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 EastSideEddie
Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 76
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Oh no, justme, those old men are walking the mall to get their daily cardiovascular exercise in.

Damn it! I ALMOST made it all the way through that without laughing!!
 justme1202
Joined: 7/26/2006
Msg: 77
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/11/2006 7:10:02 PM
oh really??? i always thought they were lost and couldnt find their way home.
 horseygirlclare
Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 78
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why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/12/2006 12:59:55 AM
whats your problem?
 XxcharlxX
Joined: 6/20/2006
Msg: 79
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/12/2006 1:08:55 AM
well its not just men in my oppinion...i gotta have a look at men 2! n as far as im concerned its ok 2 look...ur doing nothing wrong realy...n anywayz some women like it!..makes dem feel nice about there selves i suppose...n like men love it wen women have a glance!
 horseygirlclare
Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 80
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why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/12/2006 1:15:11 AM
ok thanks for all ur comments. Eventhough some were unnessesary and rude! There is no need for that. Yeah i am young, doesnt mean im immature tho! Its not the looking that annoys me, its the lying about it!!!
 *Handyman*
Joined: 8/22/2006
Msg: 81
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/12/2006 6:44:05 AM
A woman spends like an hour making herself look just right she polishes her nails and perfectly crafts her makeup, She works out or diets and does all these things so that she can look a certain degree of sexy in those tight jeans and then she buys a bra that lifts her breasts just the right amount so they appear perfect and then she finally goes out to do whatever it is she has to do during the day.
After all this primping and preening it would almost be rude not to appreciate her for a second. It would be like going to an art gallery and not looking at the art.
 Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Acid
Joined: 4/6/2006
Msg: 82
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 12:06:54 PM
Msg 80: Welcome to reality.

[Enjoy your stay.]
 EastSideEddie
Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 83
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 12:17:38 PM
Hey, you asked.

If you don't like what you hear, make up your own truth like everybody else does.
 Indigo Rose
Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 84
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 12:25:55 PM
When I pass the bakery I like to stare at the glazed donuts and drool...But *sigh* I don't eat them...men see something yummy they look... not a bad thing and it's not a big deal!
My ex and I were walking in the park and we saw this drop dead beautiful woman and he said "hey if we could put your head on her body we would have the perfect woman"...of course I socked him he laughed... then I took him down to the ground and bit his ear he cried
 Banana79
Joined: 2/6/2006
Msg: 85
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 1:11:10 PM
OP...if it's the lying about it that bothers you so much, then don't name your thread "why do men always have to look @ other women" !!! You have to admit that you needed a bit of a reality check.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 86
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Posted: 9/13/2006 1:18:28 PM
I guess I would have to wonder about any woman that questions her man with regard to his habit of looking at attractive women. Why ask him? We all know that they look ~ so what? It's when they are looking to find that there is a problem. I look. I love handsome/gorgeous men. I may not do it noticably ~ but I still look. And, I have been known to point out gorgeous women. If you aren't secure with yourself and your relationship ~ you need to work on YOU, not him. Good luck OP.
 sweets4u27
Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 87
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 1:51:33 PM
O.K.... So I think alot of you women are looking as this with the wrong attitude!
I'm going to try and help you open your eyes!

1. If your in a relationship with a man, and your driving or walking...whatever, and another man looks at you, do you not take that as a compliment...As I still got it! I'm desired by other men!

2. When your in a relationship with a man, do walk through life with your eyes closed?
Are you honestly trying to tell me that you don't look and lust other men!

I'm going to make an assumption here, and say your not that experienced with relationships,
nor are you 100% sure about you, or your sexuality!
There is nothing wrong with taking a glimpse, however if either party are looking around as-though they have a bullet with their name on it...then theres a problem!

I hope I have given you a new thought process!

xoxo
 sddude
Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 88
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 2:21:50 PM
damn , I have to be with a woman in the first place to be able to look at another woman . Crap , not so fortunate , do not know what you guys are talking about or how you , feel . I feel left out
 tmoneyinedmonton
Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 89
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Posted: 9/13/2006 2:23:57 PM
Its ALLL GOOD!

As long as she still shows you she loves you most then its ok to look at whatever!



T$
 georgesk
Joined: 5/14/2006
Msg: 90
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 2:31:02 PM
Some guys can't hep it, because there are a lot of beautiful girls out there. Well, Ces't la vie.
 stoneside
Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 91
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 2:36:32 PM
They lie about it if they're with a woman that has a problem with it. It's a guy thing, we all look. Always have, always will. I TRY to be subtle about it when with a woman, in general I'm not great at subtle but I try. If I get caught, I take my slap on the arm like and man.
 Prudance
Joined: 6/11/2006
Msg: 92
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 2:41:50 PM
Ease up, its a two way street, and I think its healthy!..........You are only looking, its nice if you can admire someone without a significant partner feeling threatened.
 Da Hitman
Joined: 7/20/2006
Msg: 93
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 2:47:02 PM
Back when I had a girlfriend... some time ago... and she would refuse to look at any other guy, even if he was way more attractive than me, I'd run up to the guy, get him in an arm lock and drag him over to her and ask her if he was cuter than me.

She was smart though and always told me he wasn't and I'd have to let him go. But after doing this a few times she'd look at just about every guy we came across even if he was butt ugly. One day I really got sick of this behaviour and started twisting her arm and ask her why she was looking at him and not me.

Hmmm.... maybe that's why I'm single?
 Interdimensional
Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 94
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 2:49:11 PM
We are designed that way. Four billion years of evolution can't be wrong. if you don't like it take it up with the landlord. :)
 Eyes O Blue
Joined: 5/4/2005
Msg: 95
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 3:00:28 PM
A brief glance here and there once in a while is normal and if you are secure with yourself you won't be bothered by it. A long lingering stare in your presence , on the other hand is rude and disrespectful - especially if the mouth is hanging open and actual drool spills out.
 beachbunnie
Joined: 12/6/2005
Msg: 96
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 3:00:29 PM
well horseygirlclare...look at it this way...we look too. it's human nature...although...my jaw is usually not on the floor and i've never eyed below the belt buckle...we still look...just more discreetly because we respect our relationships. chances are...if your boyfriends staring at a hottie....she isn't staring back because he's with you. instead of getting angry or jealous about it....try imitating him the next time you see a hot guy. never know...maybe he'll keep it a bit more discreet next time too.
 texasyellowrose
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 97
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 7:29:40 PM
I've never had a problem with my man looking at other women. I like to look at other men, not because I'm interested in them, but just because I like to look. I can look at a hot guy and think he's hot, but that doesn't mean I'm interested in him for anything else.

I also like to watch people. I like to sit back at events and just watch the people, men and women alike.

I've always felt like if you restrict your mate too much, that will push them out the door.

C
 bucsgirl
Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 98
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Posted: 9/13/2006 7:43:03 PM
People are visual, darn it, it's NOT a male trait.
Usually, it's a woman's insecurity if there's a beautiful woman around when she's out with her man. Trust me, most likely she'll notice her if not first, at the same time. And be watching him to try to "catch" him.
Makes me laugh, geez, I SO nail my galpals when they complain about it. I've seen them do it. The same women who will drool over every guy when I'm out with them....UGH!
Never been a problem with me, if I'm not secure with the man I'm with...well I'm not with him long. And it's not because of him looking at a beautiful woman. If he's my man, I don't need to lock him in a room, or spy on him or demand he take his profile off the internet or this site.
Geez...I would expect he live his life same as he did before we ever met, go out with his friends, pursue his own interests. Whether I go with him or not. Trust to me is an absolute you either have it or you don't.
 hapeenurse
Joined: 5/5/2006
Msg: 99
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 7:51:21 PM
same reason women do, don't lie , we all do it. It's perfectly natural. There is a huge difference between the occasional glance and staring however and to constantly stare at the opposite sex when you are with your sig other/date/whatever is just plain rude.
Doesn't bother me one bit if a guy I'm with looks as a beautiful woman passes by , just as I hope it doesn't bother him when I look at the incredibly cute justin timberlake look alike who works at the mall ........ just sayin...

 Greeneyezz
Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 100
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/13/2006 7:52:29 PM
Because they're good looking.
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