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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/11/2006 7:53:29 AM | Gini;
You are so right! Hate to admit it, but that's the way it is with me.
Best relationship I ever had, was with a woman, where we shared our impressions of
the opposite sex!  | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/11/2006 7:56:20 AM | By the OP's logic, this means that every man is unhappy in a relationship.
But in answer to your question: we look because we have eyes. It's amazing how some women are threatened by what we men look at . . .
If we drool, then you have a point. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/11/2006 8:32:21 AM | | Looking doesn't mean cheating or unhappy, It is just looking, there is no crime in looking , and why would you want someone that doesnt enjoy beauty, no matter what that is, If you had a flower garden and you came across another flower garden that was in your eyes beautiful you would look, it wouldnt make you flowers any less beautiful, If I am with a man and I see what I think is a beautiful woman I will show her to him, and if I see a man that I think is handsome I will look, it doesnt mean I am unhappy with mine, It just mean damn he was cute, doesnt mean I want him, correct me if I am wrong but I think a relationship is more that just looks, and to be honest if he doesnt look when a beautiful woman walks by then I am gonna get worried, I have learned that if a man or woman is gonna cheat, there is nothing you can do or say that is gonna change that, why start more crap when there doesnt need to be, let him enjoy the flowers good grief | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/11/2006 8:40:05 AM | Think of it this way......he has all the beautiful women in the world to look at... & he actively chooses to be w/ YOU!
& believe me, there are other women's BF's looking when you walk by...doesn't mean they want to leave their honeys either, or you'd have a mob following you down the street everyday. Do you?
If that's not enough for you then there are probably some trust/self-esteem issues @ work here. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/11/2006 9:11:30 AM | | i dident mean it sound like that.what i tryin say is why do men look at women there must be somethi wrong or not right.cos if u realy into someone&u with that person holidin hands but u see someone&u look at another women then u will think why are they lookin at that women.cos u think that she beter lookin then me&u think ur no good | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/11/2006 9:32:22 AM | | I can't believe this thread! It is human nature to look, and for you to complain about it shows your insecurites. I am sure you look at good looking men from time to time. OMG, I still look...God gave me eyes to see with, didn't he? It is natural. If he comes home to you, don't be worrying about it all. Should he go around with blinders on, so he won't offend you by seeing other attractive females? Get over it. I don't mean to sound harsh...I am just saying that it is natural. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/11/2006 9:41:23 AM | i think its ok to look .. but its when they strat to touch then i have a problem .. im abit of a people watcher .. and the looks i get from some girlfriends or wifes or who ever they are with lol  | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/11/2006 9:41:56 AM | Looking doesn't bother me...looking and drooling might, but as long as he doesn't say something like..."damn she'd be nice to f***, its all good! I used to buy my ex the issue of the sports illustrated swimwear issue when it came out...and I bought GQ for me... | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 9:51:30 AM | So, let me see if I can reconstruct this whole thing with a little deductive reasoning.....
Horseygirlclare was on a date with some unnamed man and the entire Swedish Bikini Volleyball team walked past. He looked at this bevvy of stunning Scandanavian women for 2/10ths of a second.
Now we get a post about why ALL men look at other women.
Not about why THAT guy looked at other women, but ALL of us....
They really should kill every post that has this gender-biased gender-bashing timbre to it. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/11/2006 9:56:30 AM | Wow...you are really REALLY young, aren't you? You must realize that, as FunnyGirl put it so eloquently, we have eyes and there are many wonderful and not so wonderful things to look @ out there in the world! If this is truly how you feel then I feel awfully bad for you because your security in yourself must have been flushed down the toilet somewhere along the way in your young life.
Even better....when your BF looks @ another woman, you should just join in the fun and call him on it...it's what I do...my BF and I CONSTANTLY look @ other people and comment on them just because we can and we are secure enough in each other to do it.
If you were secure at all within yourself, you'd ditch that man who your so unhappy with and find yourself a decent one. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/11/2006 10:27:29 AM | I dont care who my boyfriend looks at, just as long as he's not rubber-necking 5000,
theres plenty of time when Im not around where he can look all he wants.
Its called respect and consideration. | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 10:30:18 AM | I can't complain about this because there are times I have to be careful not to drop my jaw when I am on a date and a hot guy walks by. It's human nature...no big deal.
A good relationship is where you both look at the opposite sex together over drinks. It's a great pastime if you're secure in your partner. Your life will be long and frustrating if you let that sort of thing make you jealous. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/11/2006 11:38:10 AM | | omg..since when do you give up being male when you not single...omg how insecure can you get.....ok now get this.... CONTROL FREAKS went out in the 50s....oh and another thing....dump the one your with before you go LOOKING for another one you hypcrytical whinebag!!!!! ( her profile states in relationship..lookin to trade up) more or less...you only get what you give i guess...either that or she so manipulative she expects her significant other will read this and change his ways...hahahahaha good luck..petty things occupy petty minds | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 11:56:08 AM | I own a house, am I not allowed looking at other beautiful houses?
I own a car, am I not allowed looking at other beautiful cars?
I’m in a relationship with a beautiful woman, am I not allowed looking at other beautiful women?
I really like the comparison that one of the previous posters made. Guy’s get ragged out for looking at another girl, but girls expect us to be okay with them dancing with a stranger at the club.
I guess it comes down to the way people look at things. Like when a girl breaks off 3 or 4 dates in a row, she say’s its okay because she’s following her heart (to her g/f’s, she tells the guy an excuse). The guy will say she’s flaky. | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 12:10:31 PM |
I own a house, am I not allowed looking at other beautiful houses?
I own a car, am I not allowed looking at other beautiful cars?
But you don't OWN the wife....
She may own YOU, but....
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Posted: 9/11/2006 12:41:57 PM | | eastsideeddie - rubber necking means turning one's head to stare streight at someone for a long period of time and is very obvious.....it has nothing to do with where I am from, its a common term used everywhere, where have you been? | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/11/2006 12:49:19 PM | Shut up
Please
not just for me
or for the ppl on this board
but, for yourself
shutup
Yah, it may have been rude like Squirrly pointed out, but it made me snort pop out through my nose...gawd I forgot how funny these forums can be!!
OT -- sweetie, everyone looks!! Relax, and scope out the hotties yourself!! | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/11/2006 12:50:41 PM | My boyfriend's a booty guy, and he will point out a nice one, poke me in the ribs and make some funny comment about this or that booty. He knows that I'm secure, and that I won't be jealous. I know he thinks my booty is the best one on earth. I'll play like I'm mad, but then I'll smile and tell him he's a freak
The thing is that you're being insecure by saying "why can't he be happy with just you?" He's with you, isn't he? He's always going to look at a pretty body or a lovely face, but if he's not going up to them asking them out or trying to get next to them, then go home and show him your assets and let him know you're thankful he's going home with you. | |
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