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| why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 3/28/2005 4:02:26 PM | | Personally, I don't date "pretty boys". I tend to be more attracted to faces with character. Maybe even considered rough. I also find myself more attracted to tall skinny men. A man does look sexy in a tux but I think they look just as sexy in jeans and a t-shirt :). I am a country girl so that may have a lot to do with it. What catches my eye first is a man's smile and eyes. If the smile is genuine and the eyes smile with him I am hooked lol. | |
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| why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 3/29/2005 10:24:05 AM | | Because thats what society dictates and a majority of women (and men) follow what society dictates instead of coming up with their own ideas and such. Its those exceptions you wanna look for!! They are out there, I have known a few in my life! And believe me, when youf ind one, hang on tight (but not too tight, she may not dig that!). | |
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| why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 3/30/2005 12:11:02 PM | Well, maybe looks aren't the deciding factor in a woman's choices,but I know that all the women who take one look at me never look back. That's worried me some. At first I thought it was the way I smell, but they are never standing down wind of me when they look, so it can't be that.
Then I thought maybe it was because when I wear my pants too tight there's no serious me to consider in front or back. Naw, can't be that because I always put three pairs of socks in the front and wear those nifty hip looking plastic ass bumps in the back that I fasten with a string around my waist.
Then I thought it was my gummy smile because I lost my false teeth here a while back. It can't be that though; I always keep my mouth shut when I'm out. Besides, those very rare women who have enjoyed my attention in the bedroom tell me what I can do without teeth is simply wonderful. Course the last time I got the chance to show my prowess was a couple decades ago, maybe modern women don't find a toothless male who can create a surprisingly interesting vacuum with his mouth all that interesting.
Finally I was sure of it. Momma made me ugly and women that look at me are disgusted that such a terrible looking man can exist. Shucks, guess no lady is ever going to get the chance to nourish upon my dynamically bad personality.
The devil made me do it.
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| why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?*J*???
Posted: 4/2/2005 11:05:04 PM |  Well BUb,it's like this you have either got LOOK's or PERSONALITY,you may not be able to do much about your LOOK's,but your PERSONALITY can only get better...(-;
 If your overly nice they tend to walk all over you and if your too much of a tough guy,they will have nothing to do with you... ...See women are for the most part fickle,they don't know what they want...(-;
 So it's up to us humble men folk to show them,you got to be funny,be intresting,be inteligent,be goofy,BUT BE NOTICED!!! and most of all BE YOURSELF...(-;
 It's always going to be feast of famin,so try to choose well...(-;  
 GOOD LUCK...(-;  | |
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| why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 12:28:24 AM | Here is the actual answer to your question
Woman don't really have a choice in what they find attractive and they don't even realize it. It is programmed into their genes. When they decide upon a mate, several factors come into play. Things such as, will he be able to sire good offspring? Will he be able to raise these children? Does he have the means to support these children?
I work with some pretty highend people. Not all the guys could be considered the least bit attractive. But, they do have some very hot looking women. What they do have going for them is confidence. They dress well and have a great haircut ( not like me.....lol). They are very outgoing. The most successful that I have met seem to take the time to listen to you.
You seem to have the listening part down. Maybe work on the confidence part and you will be ok.
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| why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 6:23:44 AM | but it still sucks i think i am ugly but everytime I have dated a woman she was really beautiful
if i fall in love then i get my heart ripped out
there is a woman on here that is breathtakingly beautiful
makes my heart pound my hands sweat and thats just her beauty
and I would love to get to know her over time but she responds to my letter by
get lost loser your having a midlife crisis
so when she marries a loser that will lick her for two minutes instead of two hours
when she is divorced in five years
then she wont be so dam hot now will she
life has a way of doing that
if you date a woman that wants you cause your so dam handsome
chances are when someone more handsome comes along
she wont be there anyways
look i have been depressed for ten years
thought about ending it hundreds of times
but i didnt
i kept going
now my attitude is this there are some hot woman on here
that can fly a kite cause they aint never going to have a man that can be a lover
just losers that want to blank them
so as far as I am concerned I am glad i am ugly
at least when i do get a woman I will know she wants me for who i am and how good i can lick it. | |
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| why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 6:28:03 AM | self image and body image are two different things
I have alot of confidence in who i am
but its woman that make a man feel ugly
you can only approach so many woman
with a smashing attitude that are rude and mean
before it affects how you view yourself
but as far as who i am i am a dam good and kind man
and the little hotties can eat there own crap when the losers they date cheat leave or divorce them | |
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| why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 6:30:41 AM | crap I have been raising four children alone for ten years
so good father
provider
nice guy
all thats out the window
they want money they want to be able to have the weekend fling
while hubby is out golfing
why the heck do you think DEsperate HOusewives is so popular?
YOU think the woman like looking a Nicolette Sheridans fine ass in a bikini?
no they like dreaming of the passion
and watching the little witch committ ADULTERY | |
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| why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 6:40:28 AM | Reality check...Singledad, rejection hurts...but that is really cynical...and heading toward anger at all women for being "too shallow" to do what you want them to.
Again, you are angry because they will not do what you want them to do, (that is, love you, sleep with you, date you). Now we're all *****es, especially the beautiful ones.
I admire your perserverence, and committment to taking care of your kids...BUT, what would you say if some guy called your daughter (if you have one) a ***** cause she wouldnt pay him attention, or love him up? Bet you would be tempted to kick some a**.
Whoever that beautiful lady is, she owes you nothing.
Thank about that.
That's plain scary. | |
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| why do looks have to be so much of deciding factor in womans choices?
Posted: 4/3/2005 3:06:56 PM | its only cynical to women.all u girls look at it from a 3rd party prospective.not a 1st.women want seccessful,hot,guys and lovers.they usauly go for hot losers that still think 5 minutes of sex is real love making.Seccess is built over time,unless your a kennedy,or just blessed.by 35 things should be going ok for you in the money dept,if not.you probley wont be any thing any way.and there are girls that dont mind that.looks wise,99 % of all women are shallow,its just a fact.deal with it guys.the other 1 percent are just out of bad relationships and rebounding.Thats not to say a very low uncountable group arent looking for better not perfect.better is a good thing.most women ive dated in my past would bed me while looking for mr perfect.they figure,at least the sex is good.and one woman went as far as to buy me diner before hand and presents.i felt like the girl.it was kinda cool.lol.bottom line.you want to get laid,even if only one time.come here.you want to meet a nice girl.turn your computer off.go into the world.and meet some one the old fashioned way.they wont come to you guys.go to the.at the grocers,or the gas station,or a park.the beach worked for me when i was younger.And when i was married,its like i had a sign above my head,im married,come do me.i never did them,but it was cool. | |
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