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Posted: 3/17/2005 6:44:52 AM | but to somes defence...if you want a **** buddy with no strings attached...then dont take her out to dinner, dont buy flowers, dont do all the things that you would for a gf. meet only for f*cking. not for anythign else.
I had a Fbud once we would go out to dinner,stay overnight and go to breakfast the next morning,it was no big deal..ah the 80's...... | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 6:52:08 AM | | Holy crap... LOL I suppose i have lived a sheltered life...people are really doing this??? I would not be able to handle it... I make love not have sex | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 10:58:40 AM | Holy crap... LOL I suppose i have lived a sheltered life...people are really doing this??? I would not be able to handle it... I make love not have sex
Yes you have lived a sheltered life.They even wrote a rap song with the lyrics,"I'm into having sex ain't into making love".
Call me obtuse but as far as the sex is concerned good sex depends on how compatible the partners are.The emotions take on another part of the psyche as far as I'm concerned.Maybe I'm different. | |
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Joined: 3/17/2005
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Posted: 3/17/2005 11:02:29 AM | | I perfectly understand what a **** buddy is. I used to have a guy who was my fb, so to speak. He fell in love with me and asked me to move in with him. I liked him a lot. In spite of having many doubts, I agreed to move in with him. Sex was great. We stayed together for 2 years before I realized that we were not compatible. We remained friends and occasionally slept together. He moved to Canada and I will never leave Bean Town. | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 11:34:40 AM | | Oh Xtinah! If only I weren't old enough to be your great Granddaddy in Southie? Say hello to the Esplanade and Landsdowne Street for me! | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 1:38:06 PM | Guys have no idea what to make of a girl like that. She's not a whore. She just wants a NSA, just like a guy. I think it's great...
I agree men also make things more complicated then they have to be sometimes........ | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 1:44:17 PM | Have one...been going on for 4 years...its great.....we do dinner sometimes..but that is only to catch up on whats been going on in our lives and nourishment for what is about to take place.....He is a great guy...but we both know that all we want is sex....THats the way it started and thats the way it will end....I made him aware from the beginning I only wanted sex....Friendship has become part of that relationship but that has worked out great...cuz we are more honest with each other....AND...I get to hear all the dirty little details about who hes been doing..and he gets to hear about who Ive been doing....If I think of something I wanna try ...(or he does)...then we have each other to try it out on.....Works out great....F*** Buddies are the best.......Plus he knows when Im done with him..its time to leave.... | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 1:53:34 PM | I've had f**k buddies in the past. What no one has mentioned is that it is as hard to find that perfect match of two people to share nothing but sex as it is to find true love.
But a f**k buddy can bridge the gap. | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 1:58:40 PM | yeah, that pure animal lust has got to be sated, satisfied, fulfilled. We all gotta have it.
And, may I offer my services if your buddy can't make it... You're special bailey.
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Posted: 3/17/2005 2:10:38 PM | "yes we understand what a f*ck buddy means...
but to somes defence...if you want a **** buddy with no strings attached...then dont take her out to dinner, dont buy flowers, dont do all the things that you would for a gf. meet only for f*cking. not for anythign else.
and i agree with spankie..i had one of these....he wanted to call it bed buddies but wanted to go out n do things outside of the bed. then didnt understand when i started to like someone and wanted a relationship with that someone else. he wanted a relationship with me n couldnt grasp that a bed buddy didnt mean a go out n date relationship.
so my advise is....talk about it before hand. if you two agree to Just f*ck buddies then also agree that if feelings get started to talk right away. not to wait till one had fallen for the other. "
Yeah, I knew of a female friend of mine that, when she was unattached, had an "F buddy", needless to say, she got a new boyfriend in her life...and that meant no more ass for the "F buddy"...needless to say, he got extremely pissed off, and they weren't friends anymore.
Though I find it rather unusual that women don't get emotionally attached when just wanting sex, and then wanting to "Snuggle" afterwards, can women (who is of the more "emotional" gender) NOW have no problem with no strings sex, and now the MAN is getting emotionally attached?
Back in the 80's, you'd always hear some story of a broken hearted woman in tears, when a guy had sex with her, and he didn't "call". I guess women "cry no more"???? | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 2:15:10 PM | van
--Though I find it rather unusual that women don't get emotionally attached when just wanting sex, and then wanting to "Snuggle" afterwards, can women (who is of the more "emotional" gender) NOW have no problem with no strings sex, and now the MAN is getting emotionally attached?--
Seems so.....weird, huh? Some women decided to not let the emotional side get in the way of sex....something many men learned to do generations ago...
Pendulum swings both ways....
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| Do women understand what a fuck buddy is?
Posted: 3/17/2005 2:18:08 PM | I think we'd all agree that it'd be great to find that "someone special" but there's a lot to be said for knowing that someone that you trust not to screw up your life is out there. A woman who will remind you that you are sexy and wanted, and not leaving you doubting yourself in any of those arenas.
I think some people start to doubt themselves after a while and that can lead to making bad decisions (settling) on the dating front. | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 2:23:26 PM | "Pendulum swings both ways...."
Well, it's probably not an issue if BOTH people don't have a problem with it. ;-) Then everyone's happy.
I actually turned down an "F buddy" opportunity, because she was horny...just didn't sit well with me for some reason.
I have to say, the person I'm having sex with, is going to be my significant other, flowers, dinner, dating, traveling, etc. The works. ;-) | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 2:30:33 PM | I lucked in to my F*** buddy.....And Im very glad I did....
Dont have to worry about takin him to dinner...buying him flowers...dating him....Traveling together (accept for the ride home)....etc...He always gets "THE WORKS"...if ya know what I mean.......... | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 3:56:45 PM | | But, my point was that the woman was getting married two days later, meaning she had a significant other, and yet knowing this factoid, y'all still did the nasty. Thats what I disagreed with | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 5:14:43 PM | Call me obtuse but as far as the sex is concerned good sex depends on how compatible the partners are.The emotions take on another part of the psyche as far as I'm concerned.Maybe I'm different.
Agreed, depends on compatibility. Emotions are just a state of mind.
You're different, that is an understatement. You are down right odd. | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 7:41:00 PM | | Looooooong time ago I had one and the rules were understood from the beginning. It was him who tried to make it permanent and I was the one to break it off. So yeah, _some_ women do realize what it is. Some get emotionally attached as it goes on. Why? Because they took it to mean more, they took it a step further within themselves. | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 7:56:21 PM | F_CK BUDDIE RULES....
1) no drama
2) not 2 needy, cause if I wanted needy I would go for a relationship!
3) not demanding
4) keep it friendly
5) upfront about who else you F-ing with or if you have a GF or WIFE
6) no talk of love or of the future | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 9:12:02 PM | takes a special woman to be a **** buddy or be a friend with benefits. works out great, as long as both understand from the beginning that thats what it is. i have had one for almost a year, and love it. i have a few friends with benefits too. love it. i dont get all the drama that comes along with a relationship, dont want it right now in my life.
**** buddy and friend with benefits is the way to go for me.... | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 9:15:44 PM | | I love you simplegrl...you should join our "orgy: thread....Youd fit right in...lol | |
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