing the way it was intended. You did't know that did you? The both of you went out of your way to meet,,,, IN PERSON. Not weeks of e-mail and hour after hour of phone calls and IMing, but head on. Granted , IF, I said if, it doesn't go for a long term, at least you two will have given each other an honest try. This is being open minded, adventurous, and smart in not wasting time on this thing trying to find a better one, and a better one than that. I'v been at this for years and it shows. I getting bitter and should/will quit and go to the bar as much as I hate it. I see ladies , cute as hell, with a popularity score to rival miss america, yet they are still here, wasting other peoples time cuz this must be what they like to do.............
Anyway mr lovehate, you have done the right thing,,, and the rest of us are green (as in john deere) with envy, make no mistake. The rest of us could make it happen, but we can't because WE WON'T!!!!!!!!!! Congratulations to you and your girl. I sincerely hope it works happily and long and the rest can learn something (naa) but you won't hear me complain, cwc
ps: age has a lot to do with it (doesn't it folks?). And so does pretty. | |
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| I met the perfect girl, thank you!!
Posted: 9/7/2006 9:04:55 PM | Umm wow..congradulations..thats fast but hey you cant time trying to find the
love you care 4...im still trying to ..i mean i guess iam..sometimes i just wanna
kick someones *ss cause i feel like im not worth the effort..im too young ..i look young and no one see's me anyways..so i hope that at least you get the romance and the respect that i've been trying to earn for a long, long time..
as i say this again good luck and congradulations..
be safe and love,  and chicken grease.. | |
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| I met the perfect girl, thank you!!
Posted: 9/7/2006 9:31:06 PM | Dude, wtf are you thinking???
2 months of being single and now you've found the perfect girl....you move
waaaaaaay too quickly.
The HARM?? My money is down; the girl has kids and hasn't finished school, she's
got a dead end job, she lives in a dump and needs money. That's what I see......you're
being USED, dude. The harm is coming, and you'll be back here fast.
If anything, do not merge bank accounts, do not become her kids daddy and assume
responsibility for anything. You are only dating.
Take risks? Yes........be stupid - never. Life is too short to live down the big
mistakes........financially a very STUPID move. Maybe you're broke and
have nothing to lose....I can't personally afford the mistakes you're about
to embark on.
Sorry for sounding harsh but it's for your own growth.
i wasn't asking people opinions, i just wanted to tell everyone our story and let everyone know my experience with this site.
Really? Why are you still here then? Go, don't you have a bus to catch?
peace out!!!
I don't think you grasp that phrase......you're suppose to be gone after you say that. LOL | |
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| I met the perfect girl, thank you!!
Posted: 9/8/2006 6:21:40 AM | jesus leave the guy alone and stop bein so bloody - x as long as hes happy who wants opinions like that xx good luck to you both xx hope your happy xxxx green eyed monsters i thinks xxx  | |
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| I met the perfect girl, thank you!!
Posted: 9/8/2006 6:39:14 AM | | Too soon, is what i am thinking. This move, it will not be fair for either of you. For you, you need time to adjust from a breakup, and her, needs no attachment to somone who just broke up. This set up as it is, will down the road says big time probelms, as i first said " Too Soon". | |
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| I met the perfect girl, thank you!!
Posted: 9/8/2006 7:25:59 AM | Oy vey, OP. Don't be so harsh with us. You posted something on a public forum, which implies that you are inviting responses. Don't jump down others' throats because they responded in a way that you didn't like. Sheesh.
Best of luck in your "relationship".
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| I met the perfect girl, thank you!!
Posted: 9/8/2006 7:56:14 AM | Hey..I wish you both the best of luck....Sometimes you have to take a risk, no matter what others say. No one else can speak for either of you and I think most are skeptical because of the short time. HOWEVER, only you two can tell if this is right for you. You do have to live each day to it's fullest and when you believe in your heart that you've found the right one for you and it's not just based on sex, then you go for it!...
I wish you both the best of luck..May God bless..I'm happy for you both... | |
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| I met the perfect girl, thank you!!
Posted: 9/9/2006 9:48:00 AM |
The HARM?? My money is down; the girl has kids and hasn't finished school, she's
got a dead end job, she lives in a dump and needs money. That's what I see......you're
being USED, dude. The harm is coming, and you'll be back here fast.
im 21, ive attended university and becoming a paramedic, i dont have kids, and i sure as hell arent poor and looking for money, i live in one of the best places in town.... thanks | |
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| I met the perfect girl, thank you!!
Posted: 9/9/2006 2:14:38 PM | hi,
I don't think you made a mistake. Two days of two weeks of love and happiness in ones life is better than that time without it. Hope everything works out for you two. If it doesn't; like a lot of people are suggesting..... Then you still had those good times together, you are grateful for it and you move forward.
I myself am thinking about doing the same thing. I am talking to a guy on here. I think he is special enough that I would marry him in a hearbeat. I would move to where he is and I would change a lot of things about my life to be with him. I don't know, really, how he feels.
I am not hard up, I am not desparate. I wasn't even looking for someone to love. I was just looking to make friends with people on here, but I didn't see the option of meeting men and women. I said friends.
How long have I been msg this guy? About 2 weeks. But you know, when love hits you - it just does. It's not a thing about choice. Of course, you can ignore how you feel about someone. But I don't want to pass up the oppourtunity. Love is too important to ignore. Happiness is fleeting. Real love can be cultivated. So if the first rush of love passes, that doesn't mean it's over. It just means that you have to work some to keep it alive. Just like the living growing thing that love is.
So guys. Here is wishing and praying good luck and true love for both of you and the same for me. | |
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| I met the perfect girl, thank you!!
Posted: 9/9/2006 2:21:37 PM | | oh, PS. I am 47 and have done a lot of living. I am often cynical, but not towards these two and what they are doing. Nothing in this world is more important than love. I think it would be bad not to give it a chance when you find it. | |
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