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If anything I find women check out other women more than what men do...obviously for different reasons though....I must admit it's never bothered me if my man looks at another woman because I alway spoil his fun by commenting on how good she looks anyway.
And I am once again reminded of why I love you for more than your looks, ArabianAngel...
Now... onto my perspective as to "why do men always have to look at other women!!"... and for me the answer is that it's part of my lifestyle to appreciate beauty.
And I don't hide it. And I don't mind if a girl talks to me about a guy she finds attractive.
It's liberating to be able to talk about who's hot and who's not with someone you date. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/23/2009 4:06:12 PM |
And I am once again reminded of why I love you for more than your looks, ArabianAngel...
Only I didn't finish my post off lol...you see MY man would have no reason to look at another girl...that's**** for ya!  | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/23/2009 4:17:28 PM | | ^^^ Well that's fine... just as long as you don't mind my eyes burning into you All The Time... look at the 2nd picture in from the right in my profile to understand what you'd be in for... | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/23/2009 4:40:41 PM | | you must look, even if she's a minger, its natural, i understand though, cause i used to be insecure myself, but for you to say that, you must of been hurt in the past or by your current partner so dont be too hard on yourself luv, trust will build if they are trustworthy if you feel that way they must of done something to make them untrustworthy, am i right?? | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/23/2009 4:51:02 PM |
even if she's a minger
Blimey... we have a UK person here!
I had to look up what minger meant... I think the Urban Dictionary provides the best definition of "a male or female who fell out of the ugly tree at birth and hit every branch on the way down."
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/23/2009 4:52:09 PM | why is it that a man cant be happy with just you? And why also do they have to lie about it, when they have been caught looking at other girls. Surely if they are happy with someone, they wouldnt feel the need to look at other women?!
Some people get by
With a little understanding
Some people get by
With a whole lot more
I don't know
Why you gotta be so undemanding
One thing I know
I want more
I want more
(and I need all the love that I can't get to)
(and I need all the love I can get)
(and I need all the love that I can't get to)
Sisters of Mercy - "More"
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/23/2009 9:27:27 PM | I learned a long time ago that this can be an issue for most women.
Speaking for myself, Im only human and a straight man and I love women.Its only natural that Im gonna wanna look and sometimes I just react with out any control like if a woman with big boobs (and I mean huge) walks by,Im just gonna react by looking but come on,you would too.Everyone around would; both male and female.
However,I would not stare at another woman in front of my dates or look for other women intentionally to stare at,let alone the woman I'm in a serious relationship with.Its called RESPECT.Even if I didnt think it was a big deal,I still know that it would be to most woman and I wouldnt do it.
The only reason I ever did this and then tried to turn it around like the girl had the problem is when I didnt really care too much about the girl I was with to begin with.And that was when I was younger and immature.Its minipulation to have things your way and be in control.And when your naive,it works.
Theres plenty of time,plenty of moments your girl won't be around you and plenty of women on earth to look at.Its not that hard or big a deal to restrain yourself for a while during the time you spend with your woman.And when Im REALLY into my girl,I dont care what other girls are around anyway.
Something to think about and don't listen to others telling you you are insecure for feeling the way you do cause I agree with you.If you are tolerating this behavior from your man and dont believe you desreve or can do better,maybe then I would say you were insecure.Good Luck. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/24/2009 3:56:01 AM | OP ~ First of all, you should have said why do SOME men...
Because not all men are like this. And don't forget, some women look too.
And, that's part of life so the sooner you accept it, the better off you are.
Just because someone looks at a member of the opposite sex does not indicate they are not happy with you. We are simply "wired" to appreciate beauty, in what ever form it is...flowers, clothes, homes, food and, my gawd, other people!
Try not to over think this situation or you can drive yourself crazy  | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/24/2009 6:20:58 AM |
If you had reached for the girl's ass or vice versa, she'd have been on your case all night.
Whoa. My man just looking and my man reaching for some other girl's ass are two very, very different things. Now, if she reaches for his, can't say I blame her, and we'd both have a good laugh about it. | |
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Posted: 9/26/2009 7:07:33 AM | | Preach it! That all stems from insecurity! I believe if a women will be everything to her man.....she has less chance of him going astray.....but he will always look, that is how God made him! Also, don't try to control everything he does.....men hate that!! If they are looking why not comment on how pretty she is or her nice hair! That will show that you are unafraid and not jealeous or intimadated by other women. Your man will then feel comfortable sharing anything with you......and isn't that what you really want?? Just a thought......maggi | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/26/2009 7:25:51 AM | There's nothing wrong with a man looking at other women when he's happy with the woman he's involved with. My married brothers like looking at attractive women, but that's all it is. A woman is attractive, he looks ad that's it. No harm in it. I like to look at attractive men and did so when I was married -- but I just looked and forgot about him.
Why is it a man can't be happy with just you? An entirely different question. But if you think your man isn't happy with you because he likes looking at other women and you think he's lying when he says "It's not like that", then you have to wonder why you don't trust him. If everything else in the relationship is fine, accept the fact he's a normal bloke who likes looking at pretty women. He's human! | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/26/2009 8:11:44 AM | Ha ...listen....My ex used to blatantly make it obvious to look at other girls in front of me all the time,once he commented on how pretty this blonde was!! I was like "well hey why don't you just go and get her number then?"naturally a petty little argument ensues ..followed by me " damn I know you look but it's not necessary for you to point out other chicks that you find hot"
foward 2 yrs. later and( btw he did curb that break his neck routine) when we broke up
he fessed to me by saying..." I was doing that sh!t to make SURE you really liked me...and I wanted to make you jealous"
ok oh yeah it worked azzhole....
so my point is.......if it starts to resemble my scenario ...call him out on it!
Is he discreet in looking? Then reel those triggers in to want to go for his throat!
oh and also.....WE do that too.......its just women need but to take a second to up and down a guy...LOL | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/26/2009 11:32:07 AM | | it's their nature, just accept it and you will be much happier. it's like telling a dog not to chase a cat.....just natural instinct. just cause they look don't mean they aren't happy with you...get a little self confidence, and when he does look, u look too and then make a rude comment about her, that usually makes u feel better about it, but he's got to agree with you....lol | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/26/2009 12:48:34 PM | Imagine walking in a crowded shopping mall, you and your boyfriend are talking, and as you look up, he's face to face with a gorgeous blond.
He's looking at her...he has no choice....he's also crapping himself, because he knows that if he looks down, he's looking at her boobs....he doesn't know where to look, and he's trying to find a way out.....but he's still looking at her.....
There is more than one way of looking at a person....many more than one.
In this situation, this guy is face to face with a gorgeous blond, but is he really LOOKING at her? No....he's trying to get away from her.
Just because someone is looking at someone, it doesn't mean that they are LOOKING at them.
I do a double-take every now and then. Sometimes, it's because I think it might be someone I know.....sometimes I'm LOOKING.
And appreciating beauty is a natural instinct. I probably look at as many women, as I do men....I think a beautiful woman can be more pleasing to the eye, than a handsome man.....more variables to look at. Men get more interesting once their clothes are off. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/26/2009 1:49:11 PM | | Its completley normal, and I have no problem with it, I also have a lot of respect for men, I think, to much is asked of them. It's really quiet natural at the end of the day! | |
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Posted: 9/26/2009 2:06:56 PM | I dont know why women get all pissed off when a guy looks at another woman. Who cares! Let him look! A glance is not that big of a deal... really its not! and the reason why they tell you lies when caught? Is because you give him royal sh!t the last time he did it. Why dont you look at her too and admire her beauty with him. Do you really think we were meant to just look at one person face the rest of our lives and never notice another? Frig I hope not!
I'm not saying notice and wonder off with her , or to comment on her nice booty in front of you, that's just plain rude. But to take notice of someone else that happens to look good too! Do you not think he doesnt notice when another guy is checking us out? Sure he does, and he doesnt turn to you and say why were you looking at him? Did you encourage him to do that? And you dont tell him off either and say don't look at me. No... you smile at him and enjoy the feeling it gave you and move on.
We will never be able to stop men from looking at other woman. There is always gonig to be someone that might steal the lime light for all of 30 seconds!
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/26/2009 3:35:03 PM | I had a boyfriend who, whenever we were on a date, would find an attractive woman and smile broadly at her and wink at her while I was sitting with him. One time, a very pretty young lady was chatting with "us" and he became engrossed in talking to her and ignoring me for over an hour. I got up to leave and he said "don't go" and I said "what do you need me here for?" and I left.
It was humiliating, the way he was acting. That's where I draw the line. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/26/2009 5:01:49 PM | ^^^^^ I would have drawn the line long before an hour went by. That is a long time to sit and watch two people engrossed in one another while being ignored.
There is a big difference in a man looking at another woman with a glance and making advances on one while in the company of his girlfriend. Not to mention it doesnt say much about her now does it. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/26/2009 5:17:52 PM | | Don't we all look, males and females? If you are dating someone, do you really expect to wear blinders. Could you not turn it around, he is looking, but he chooses to be with me. After all we are talking about LOOKING. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/26/2009 5:28:27 PM | | because u wanted us 2 look at u trough physical attraction and it worked you think its going to stop when u get a bf, every other womens doing it 2..u want to find a guy thats not a pig dont use ur body to atract him.....I know hard | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/26/2009 6:10:35 PM | It might be because they have something called eyes. My motto is, "You can look at the menu, just don't order."
Like you have never been guilty of looking at a very attractive man while you were dating, engaged or married.
Us women though, we're more sly about it. We look at the eye candy from the corner of our eyes without changing facial expressions. I have however seen a man so handsome that I nearly gave myself whiplash once. | |
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