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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 10/31/2006 12:44:46 AM | Amandalin,,I read your message,,,than I looked at your profile,,,we have NEVER met,,,NOR would I be intrested in doing so,,,the tone,the wording,,of your message and your profile is so negative,,yet shallow,,,I think an example of your problem you have is refering to anybody about them being a "whore-just an online whore" shows you have no class,,,and respect,,,even if I met someone,,,regardless of what they said,,or look like,,,,for what ever reasons,,,I would NEVER refer them to such disrespect,low class expressions,,, they maybe just who they turned out to be,,,,yet to resort to acting and refering to them also demonstrates you did not take the time or make a real effort to learn more about them before your LEAPED.....In Fishing on this site,,,maybe you would be happier if you changed your bait,,as its the lure that your using seems to be bringing you the wrong fish,,,, | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 10/31/2006 7:45:20 AM | Hey Cindy O ,,Ya be right,,Its a silly line outa an old Tom T. Hall song. And probably would'nt take all three of the first things to land the Old Guy in the hospital. But If it was somethin that I wanted, the hospital thing would not stop me from goin fer it..
And you noticed I did not specifically mention sex. Although many if not most men are just looking fer sex.. Iam not. I want more, and I will wait.. Its been over five years now and me patience is not even startin to wear down..
I was married to the only woman I have ever had sex with..This seems to frighten off women..
~Well I be a-little bit different,,so I understand it will take time to find someone who likes me for who I am. And can appreciate a true one woman man..
~Kowboys Gone | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 10/31/2006 7:56:53 AM | HOKIE SMOKES ! I hope the nice young mans opinion of women with children doesn't reflect the majority??? Children should be seen as blessings not burdens. If you really Love the woman,,,How could you not love the children? I guess that could be another Thread EH!
Kowboy~ | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 10/31/2006 8:29:22 AM | Ahhh it is the feeling of being wanted / needed / loved / cheerished / and Knowing you are the one and only // and of course good sex with a beautiful woman /and everone has a different opion of beautiful :) not necc a number 10 either
and of course I cannot speak for all but do speak for me seeking a true and genuine relationship that maybe will last for a lifetime /// now are we on the same page ? does that help you in ur quest for some real knowledge of a good man and HIS wants | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 10/31/2006 5:18:02 PM |
I was married to the only woman I have ever had sex with..This seems to frighten off women..
Then you need to quit dating such foolish women. Smart ones would treasure a man with your values.
Cindy O | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 10/31/2006 6:50:16 PM | This is what I'm looking for
I want a lady who is both introverted and extroverted, meaning can have a good time staying in or going out. I like a girl who is flirty with me but also has self-respect. Also, I want a women who is confident but not arrogant.
If a relationship were to develop I would like a woman who is willing to spend a lot of time with me doing things whether it's just watching a movie, having good conversation, going for a walk etc. Also, there MUST be a physical connection. Am I looking for sex per se? I can wait to go that far, but like I said, there must be some physical attraction. Kissing is super important to me, must be a good kisser, and someone who likes to kiss A LOT.
I'm really picky when it comes to the ladies when dealing with a relationship. A friendship I can have with just about anyone.
I can be much more specific but maybe it will be best not too on here.
rj | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 11/1/2006 1:36:17 PM | Apparently, the impossible.
A soul honest to herself.
A partner to share life with, the good times and more importantly, the bad.
Someone to stand by your side no matter what.
Someone who is proud of you. Supportive, loving and caring.
Someone who makes me feel needed, wanted.
Someone I will always know to be there. | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 11/1/2006 7:01:49 PM | | You know that is a very good question!!!!!!!!! I think if you get really blessed you'll find someone that is looking for you... | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 11/2/2006 8:38:17 AM | message#51 "nice guy" my a##, is talking out his keister, some guys do like kids, no they dont wanna pay for them put love them just tha same, go find God.... | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 11/6/2006 4:48:57 AM | The biggest mistake a LADY could make is thinking "men are looking for models""flaws",, your not my type,,yet if I may offer some advice,,,men seek the same as a lady,,,to be emotionaly and physcialy forfilled,,,as it takes both aspects to have full romance,,,,its not the "model"in JUST the physcial beauty,,,as I have met some who feel all it takes is looks,,,its how you carry yourself,,how you express yourself,,how you communicate,how you seek to share life,humor,,,, as for being "abstinent",,so many references to God,,,such beliefs are highly respected,,yet at a cost,," when one is so worried about being "abstinet" its like waving a flag in anothers face,,to deny both aspects of romance,is like holding back other secrets,,,like the phycial beauty of being able to satisify fully,,,it also gives the impression of "rationing emotions,appreaciating,sharing",,such causes a man to wonder do you have the worldy experiences to share the wonderful beauty of the physcial aspects supported with the emotional aspects,,,or will everything be "when you feel like it",,,As for God,,,mature men have beliefs,,yet to hear Godly this,Godly that,,,is if most men seem ungodly to you,,,yet I do not fault you,,,I ask you that it might be better if you got to know someone first without "ramming ABSTINET & GOD down their throat",,I think if you do they can discover you and learn about you,,,because "saving yourself" is something a teenager can only claim,,,or do you put a limit and ask the guy how many ladies he may "have known",,or how close he can slow dance with you,,or limit his feelings for your sake,,,,flaws can be a burden that turns away the very man you seek,,,
I wish you well,,,we all have our thoughts,,flaws,,yet to be open minded,open hearted,honest, is a balance of life,
Do you wear "lipstick", do those in your church wear lipstick? Do you know how lipstick came into being,,,,the Egyptians LADIES before the time of Christ used it signal men of the royal court they enjoyed and sought ORAL SEX,,,look at cultures history,look at facts,look at life,, | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 11/6/2006 4:13:00 PM | Be grateful you didn't spend any more time with these losers. This is a process, it's going to take a while to find the right person.
Ok, but what do guys really want? Sex, food, then wanting to show off the fact that they have someone giving them both food and sex. This way all the lies they've been telling for years about both women and food will have seemed to be true. Then someone to do their laundry. Sex, food, laundry, followed by companionship.
But romance is a compromise, so in exchange for food, sex, etc., they get to listen to the stories of your day, and appear to be really interested. After a bit, most men get so dependent on you, that you can mold them like putty.
Hang in there, you'll find the right person. | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 11/6/2006 10:00:53 PM | It sounds like you and I have a lot of similar ideas about love and life. I am tired of men that want to just jump into bed after a date or two. I want to get to know someone...what is the rush! I want someone special in my life...a best friend, a sould mate...I want it all! I want to get huge butterflies in my stomache at just the thought of him. I want to share with him...spoil him...tease him, etc.! I want to have him hold me in his arms while dancing and not be able to keep my eyes off of his...and yes intelligent conversation about everything and anything...I want him to accept me totally without judging me just as I will him. I want to share music, wine, good times and bad, all that life has to offer and if you meant what you wrote you interest me! LOL!   | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 11/7/2006 8:29:19 PM | | I like how u think. and if there were more men like u there would be better role models in this world and less, is that my baby daddy crap. I want to find somone to spend the rest of my life with and at one point i did want to give up because i was always hurt and disapointed. But I know that God has a plan for his children who follow him. And I know that he will definately bless men like u in the end. | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 11/8/2006 8:13:01 PM | | I had commented a few weeks ago about this guy I met on here-WELL- turns out...........................just go look for yourself under user search(lakecharlevoixsailor)!! | |
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| jim
Posted: 11/9/2006 7:03:38 AM | sex and more sex | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 11/9/2006 7:10:53 AM | Woooooow Amanda! I am sooooooo sorry that that loser played you like that. 
I think i read that this is your first dating site? Please dont let this really rotten experience deter you. Yeah its true that there really are some real jerks out there (and there are women jerks too) just like there are any where else as well, BUT,,,there are some great men also. Just gotta weed thru the bad ones before you get yourself a good one.
Again,,wow,,,really sorry to hear about your experience, but i give you a ^5 for the warning! | |
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Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 72 | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 11/10/2006 6:49:58 AM | | Not all men are just out for sex. Being one of the few good men, I find that most women perfer the 'badboy' type of guy instead of the gentlemanly nice guy. Fact is...being a nice guy is a curse. I am of a true heart, very romantic and love to spoil the woman. In my heart, she will always be special, my #1 in everyway....for her to love, cherished, romanced and happy will bring me happiness as long as she's also a giver. But...I give without expectation and by example her will open her heart. Most women have been in a broken relationship, controlled or hurt in one way or another. Those walls they build up make it very hard for a nice guy to break in and show them that there are one or two nice guys life. Since they have the walls...the are attracted to the badboy knowing they will be hurt again or used, because that's what they are use too. The badboy cannot go deeper, he is incapable of deep romantic love because he live for lust. If a woman truely wants a romantic, loving happy relationship....look past the badboy and pick the romantic gentleman sitting over there in the corner. | |
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Joined: 10/31/2006
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 11/10/2006 8:02:42 AM | How about someone who doesn't watch soap operas, movies, DVDs all day, and then goes to the local malls to waste more time shopping for things they only wear 4 or 5 times ?
When they're not watching TV, they read a zillion books about nothin'.
Men need some excitement too, trying new activities, travelling across town to eat something they never tried yet, perhaps seeing a "unique" independent film at The Main in Royal Oak, skip the DIA and visit one of hundred different art shops/galleries in the Detroit Metro Area, etc. etc.
Any women out there that can fix all their own stuff, cook better than anyone on TV, and have some confidence in who they are in the world ? | |
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| What exactly are men looking for?????
Posted: 11/10/2006 12:57:07 PM | | I would love to comment on this. First of all most men are just what everyone thinks they are, PIGS! It's the stereo typical male, that makes it difficult for guys like me, to even have a fair shot in new relationship. I have had the same problem with some women. They post what they want, or what they are looking for, but it's not alway's true. The problem here is, that not everyone is being 100% honest! They post what they want others to think. I don't get it! Not a way to start any relationship. Either do it right from the start. or don't do it at all. Everything on my profile, comes from my heart. | |
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