| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 9:21:25 PM | The concensus seems to be that males look at other women; women check out other guys....Geez, let me know when the right to look changes so I can can start up a "blinder business"....
Women as well as men are wired to notice someone who is attractive... I currently live on the ocean with paved running and biking paths...When I am out on my patio and a nice looking guy goes by, you better believe I notice and when I am out running the men check me out.... It's good for the ego.........as well as my health. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 9:31:22 PM | LOL, talking about over reacting... Common, it is not just men. We all look at someone who catches our eyes. So what???
Would u dump ur love one just because u run into someone much hotter then the one u r with?
There are always more beautiful women then u r or vice versa. Give some credit to men, you know. They are not all dogs just because they are looking at other women. Whoever u r with, if he truly cares for u, he is not going to leave u for next woman he glances at. If that happens, actually you should be happy that u lost him. :)
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 10:02:23 PM | A man looking at another woman is natural, It has nothing to do with you or how he feels about you...or whether or not he is happy. If he starts touching is when you should be concerned.
he lies about it because you don't make it comfortable for him to say so. If he looks at another pretty girl so what because at the end of the day he chose to be with you, so do your best to keep it that way and give him some slack on that tight leash of yours before you push him to run away! | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 5/20/2009 11:02:45 PM | i think it would be naive to think that the person were with wouldnt still look at other people they find attractive even if they love us or are with us.theres nothing wrong with looking.evryone is human.and evryone is attracted to more than one person in the world.the difference is we dont want to be with or we dont fall in love with all thoses people tough.we choose one person that we click with and that we feel attracted to and we decide to be faithfull and love that person.
and secondly looking at other people and finding them attractive is normal and o.k. but when it becomes wrong is when u look and stare in the presence of your partner and being obvious about it.then it becomes rude and becomes totally unaceptable and a total lack of respect.
plus just cause someoen finds another person attractive beside theyre partner doesnt mean they will want to date this person like the person they are with.
personally for me looks arent enough.it takes a lot more than just attraction to make me want to date someone.if the personality is not there looks dont go far.
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/12/2009 10:40:29 AM | mr camelot that is a great reply women should be thankful her boyfriend/husband/boss/sugar daddy /pimp is checking out a chick ....all men are pigs and we like checking out a nice broad there is nothing wrong with looking/staring/ogling/salivating over a hot peice of a@@ ts healthy women if they are insecure should noty be going out with her other if she canot hack it ..its healthy ...like women do not think about other men ,......right !!!! they are ust more sneaky thatn guys   | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/12/2009 10:53:16 AM | Mr Camelot: Just be happy he's not looking at men........
YEAH baby. you got it, or be glad he is not
checking out women for what they are wearing, as in what they are wearing.
You heard the one about the guy who said he wanted to get into " " panties,
then she got upset when she found him wearing them ~panties~ when they got back to
her place.
The problem I see is when men look and try to employ Xray vision or heat
vision to burn chicks skirts off. That is over the line, but I look at
other women occasionally, sometimes just to see what I managed to dodge
to end up with who I have got. What steams me is when I've viewed the smorgeous
borg I've dodged, and internally counted my lucky stars; the girlfriend will smack me
silly for ~ looking ove r the fence at greener grasses.~ Nothing could be
further from the truth and such an assumption only makes me wish I had
passed my phone number out.
Check the guy, tell him checking out others makes you feel devalued, and
do a reassess on the relationship. Is there something bothering him lately about
your relationship dynamic. You would be surpriseed how complex guys are, despite
the lies of Hollywood.
Littlebear4181
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/12/2009 4:23:00 PM | Well, men look. You can either gorge his eye out, or you can look too. Don't get jealous, get even! You'll have more success if you change your own attitude than to convince him not to look.
I know, I know. Easier said than done. I've ran into the same type of problem and I find it insulting, but mostly because I don't look at other men. It's not because I'm all virtuous and shit, but that I have a more subdued interest in men and sex. So anyway, there's really not much you can do. There's a reason why most people aren't faithful, and that's because we're not wired for monogamy. If you look at other countries, a monogamous relationship is actually deviating from the norm of human sexual behavior. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/12/2009 7:04:57 PM | How about: have a little respect?
Look all you want when you aren't with him/her.
When you are together....have a little respect and keep your eyes on your momentary romantic interest.
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/12/2009 9:24:19 PM |
On a side note, I find that I am getting tired of hearing the word "p U s s Y" used to describe things that are weak and lame, and "balls" to describe boldness, courage, daring, and chutzpah. Especially when you consider that a c U n T is tough and resilient enough to pass a baby through it, and balls are really remarkably fragile little guys that can disable a whole guy with one strategic blow.
 Quoting my reply from dainty's profile. Cos men are weakened by their dangly bits, like a compass gone off kilter.............
So I think I'm going to engage in some turnabout, although I haven't quite got the wording down yet. I'm inclined to say that someone doing something really strong and bold has got a real c U n T on them, partly because I find it offensive that a word that just means "vagina" has been turned into such a slur, and partly because I'm dirty and I just like to say "cunt". "
...........but the benefit is that their GFs can just use their "c*nts" on them.   | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/12/2009 11:18:37 PM | | it pissed me off when my ex did this too, a qucik glance n thts fine, theres always people/things tht will catch ur eye, but when he watched them walk by or stred longer than 2 seconds that pissed me off, especially if was some tramp in a tiny skirt n u could see her ass almost, so what i did, i went n bought a tiny skirt, got dressed n sed r we off out then, he was NOT happy at all, n said shit like im not having people see you like that, your not that type of girl, guys think things of girls wearin things like that n thats that they are easy. n so i said but i want to wear it, i know u like it. he looked puzzled at this and then he got the point, lol after that as soon as a girl walked by id loook at him n he would either stop n kiss me or look at the floor untill thy wr out of view, because its about respect, dont do something ur partner doesnt like if you dont like it when they awtich the tables n say ok, u do tht, il dress like tht too, just for you. u see??? he may have looked when i wasnt around but hey u cant watch some one 24/7 and at least he wasnt making me look stupid by lookin at girls when i was walking holdin his hand . | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/12/2009 11:27:48 PM | | It’s not just men who look at other women when they’re in a relationship women do it too. We look at other me, and there is nothing wrong with looking as long as their tongue isn’t hanging out and they’re drooling. Most often its pearly physical attraction, you can be in a relationship with someone and still find other people attractive. The problem would come if the guy chose to do more then look. Which they sometimes do, but then would you really want to be with him anyway? | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2009 9:09:52 AM | Nothing wrong with looking, yes they all do it. So do we, however its when it goes further than just looking that becomes the problem.
As for the poster who made the post you know where they go home with at the end of the night, that sounds like the you know where they lay their head at night, not necissarly so that they aren't doing something. My ex used to tell me that all the time, "Think about where I lay my head at night" Yet he was downstairs sleeping with the neighbor who he ended up dumping me for, then did it to her with a friend of hers...and still came home like nothing happened....
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2009 11:51:18 AM | | no, all men don't gawk at women in the present of their woman. it's a natural thing to want to look or glance at a person, woman, man, baby or ugly or good looking couple. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2009 11:57:31 AM | I'm not a man . But when I'm in a relationship , you can bet I still look ! We were all given eyes , so as to be able to appreciate the beauty that is all around us , and some of that comes in the form of other PEOPLE !
You may find if you hold the reins too tightly on your partner - they just might bust loose ... | |
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