| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/26/2009 5:17:52 PM | | Don't we all look, males and females? If you are dating someone, do you really expect to wear blinders. Could you not turn it around, he is looking, but he chooses to be with me. After all we are talking about LOOKING. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/26/2009 5:28:27 PM | | because u wanted us 2 look at u trough physical attraction and it worked you think its going to stop when u get a bf, every other womens doing it 2..u want to find a guy thats not a pig dont use ur body to atract him.....I know hard | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/26/2009 6:10:35 PM | It might be because they have something called eyes. My motto is, "You can look at the menu, just don't order."
Like you have never been guilty of looking at a very attractive man while you were dating, engaged or married.
Us women though, we're more sly about it. We look at the eye candy from the corner of our eyes without changing facial expressions. I have however seen a man so handsome that I nearly gave myself whiplash once. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/15/2009 11:40:12 AM | | I've always felt that it's rude to throw attractions to others in the face of the person you're with. We are all going to find other people attractive in the world, but I think we can keep it to ourselves out of respect for the feelings of the person we're with. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/15/2009 1:31:16 PM | OP,
looking at beautiful things, not just women, doesn't mean you aren't happy with what you have. Good Grief. I say other things because I have a passion for antique cars and when I see a beauty I get this feeling (just like seeing a beautiful woman). Doesn't mean I going to dump the car I have!! I'm happy with the one I have for many reasons. Certain things I see will make me take a second look.
I totally agree with the last poster. It's all in how you react that can be the concern.
Get my point? | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/15/2009 1:36:19 PM | | Just be glad your man isnt checking out other men.....then...maybe you should be worrying.....and you may want to try to work on your insecurities.....that...is a major relationship drag...... | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/15/2009 2:27:25 PM | | Its human nature to make passes at women, everyone does it. I think what your issue is making passes in your presence, if it an obvious pass its sort of rude to be doing it with your date. But people will always make passes were human beings and find many others attractive, its not a problem, only if there rude and doing it your presence. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/15/2009 2:43:44 PM |
Its human nature to make passes at women, everyone does it.
Huh? It is not human nature for a man or woman (in a relationship) to make a pass at the opposite gender. This thread is about LOOKING, not making a pass. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/16/2009 10:07:03 AM | Why do women always look at other people's cars, houses, clothes, etc, and want more than they have? Why can't they be happy with what their man gives them, instead of trying to have what the neighbors, tv stars, or whatever have?
Get the point?
Each gender does it's bit of emotional yearning/infidelity,etc in it's own way. The important thing is that it does not matter where one gets his/her appetite...as long as he/she comes home to eat. Guys who are involved, but make it obvious that they are appreciating the looks of another woman, are tactless boys at heart. Date a real man, and you won't have that problem.
BTW, have you-while dating someone-never looked at a hot movie/music star? If you have, you have no right to complain when your man does the same. Grow up little girl. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/16/2009 11:22:03 AM | I don't see a problem with it. We've got eyes. Like a commercial I saw that the guy was checking out the hot girls with the mirror on his phone only to be interrupted by his girl friend who texted him. Only to roll her eyes and laugh.
Now when I'm in a relationship I am still going to look but not stare. Right now I look and sometimes stare. I get caught if I want to get caught. That way she knows I'm interested.
It's a good way to get noticed sometimes.
Best of luck to everyone | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/16/2009 2:13:59 PM | Are you serious? I'd think something is wrong with my significant other if he didn't at least check out some hot girl. I'd be checking her out with him.
It has nothing to do with your man and him not being happy with you. He's WITH you, isn't he. He isn't over there groping the other girl, he just looked.
I think you have some insecurity issues that need to be dealt with. It's human nature to look at something beautiful. It's also human nature to drool like a dog when the meat looks that good.
I seriously can't believe some of you woman! *slap* | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/16/2009 3:16:59 PM | | I was out in public with my woman, recently, ands some hot chick came strolling by. My gal looked at her, and seemed upset...as the other gal was younger, slimmer, etc. I looked at the other gal, and said: "she's hot." Then, I turned to my gal, and said: "but you're hotter." Then I hugged, and kissed, my gal. My gal had been thinking silently that I might prefer the other gal, so I re-assured her that I prefer her...my gal. Rather than continuing to worry that I might want the other chick, my gal got: re-assurance, a hug, a kiss, and a compliment, out of the situation. I did not stare at the other gal, drool over her, compare my gal unfavorably to her, or such. Guys who do othewrwise are tactless morons, and deserve the trouble they earn themselves. Of course, I do my thinking with the big head on my shoulders, rather than with the small head in my pants. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/16/2009 3:29:51 PM | I must say I agree with Funny Girl.
Men and women do a lot of looking at each other. It's a healthy thing not someone to feel insecure about - unless the person is intensely groping with their eyes.
Your question is more to do with how you perceive the situation rather than how the opposite sex behave. You could look at the situation though a different lense.
Chereme | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/16/2009 4:33:56 PM | Theres alot of eye candy in the world and both men and women do it, its just like a pretty flower people automatically want to look at something that looks nice, its innocent.
Now when they make comments constantly about other women than there may be a problem, but if hes just looking relax..... | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/16/2009 4:45:26 PM |
why is it that a man cant be happy with just you? And why also do they have to lie about it, when they have been caught looking at other girls. Surely if they are happy with someone, they wouldnt feel the need to look at other women?!
I personally like to look at women because I appreciate beautiful women. Nothing sinister about it, no plans for sleeping with them, I take one glance as they walk by and am done with it.
Looking hurts no one. It's unrealistic to expect anyone to stop looking, whether they're single, dating or married. If they ogle women (looking too long or drooling) or cheat on you, that's where the line is drawn. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/16/2009 7:34:49 PM | This girls a blind blundering sees the world blindly. Yes u OP!!!! If u want to believe only men do such things but women don't ur ddddduumb!!! So, why ask a retarded male-hating sounded question?  | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/17/2009 9:50:22 AM | I do not like it if a man is looking intently at another woman while we are
together. It makes me feel uncomfortible and takes away from the
quality of our time together.
I'm not insecure or jealous. I am just giving him my total attention and
appreciate the same. When I'm with someone I'm with just them. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/17/2009 3:58:20 PM | I once dated a guy who would actually turn to me and say "she's attractive eh?" or I would comment on clothes a woman was wearing and he would look at her. I didn't have a problem with it.
So we would admire good looking "items" (people, things etc.) together!
I guess it depends on the relationship and the two people involved. | |
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| why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 11/17/2009 4:27:52 PM | | Not all men go around looking at other women once they've committed to one. I don't even have that option available to me. That being said, I expect a woman who loves me not to get offended if I still converse with other women. Life gets pretty boring if one limits each other's possible friends and associates. Given what I've heard about how sight works, I would suspect that it would be pretty much impossible not to look at and be biologically attracted to other women at least a little during the corse of a day. The real issue is whether one actively seeks such opportunities due to a real or perceived deficiency in a relationship. Presuming I'm fortunate enough to find a woman to love, she won't ever have to fear my being unfaithful to her. A good relationship is hard enough work without introducing that sort of trouble into it. A clear conscience is worth more than any momentary guilty pleasure. | |
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