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| Fuck Buddy Rules???
Posted: 5/16/2005 8:10:06 PM | BX.. would a little bit of pleasure be worth your childrens heart ache?
If the fbuddy moves on and your kids are attached to them
it just leads to unnecessary pain.
My daughter comes before my gratification
That is why the rules are so harsh with me. | |
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| Fuck Buddy Rules???
Posted: 5/19/2005 7:35:02 AM | | I agree about not inviolving children.I just have just treated my fbuds no differently than I treated my my non fbuds.It's basically the same to me.Just one has sex one doesn't.I've had many in the past and no one,to my knowledge has gotten hurt. | |
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| Fuck Buddy Rules???
Posted: 9/9/2008 9:35:05 PM | I have had fbdy recently, but she turned out to want more.. so much so she was like a stalker..
I dont think women can totally do it without getting some attachment...
Im on this site to find such a buddy.. but I am always wary. Although the older the woman the more likely she wont get attached.
Im 25 now and most of my previous have been younger 18-21 so the older i'e 24-28 sort of range will be less susceptable to the attachment..
Or am I completely wrong here?
Maybe its country by country. Here in UK especially in London women do get attached after sex..
Help me out with your ideas.
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| Fuck Buddy Rules???
Posted: 9/9/2008 9:45:37 PM | **** Buddy Rules???
Perfect. f..have a good time a coffee a talk..then go back to freedom and recharge.
And keep sharp. What can you ask for more? Do you guys look for everything? Do you want it all? What else do you want? The Moon? | |
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| Fuck Buddy Rules???
Posted: 9/9/2008 10:13:39 PM | | i hate when i have a **** buddy and realize he coulda made a better bf than my normal bfs........boo. | |
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| Do women understand what a
Posted: 9/10/2008 1:14:38 AM | I don't like the actual name of the "**** Buddy" prefer the American name of the "booty call" sounds so much nicer and fun. I think that men don't actually understand what it means and women are the ones that know what they really want when it comes to wanting just fun. I also think men don't actually understand what women want now as the role reversal thing has gone way over the mark. We women want our independence but want to be looked after (to me this is completely constradicting itself) we don't actually know what we want and this makes men confused cause they have no clue what game they are playing ( if any game should be played). I get confused myself about men and what they want, so I don't have any hope with the man wondering what I want. I think the last thing people should be getting involved in is "booty calls" as someone always wants more unless the two partners are not single then this is just and affair which is wrong anyway as it always ends up in hurt, I so believe in karma.  | |
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| Do women understand what a
Posted: 9/10/2008 5:18:06 AM | I understand what a FWB is. Had many, and more often than not... the guy wanted more than what I could give.
The friends part of it is important to me (don't confuse this with obsessive emailing and calling of the younger women who think it will develop into love, or a full blown "relationship") and I have to like the person.
But they get too close.... off they go! | |
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| Do women understand what a
Posted: 9/10/2008 5:22:12 AM | | I'm sure you can find them on some street corners or massage parlours, cause really thats what those kind of women are | |
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| Do women understand what a
Posted: 9/10/2008 5:46:21 AM | | It's called giving it away for nothing. No strings attached. Why buy the cow when you're getting the milk for free, as the vulgar saying goes. Personally, I have emotions attached to my sexuality. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2008 9:08:30 AM | | I think as long as you both understand the boundaries you set in the beginning and don't cross them, everything should be great. Sometimes you need that in your life. Not everyone is going to agree with it. They don't have to....just you and your buddy. | |
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| Do women understand what a
Posted: 9/10/2008 10:18:49 AM |
It's called giving it away for nothing. No strings attached. Why buy the cow when you're getting the milk for free, as the vulgar saying goes. Personally, I have emotions attached to my sexuality.
I never liked this expression because it always implies SELLING. It imples that sex is a sellable commodity (which it is, but how many women want to be thought of as prostitutes?) and that the man must make a sacrifice of some sort before he should morally and ethically enjoy sex. If he's not going to commit, then his only other option, according this ethic, is to visit a hooker, which makes him unworthy as a future mate in the eyes of most women due to the "ick" factor.
I've always felt that sex should be a shared experience and all cards should be on the table. If you don't want to commit, then make your intentions known and stick to them. The problem with this kind of honesty, is that it robs the experience of it's spontanaety and takes some of the "game" out of it. Therefore the guy is now back to square one. He ain't getting any if he hasn't got "game", and if he's not looking to commit, just wants an Fbud or "booty call", his "game" must be compromised if he intends on being honest.
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| Do women understand what a
Posted: 9/10/2008 10:29:19 AM | Well this is probably Murphy's law for me, but I seem to see more and more women wanting their sex like men.
When I was with my ex it seemed all the women we met had F buddies, and most of her friends as well.
I'm sure now that I'm on my own again, I'll only meet women who are already thinking what to get for our silver anniversary. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2008 10:51:56 AM | | I've had fvck buddies before. The problem is that eventually one or the other will want more. It is easy when it's the other person. But it does happen. It did happened to me, that I suddenly developed very strong feelings for her. Ouch! So yeah, I fvcked up. So I had to end it. | |
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Posted: 9/11/2008 8:44:37 AM | | I know what it is but not interested in it at this time. any advice on how to tell a new guy that i really don't want that sort of a relationship? i'm not against it per se but just not wanting it right now. do i just be blunt and say if that is what you want, i am not for you? i don't want to scare him off but don't want him to get the wrong idea either. | |
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| Do women understand what a
Posted: 9/11/2008 10:25:02 AM | A Fbuddy CAN be a great thing, IF you are both on the same page.
I would like a real loving, close relationship one day, but have had a great time in the meanwhile with a friend of mine whom i find attractivem, but he is the "perpetual bachelor type".
Things can get messy though, so tread carefully, be safe, have fun | |
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Posted: 9/11/2008 10:33:58 AM | | I understand what the term is.I think though that it would be better to have a fwb Friend with benefits. I just don't wanna meet and hop in the sheets. I wanna go to the movies,dinner and THEN hop in the sheets. I think that friends go to movies together, and dinner. SO...why can't f-buddies? We've all got itches to scratch so why not have friendship too? | |
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| Do women understand what a
Posted: 9/12/2008 10:51:42 AM |
SO...why can't f-buddies? We've all got itches to scratch so why not have friendship too?
Makes perfect sense to me, but have you ever known a couple who have an emense sexual attraction for each other, have passionate sex, but can't stand each other personally? I have. | |
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| Do women understand what a
Posted: 1/6/2009 10:12:09 AM | | No. It's proven, I just don't get it what it takes to be a **** buddy. I have to like a person to **** them. Maybe I need to **** a few random fools and try it with someone I really don't like. Or maybe I just need to sit my ass at home and forget it. I just don't get it. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 3:05:56 PM | | It does go both ways..the whole concept seems a bit strange to me..like maybe there is an underlying problem if someone's only interaction with another is to get off. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 3:17:21 PM | If u don't "get it".......then don't do it.
Why of why does there have to be "underlying problems"?
Why can't normal, healthy people have a healthy sex life without being in a relationship? | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 3:20:44 PM | MsVicki, I respectfully suggest that you might have a mental health problem. Please stop jumping on everything I say. It serves no purpose except to make you look bitter and angry. Think happy thoughts. OK? lol | |
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Posted: 1/6/2009 3:28:41 PM | Me......the one with a mental problem
Do you have any idea how to have a discussion?
you said:It does go both ways..the whole concept seems a bit strange to me..like maybe there is an underlying problem if someone's only interaction with another is to get off.
YOU implied that people that engage in a sexual relationship with being in a loving relationship has "underlying problems"
So, I asked:Why of why does there have to be "underlying problems"?
Why can't normal, healthy people have a healthy sex life without being in a relationship?
and then u resorted to the only way u seem to know how to react when someone asks you to explain yourself....by flaming.
(throw in the fact u started a thread about others flaming you........)
Why do you have such an issue with people disagreeing with your view....and wanting a simple explanation? Why do u consider yourself "jumped on" just because I questioned why u felt that way. Paranoid much? | |
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| Do women understand what a
Posted: 1/6/2009 3:53:24 PM | everyone has a dif idea of f-buddy...I find that most men want a woman they
can call WHEN THEY want...and ot get off in 10 minutes..
I want an f-buddy who will come when I CALL
too....polarity sex and a looooooooooong session | |
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| Do women understand what a
Posted: 3/1/2009 2:48:15 PM | | Of course we do, it's just old fashioned dating. People just put that label on it so they don't have to grow up and they don't have to worry about hurting someone, cause it's all on the table....I've known people to be very good friends and screw around too, but one or the other always had feelings that never surfaced because of the "rules" of being a buddy. It's bullshit if you ask me. If you want to screw around, do it - have fun and quit trying to find meaning in all of it. | |
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