| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/11/2009 5:34:16 PM | "It's ok to look.....just not too long! Hell, I look..I got eyes in my head too! I also know when to look away."
Well said. I appreciate beauty in either gender and am likely to look. Some I am likely to look just because their clothing or style has caught my interest.
The difference is in lusting. Never ok to lust. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/11/2009 5:51:12 PM | | Don't be such a control freak. I know deep down every female has the want to rule the world but they cant so they endeavor in the closest thing possible which is known as marriage. Just because a man has interest or love for you doesn't mean he is completely consumed by you. Why is it that a man engaged in watching sport strikes the same attention seeking spawn of jealousy that lies when he glances at another girl only because of natural instinctual attractive attributes. My advise is to be happy with what you have in life and accept that there are millions of people in lesser control of their lives to the point where they struggle to afford to feed themselves or a loved one and do not have the option of walking into a sex shop and purchasing a set of edible underwear with a vibrating CoKc-ring (miss-spelt intentionally) for the joys of pleasuring each other in an intimate moment for which everything else is forgotten but only the expression and pleasure of one another. You cant rule the world but u can have small doses if u don't get 2 greedy.. and yeah get over urself.. its hard to come across a female who is religious and believes in purpose of life.. and if there is an scientific relevance to this argument.. its called genetics and instincts of mating. Men are attracted to big boobs, without this? the world wouldn't be as populated as it is. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/12/2009 1:35:12 PM | Quit whining and get over it.
Most females look at men, but many men either don't notice this or ignore this. I don't know how many times in malls, airports, etc. I have noticed females twist their heads around so fast to check out some young man that I am amazed their heads did not twist off.
Men are also accused of crude, locker room talk. That is nothing compared with what I have heard females saying when they thought no men could hear them. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/13/2009 6:34:14 AM | | ok great question but another question is why do women deny it when they look at other men? its ok to look but know your boundaries dont just stare and drool over someone when ur with ur significant other or out on a date | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/13/2009 8:17:32 AM | are you kidding me....
if a hot pair of wranglers walks by-i'm looking...
looking is perfectly normal....
doing it in such a way that is disrespectful isn't right....
yes, i'd expect him to notice some hot chic...i might even get his attention to look at her...but if he's sitting there with drool dripping off his chin-then, we've got a problem.... | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/15/2009 5:43:51 AM | | People are not naturally civilized they are a product of there environment. Beneth it all we have animal urges just like the lions and tigers and bears. Mankind is actually becoming less civilized. It makes it easier to control you. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/15/2009 6:06:08 AM | You're kidding right?
Come on now.
Unless you are the best woman on the planet, we'll always look at other women. We also WANT TO BANG the other women too. Doesn't mean we will, but we want to. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/18/2009 12:52:16 PM | my thought.
well the best thing its seems by what i have read there is a difference between looking and staring men know what that means.
so dont get annoyed and by what the men seem to answer on this site just change the situation there are a lot of nice younger than your man /men to look at and when he asks you why just give him the same answer.
try it. | |
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Joined: 5/16/2009
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 2:22:56 AM |
I love to people watch ...the couple walking in the mall a sexy girly jiggles by... the man looks (he can't help it) ...then he quick glances at his women to see if she noticed...aww crap she did ommm he's in trouble!
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Joined: 5/16/2009
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 2:26:56 AM | me personally ....when ever possible ..if iam going out with a women & were at a cafe or restaurant ....i try to arrange that my back is turned to the rest of the people ...thats just a part of being a gentlemen
it cant always happen ...but i try ! | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 4:01:04 AM | I have been looked at many times by men -I have looked at other men while on date.
Everybody looks!
Couple of times I have seen men getting slapped over this"looking thing".
My thoughts"Man, you got yourself problems-run, run ,run".
I also had a date with this one fellow who actually stated to me that he looks but would not appreciate my looking at other men...............see ya! | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 4:04:27 AM | | OP you cannot honestly say you never in your life checked out some eye candy while you were in a relationship. Everyone looks. Everyone has crazy stuff in their head that they would never act out. A nice escape from reality from time to time is nice. How else could we define sanity without insanity? Bottom line looking is harmless and practically everyone is going to do it. You are simply noticing the ones who aren't trying so hard to hide it. The only time you should worry is if the person starts flirting vocally. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 7:53:31 AM |
why is it that a man cant be happy with just you? And why also do they have to lie about it, when they have been caught looking at other girls. Surely if they are happy with someone, they wouldnt feel the need to look at other women?!
Maybe they're just not happy with "YOU". Seriously, you get mad about where your guys eyes go? Take a look in the mirror, are you really so hot that a man could not possibly gaze upon anyone else? Get real. | |
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Joined: 5/17/2009
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 9:58:25 AM | | Unless you are insecure it should not bother you. "It's ok to look at the menu when on a diet, just don't eat" I would expect a woman I was with to look at other guys as well, doesn't mean she is going to jump them or anything but it is human nature to look. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 10:02:56 AM | | Unless you are a gawking fool, I see no harm. In fact, I'll point out women to the men I'm seeing if I think they are wearing something nice or perhaps a musculature I'm working to get etc. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 10:05:37 AM | I like looking at other men, and women.
Nothing wrong with this, perhaps you should be more concerned with why it bothers you?
Insecurity is never an attractive feature. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 10:37:28 AM | Because they can ! I look at women and men all the time . That's why many of us love to watch movies and TV - to see people . Some are exceptionally beautiful , others are fascinating , or interesting , or remarkably talented - or are just average folks living their lives . All are fun to watch .
Humans have always been interested in other humans . And hetero men will always be interested in looking at women !
They can be perfectly happy with you - and still want to look !
Might it be you're abit insecure about yourself ??? | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 10:51:17 AM | | I don't care if my boyfriend / husband ( at the time ) looks at another woman. There is a difference between acknowledeging another attractive woman and wanting to hit on her. Heck, I will look at an attractive man when I see one. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 8:45:11 PM | None of the attractivce women care.
What it really boils down to is that jealousy stems from self consciousness, so self confident people don't care much.
I sure don't. | |
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