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 tishisdishy

Joined: 7/14/2006
Msg: 26
To Pamper or Not to Pamper.. That is my question.
Posted: 9/10/2006 6:58:49 PM
FLOWERS!!! i can't remember the last time a date actually brought flowers...........i was wondering if that was a lost art........guess not.........dang now i feel even WORSE
 Huggablehottie

Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 27
To Pamper or Not to Pamper.. That is my question.
Posted: 9/10/2006 7:09:35 PM
I will teach my son, ( he is still a kid now), to do these nice
things for a lady, and not want anything in return.
 mimosa

Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 28
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To Pamper or Not to Pamper.. That is my question.
Posted: 9/11/2006 6:54:43 AM
Omg wtf, you are an evil man, that is so true.
 heartbeat997

Joined: 8/9/2006
Msg: 29
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To Pamper or Not to Pamper.. That is my question.
Posted: 9/11/2006 7:26:35 AM
Pamper (man! some of you are wordy, haha!)
 FlutterbyMe

Joined: 1/10/2006
Msg: 30
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To Pamper or Not to Pamper.. That is my question.
Posted: 9/11/2006 2:04:00 PM
I want to thank everyone who has posted a response to my questions. And I'm going to refer back to the very first post. I do know the answer, it just took me a few days of worrying and wondering and over analyzing to come to the simple answer.

I do have fear, but so what - to conquer that fear will be worth while.

I have been hurt, and it will probably happen again - but before that hurt comes there will be experiences and personal growth and memories made

I do like being treated nicely, I do enjoy the occassional pampering, I enjoy rough housing too! I am dynamic and I can't expect someone to be able to please every aspect of who I am within ONE date - that takes time and getting to know each other further which I am denying not only him but MYSELF

And just incase any of you were wondering... this post came after a recent date that I had and no I have not called him back, but I will be as soon as I'm finished with this post! And this time I'm picking what we're going to do, I'm going to put myself in his position and show him that I do appreciate all that he did for me last week.

Thanks again everyone, by all means if you have further advice I'm more than willing to listen/read
 rune3

Joined: 7/13/2006
Msg: 31
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To Pamper or Not to Pamper.. That is my question.
Posted: 9/11/2006 2:37:15 PM
Good for you Flutterby. Have a great time.
 eligible4u82

Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 32
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To Pamper or Not to Pamper.. That is my question.
Posted: 9/25/2006 5:49:42 PM
man women think too much! relax! look at who he is on the inside!
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